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IrisRainbow
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posted October 31, 2013 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IrisRainbow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Who do you think would jump in a relationship with a much older/or younger person?Placements aspects ect

And what is your opinion about those relationships?

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DaniPepper87
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posted October 31, 2013 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As I have Venus Conjunct Saturn, older men always get my attention, and yes, I'd jump into a relationship with them!

For the younger, I guess Venus with Uranus.

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Doux RÍve
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posted October 31, 2013 01:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux RÍve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Exactly.

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Kerosene
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posted October 31, 2013 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hear saturn in the 7th.
Venus/saturn
Moon/saturn for men.
Not sure about younger.
In general men like younger women so...

As far as I'm concerned people can do who they wish.

I have friends significantly older than me but I've always been intimidated being with someone who is on a completely different stage in life..

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IrisRainbow
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posted October 31, 2013 02:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IrisRainbow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus Trine Uranus and Venus Sextile Saturn lol
I have always been attracted to older men(Well not creepy old men that are like 40 o.o) because they seem smarter but it depends on the person,I guess.
I just don't like this ''swag'' and stuff of my generation,makes me want to throw up.

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somethingexcellent
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posted October 31, 2013 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn is the automatic older planet thing...but I imagine Mercury or Moon for younger, no? Idk...

Uranus is more of a wildcard in my experience, not necessarily younger.

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popcorn
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posted October 31, 2013 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I was young and my childrens father was 5 and 7 years older than me. Today I never ever will be attracted to an older man..Just now I feel equal to the men who are 5-10 years younger than me. We women lives seven year longer than men so I also think there is an natural thing that women often changes their mind when they get older. Ive seen young women married older men and they often been very unhappy when they been older...Of course not everyone.

Ive venus trine saturn

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IrisRainbow
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posted October 31, 2013 02:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IrisRainbow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not talking about marriage here but I see where you're coming from.

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I'm so cappy
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posted October 31, 2013 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've never been interested in younger guys. It's hard for me to even imagine myself with one, at least now. Peers? I'm not saying never. Older men? What can I say, they have like 95% of my attention. But what do you mean by much older exactly? 15? 20? 30? I guess I would have doubts about someone who's 20+ years older than me. But if it seemed like we are very compatible, have a lot in common etc. then I would probably go for it

This is what I suppose makes me so:
Capricorn stellium (Sun, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune, NN)
Venus conjunct Saturn (wide though)
Moon square Saturn
Mars trine Saturn

What's funny, my friend who was born a week before me is into younger, sometimes even much younger guys (which weirds me out) so Cap dominance might not be enough


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DaniPepper87
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posted October 31, 2013 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Saturn is the automatic older planet thing...but I imagine Mercury or Moon for younger, no? Idk...

Uranus is more of a wildcard in my experience, not necessarily younger.


Have to agree, Uranus is a wildcard. I met one 3 years younger... And very Uranian \o/

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Doux RÍve
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posted October 31, 2013 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux RÍve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm with Caps on this one.
Hardly ever pay attention to people my age; not even mentioning younger people.

I'm sure it's all about my daddy issues.

Although, I'm definitely open to suggestions from younger people - "never say never" and all that.

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IrisRainbow
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posted October 31, 2013 02:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IrisRainbow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I've never been interested in younger guys. It's hard for me to even imagine myself with one, at least now. Peers? I'm not saying never. Older men? What can I say, they have like 95% of my attention. But what do you mean by much older exactly? 15? 20? 30? I guess I would have doubts about someone who's 20+ years older than me. But if it seemed like we are very compatible, have a lot in common etc. then I would probably go for it

This is what I suppose makes me so:
Capricorn stellium (Sun, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune, NN)
Venus conjunct Saturn (wide though)
Moon square Saturn
Mars trine Saturn

What's funny, my friend who was born a week before me is into younger, sometimes even much younger guys (which weirds me out) so Cap dominance might not be enough


I have a very heavy saturn influence and obviously...daddy issues as well so that might be why I like older men :P
Well,I find 20-year-old girls with 50-year-old men just too..weird o.0 I can deal with about 20 years difference but not more

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I'm so cappy
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posted October 31, 2013 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha. Daddy issues rule

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posted October 31, 2013 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus trine Saturn and Saturn in H7 and older people aren't interesting to me...I mean, I guess I might be open to that if it ever came to that, but I have eyes for hot, young, fit people like myself...

Given my age group, anyone younger than me is kind of illegal, so that's out.

