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Topic: Saturn Square Venus
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LuckyStar Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Elysian Fields Registered: Oct 2013
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posted October 23, 2013 10:20 AM
My partner and I have saturn square venus double whammy (large orb) and saturn square venus in composite. Ugggh, any good stories out there on how to learn and conquer as oppose to pack up and leave?IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6296 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted October 23, 2013 03:04 PM
Have you experienced problems in your relationship so far?What are the orbs, exactly? That's very important. IP: Logged |
LuckyStar Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Elysian Fields Registered: Oct 2013
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posted October 23, 2013 06:27 PM
In synastry, both of us have a 7 degree orb applying double whammy to each other.In composite it is exact. I have included the charts. Any insight on how to handle the energy would be fantastic. I'm not a quitter I know karmicly he is one of my soul mates; eros-psyche conjunction and his venus conjunct my north node. However, I am not happy and have attempted to leave him, there is apart of me that cannot leave him though. We are reconciling now and he has been wonderful. I worry this is a honeymoon stage. Synastry: IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6296 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted October 23, 2013 06:57 PM
Oh, girl. Okay, I'll try not to be too blunt here, but that synastry looks empty as heck. No wonder you're not happy. There are tons of unaspected planets - that means that a lot of areas in your life aren't being activated by him (and vice versa) and hence the frustration and dissatisfaction.The attraction here comes from the Venus square Uranus/Pluto (it's very magnetic but usually unhealthy and toxic, yet difficult to let go of) and of course the Venus/NN conjunction, which may make you feel like you're meant to be. But here's your answer: I am not happy and have attempted to leave him. The moment you say that, it's over. At least in my book. You can try and try and try, but if he can't make you happy now, he definitely won't make you happy later on. Take the time to think about it and leave astrology aside for a moment. Listen to yourself. Pay attention to your reactions and to your feelings. I am sure deep down, you know what to do. Good luck ~ IP: Logged |
Cynnared Knowflake Posts: 1061 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 23, 2013 07:38 PM
This aspect would be a deal breaker. I have had it with estranged family members and they thought they were God and rode a high horse, constantly looking down their noses at me and unjustly judging me.....I was the Venus - their saturn squared it.They are not kidding when they say Saturn in cold and distant. A saturn trine or sextile would be better...... IP: Logged |
LuckyStar Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Elysian Fields Registered: Oct 2013
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posted October 23, 2013 10:21 PM
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 6690 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 23, 2013 10:32 PM
There is venus conjunct North Node..Very karmic... Do you think both of you were in this trance together? and you had awakened. Perhaps these years you spent together were fated and now you are free to do as you wish! Enjoy your freedom!! IP: Logged |
jjj Knowflake Posts: 194 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted October 24, 2013 01:55 AM
Choosing moral over love might not be the best choice. Just saying... This friend might be a trigger. The moment people come into our life is always right.IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 1069 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 24, 2013 08:16 AM
You dont have Venus- Saturn square really. 7 degree orbit is too wide to be truely felt. Its the numerous unaspected planets including your Sun and Moon that are feefeeling neglected and unheard. IP: Logged |
Cynnared Knowflake Posts: 1061 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 26, 2013 11:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by LuckyStar: We have been married 15 years and have 2 children. I filed for divorce in July and he was beside himself. He does not want a divorce and we are seeing a counselor that is really good who is working closely with us. Over the last year I had become very close to a male friend. It was an emotional connection but he wanted it at a deeper level. I felt in love again but I would not let it turn physical. It could of just been the blush of finally feeling heard, finally being validated. It made me wonder what am I doing? I prefer my friend as a friend only, we share a lovely grand trine in synastry it feels fun, lively and cozy too. But, I have no respect for him as a man because he cheated on his ex-wife for 10 years and after being friends with me for 7 - wanted an affair. Totally goes against my morals, I also find him to be a coward to come after a married woman. So no to romance. I wonder if I could feel for my husband what I felt for my friend. Almost like my friend came along and helped me remember why people get married in the first place because I forgot. I do love my husband, I want to extract was is good about Venus square Saturn if any. He is a good man and fits my ideal of a husband but we have this huge elephant sitting in between us at times and I want to shoo the elephant away. I hope someone has ways of dealing with this energy so I can learn to conquer the challenge and reap the benefits. I always say a square is like climbing a mountain. Difficult terrain, sometimes you want to just give up but when you get to the top you are exhilarated and overjoyed at what you accomplished.
Good on you! I deeply respect and admire women like you who don't give cheaters a chance - cause I'm like that too. "If the guy cheats on his wife, sure enough he will cheat on you" kind of thinking! IP: Logged |