posted October 31, 2013 06:52 PM            

The only explanation I can find in my chart is Uranus in the 7th.
I have Moon in Cappy sq Saturn which I suppose would make me like older guys, but nope - at all! lol.

posted October 31, 2013 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Lehia2:
I've always been attracted to younger men. My current boyfriend is 8 years younger.

The only explanation I can find in my chart is Uranus in the 7th.
I have Moon in Cappy sq Saturn which I suppose would make me like older guys, but nope - at all! lol.

He has Moon in Sagittarius and Venus trine Saturn.

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Me too, I like guys who are just a couple years younger than me...I've had a few flirts who was 4-5 years older than me and it didn't work out...I already feel too old myself so a younger boyfriend would make me feel younger too, and that it doesn't have to be so serious yet

Uranus touch all my planets except pluto, and venus sextile saturn, neptune and uranus

posted November 01, 2013 06:12 PM            

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Who do you think would jump in a relationship with a much older/or younger person?Placements aspects ect

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I have with both. Biggest age gap was older. I forget exactly what the age gap was, though. I just remember that it was equidistant to my parent's age as it was my own.

Really, I think lots of aspects could contribute to this. I probably was ok with older because I'm a Capricorn with Saturn in the first (and Saturn opposite Venus if that means anything).

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posted November 02, 2013 12:50 AM            

Personally, I'd contribute it to venus opposite saturn (which I have and, yes, I do like guys that are older than me).

I can't date a guy who is the same age or younger than me, it weirds me out. I feel as though I'm much different and have been through much more than most my own age and I want someone who can relate to the experiences of life. I've never been the type of person to really get on well with my own age crowd, I've always gotten along much better with people older than me. I don't have much in common with my age group, I tend to have more in common with people who are older and I can relate better with them as well.

To me, if it feels right, then the age won't matter and I'll wind up forgetting that the person is older than me and they wind up forgetting I'm younger than them. I feel like that's what a "peer" is, someone you feel on the same level with in many ways and can relate with.

Also, I admire and want someone who understands the transformations and hardships and has been through things in love and life. I want someone with maturity, who understands that power games, fights and sex are not things that make a relationship. I want someone who is mature enough to be able to sit down and talk about things like a rational adult.

Often times, younger people haven't experienced things in depth as someone older has and I see that as kind of odd to me.

I don't want anyone's money nor do I have daddy issues, it's just that when I meet someone I "click" with the aspect of age disappears, it doesn't seem to happen with younger people though.

posted November 02, 2013 09:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Abc333:
Huh, this is an interesting topic.

Personally, I'd contribute it to venus opposite saturn (which I have and, yes, I do like guys that are older than me).

I can't date a guy who is the same age or younger than me, it weirds me out. I feel as though I'm much different and have been through much more than most my own age and I want someone who can relate to the experiences of life. I've never been the type of person to really get on well with my own age crowd, I've always gotten along much better with people older than me. I don't have much in common with my age group, I tend to have more in common with people who are older and I can relate better with them as well.

To me, if it feels right, then the age won't matter and I'll wind up forgetting that the person is older than me and they wind up forgetting I'm younger than them. I feel like that's what a "peer" is, someone you feel on the same level with in many ways and can relate with.

Also, I admire and want someone who understands the transformations and hardships and has been through things in love and life. I want someone with maturity, who understands that power games, fights and sex are not things that make a relationship. I want someone who is mature enough to be able to sit down and talk about things like a rational adult.

Often times, younger people haven't experienced things in depth as someone older has and I see that as kind of odd to me.

I don't want anyone's money nor do I have daddy issues, it's just that when I meet someone I "click" with the aspect of age disappears, it doesn't seem to happen with younger people though.

I'm sure ya'll get what I'm saying.

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posted November 02, 2013 09:55 AM            

I don't have any Saturn contacts to any of the "relationship" planets, but I do have a square to the Sun and a trine to my Ascendant. Capricorn is also on my 5th house cusp, which could indicate this, I suppose. My Venus is sextile Uranus, though, so perhaps that signifies the "unusual"?

More commonly, I like to explain this by the fact that I usually run from indifferent to irritated by men in my peer group (18-25). I have a theory that the more generational planets (Saturn, Uranus, Neptune) that ran through late Capricorn during the 1988-1996 period, all squaring my Sun, has set me up for disappointment with that group, haha

I don't care for younger men, particularly.

posted November 02, 2013 11:41 AM            

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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:

I just don't like this ''swag'' and stuff of my generation,makes me want to throw up.

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posted November 02, 2013 11:44 AM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
I have Venus trine Saturn and Saturn in H7 and older people aren't interesting to me...I mean, I guess I might be open to that if it ever came to that, but I have eyes for hot, young, fit people like myself...

Given my age group, anyone younger than me is kind of illegal, so that's out.

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Moon in Libra
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posted November 02, 2013 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
Who do you think would jump in a relationship with a much older/or younger person?Placements aspects ect

And what is your opinion about those relationships?

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posted November 02, 2013 12:15 PM            

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Originally posted by LoVeLy:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
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I just don't like this ''swag'' and stuff of my generation,makes me want to throw up.

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posted November 02, 2013 12:59 PM            

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Originally posted by LoVeLy:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
[b] Who do you think would jump in a relationship with a much older/or younger person?Placements aspects ect

And what is your opinion about those relationships?

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posted November 02, 2013 08:44 PM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
As I have Venus Conjunct Saturn, older men always get my attention, and yes, I'd jump into a relationship with them!

For the younger, I guess Venus with Uranus.

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yeah ive dated down and up.
up - most was 13 years.
down - 2 years.

posted November 02, 2013 09:06 PM            

DSC in Capricorn

Saturn in the 4th

Mars conjunct saturn
Saturn conjunct pluto
Mercury trine saturn

I think i tend to look for a father figure in boyfriends.

posted November 02, 2013 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Abc333:
I've always considered the venus/ uranus opposition to be jumping into relationships to quickly. I have that aspect going on as well as the venus/ saturn opposition.

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posted November 03, 2013 02:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Krista_Kay_1993:
I have venus opposing urans/neptune, and i am involved with an "older man" :X

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posted November 03, 2013 02:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
When i was 21 I dated s hot 40 year old Scorpio man lol.

DSC in Capricorn

Saturn in the 4th

Mars conjunct saturn
Saturn conjunct pluto
Mercury trine saturn

I think i tend to look for a father figure in boyfriends.

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what was it like,if I may ask?

posted November 03, 2013 03:14 PM            

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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
what was it like,if I may ask?

I think I have the same ''issue''.I don't always do it but I like feeling ''secure'' in some weird way.

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I was scared because he was very intense and much older. But i wanted him so badly!!

I ended up pushing him away. Not because of the age thing but because my dog died and i was depressed.

By the time i tried to come back he had moved on. Ended up marrying this woman and has 2 daughters now. He didnt marry her right away though.