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I'm so cappy
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posted October 31, 2013 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah...The girl I mentioned didn't mind to fool around with a 14 year-old I can't wrap my head around it.

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IrisRainbow
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posted October 31, 2013 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IrisRainbow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Haha. Daddy issues rule


No sh*t

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Kerosene
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posted October 31, 2013 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dunno actors actresses in there 30's are pretty hot, i'd say hotter than most 20 year olds.
I've seen people in their late 30's that are much more attractive than my age group ....
I'm not attracted to hipster girls and swag fags

I can appreciate it but realistically it would probably be awkward unless it's a bang bang see you later situation.

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posted October 31, 2013 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IrisRainbow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I dunno actors actresses in there 30's are pretty hot, i'd say hotter than most 20 year olds.
I've seen people in their late 30's that are much more attractive than my age group ....
I'm not attracted to hipster girls and swag fags

I can appreciate it but realistically it would probably be awkward unless it's a bang bang see you later situation.


Now that you mentioned actors... Jensen from SPN and Ian Somerhalder are two very good examples-drools-

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posted October 31, 2013 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Kerosene: I can appreciate it but realistically it would probably be awkward unless it's a bang bang see you later situation.

Lmfao! Which is just the way I liked it.

No but really celebrities are untouchable, so I don't care for them. I mean, there are a few I suppose I consider celebrity crushes...but I don't see the point in being invested in them, I guess.

It's not hot to me if when I go to touch it, it's just a computer/television screen!

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posted October 31, 2013 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Same here.. actors are untouchable, bad example.

I dunno my boss is really hot...
Mid 30's single
Aries/Aqua moon
Successful, ambitious, and smart..
I'm totally thinking of all the sexual things I would do while I should be working.

I'm just the intern....

I don't want to ever feel like I'm less, or that I'm lucky to be with this person, you know what I mean? Younger person with an older person does not seem equal... I like equality in relationships, isn't that what a partnership is about?

That's why I don't go after people significantly older than me.

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posted October 31, 2013 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
I'm not talking about marriage here but I see where you're coming from.

Not me either... the point was age gap.. Where do you think I coming from?

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ELoveCherishEndure
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posted October 31, 2013 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ELoveCherishEndure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
I hear saturn in the 7th.
Venus/saturn
Moon/saturn for men.
Not sure about younger.
In general men like younger women so...

As far as I'm concerned people can do who they wish.

I have friends significantly older than me but I've always been intimidated being with someone who is on a completely different stage in life..


I agree... I would find it really difficult to date a man in his 30s. It just would be awkward for me. I don't know what we would have in common. It just would make no sense to date someone who is that much older in my case. I guess it is because I have a sister that is five years older and it feels extremely weird to date someone older than her.

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posted October 31, 2013 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ELoveCherishEndure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I've never been interested in younger guys. It's hard for me to even imagine myself with one, at least now. Peers? I'm not saying never. Older men? What can I say, they have like 95% of my attention. But what do you mean by much older exactly? 15? 20? 30? I guess I would have doubts about someone who's 20+ years older than me. But if it seemed like we are very compatible, have a lot in common etc. then I would probably go for it

This is what I suppose makes me so:
Capricorn stellium (Sun, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune, NN)
Venus conjunct Saturn (wide though)
Moon square Saturn
Mars trine Saturn

What's funny, my friend who was born a week before me is into younger, sometimes even much younger guys (which weirds me out) so Cap dominance might not be enough


Damn that is a whole lot of Saturn there. Maturity is no issue in your case. I agree about peers, though. It is very hard to find peers who are on the same level as women when they're young.

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Ellynlvx
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posted October 31, 2013 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus on the South Node sometimes denotes something out of time, or off on the timing like that.

Synastry-wise, if I'm remembering right...

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posted October 31, 2013 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have cap venus conjunct 1st house saturn, moon square saturn, and I've never been attracted to much older or younger men. I usually like to play with my peers lol. Often, the limit is 5 years older than me or 1-2 years younger than me.

I sometimes find myself drawn to people who are much older than me coz I often see them as "older and wiser", I love listening to their stories, experiences and such.

My opinion??? Hmm I think it's ok if people fall in love, it's their business. But relationships with a big age difference are not for me.

With prominent saturn/capricorn in the chart (sun/venus/asc/saturn/uranus/neptune/NN), I sometimes attract much older men, heh. I find it weird, like "Uncle, go play with someone your age, geez".

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