posted November 01, 2013 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Good post, next to neptune.
And congrats for the great synastry with your SO.

I personally think that there's something quite special about Sun/Moon aspects in synastry, yes.

It's hard to explain, but there's something very "basic", kind of... "natural" in such contacts - makes you feel like you belong with that person, that you can be yourself - a sort of natural bond.

It's not usually sexual or romantic per se, but more like a "coming home" type of feeling.

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Couldn't agree more with this.

Question though, regarding Moon-Moon; if one, or both individuals have a somewhat to seriously afflicted Moon in their natal, would that make this aspect less comfortable/difficult in synastry?

posted November 01, 2013 04:07 PM            

It would definitely be more challenging, I think.

So it may not work on the long-term.

posted November 01, 2013 04:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Which is the Sun, and how are they aspected in each chart?

I would venture to say that aspects are important.

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posted November 01, 2013 04:18 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
This may sound creepy, but I experience this ^ exactly.

How did it end for you, Ceridwen? For me, I got respectfully turned down, with lots of reassuring on his part what an awesome friend I was and how hooking up could potentially destroy our friendship. Most awkward IM chat I've ever had.

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Sorry to hear that.

posted November 01, 2013 04:35 PM            

I just checked, perhaps, our "in-tune understanding" also comes from
Sun sextile Sun
My Sun sextile his Mercury
His Moon sextile my Mercury

I never really paid attention to Mercury. Everyone always talks about Sun/Moon, but nobody mentions communication.

Actually, my other 2 big relationships, where I had Sun/Moon... in 1 I had my Mercury square all his planets, except for Mars, and in 2nd relationship my Mercury only quintiled his Uranus and sextiled Jupiter...

So yeah, Sun/Moon is very lucrative, but not everything. You obviously need communication. You need Venus. You need Mars.

posted November 01, 2013 05:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Liliya:
@Ceridwen
thank you so much, I sooo love reading your comments, you are one of the wisest people on this forum. I love how you explain everything

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posted November 01, 2013 05:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Sorry to hear that.

I actually never took the risk of rejection, it is all in limbo.

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Honestly, I felt good after we had that talk. Like a weight lifted off my shoulders and I could give him my all as a friend. I have an Aries Mars, so I can't really take limbo for long.

posted November 01, 2013 06:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Liliya:
@Ceridwen
thank you so much, I sooo love reading your comments, you are one of the wisest people on this forum. I love how you explain everything - it really helps a newby, like me

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Thanks, you, two.

posted November 01, 2013 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
I have an Aries Mars, so I can't really take limbo for long.

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Mars in Sag in 12th conjunct Neptune - I am very much at home in limbo. What if the reality was disappointing?
NO we cannot take this risk now, can we?

posted November 01, 2013 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Taineberry:
He is sun, I am moon.... I was shocked when I discovered they were partile. We are worlds apart in our outlook on life.

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My ex had Sun Conjunct Moon with his step-mother, and they didn't get on AT ALL, but I think they were both afflicted, Grand Cross on his side, for sure.

It was Leo, too.

Packed Powerhouse, ha.

AND FIXED!!!

posted November 01, 2013 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by KAMcA10:
Based on my limited experience I'd say the Sun person is going to regard the Moon person as being not quite good enough for them at first and the Moon person is going to know it.

I (a male) find that when I take an interest in a woman born in mid September (near my moon at 14 Virgo), she finds it very easy to give short shrift to my advances if she has any inclination to do so.

When I've managed to get together with them, occasionally they have been completely blown away and almost apologetic about not realizing it earlier.

I could imagine that for some men being the Moon person is a neat challenge and an intense aspect to play out, but I find the female being the Sun person and regarding me, the male Moon person as too unimportant to be worthy of their attention at first glance to be pretty unexciting.

When I am the Sun person, sometimes the woman seems ... attractive but not quite attractive enough at first. Whenever I've pursued things I've never regretted it.

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:

That is shockingly true.
I wasn´t crushing so hard at first. Sure I was intrigued, but it was more that it puzzled me that I seemed to gain his attention so effortlessly.
It was not that I thought he was "beneath" me, not at all; but I didn`t think of him as my "type" and I did not think of myself as his type very certainly not.
But wherever I was, he seemed tosee me, seemed to know where I was, when I entered a room. Maybe just my imagination, but I felt very very visible, and it made me also feel very vulnerable and too much on display.
But I got curious, why he would see me all the time. Why would he even look at me? (my selfconfidence is not the strongest, I gues. lol). Why didn`t my invisibility-cloak (Neptune on ASC) work with him?

So I was intrigued, curious, trying to figure that one out, and over the course, I got more and more fascinated, captivated, until one day I couldn`t deny it anylonger, not even to myself, that I was totally hooked, and that the attention he gave me had started to mean so much to me, that I had started to almost need, but at least crave the warmth in his smile.

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posted November 03, 2013 08:51 AM            

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Originally posted by KAMcA10:
Based on my limited experience I'd say the Sun person is going to regard the Moon person as being not quite good enough for them at first and the Moon person is going to know it.

I (a male) find that when I take an interest in a woman born in mid September (near my moon at 14 Virgo), she finds it very easy to give short shrift to my advances if she has any inclination to do so.

When I've managed to get together with them, occasionally they have been completely blown away and almost apologetic about not realizing it earlier.

I could imagine that for some men being the Moon person is a neat challenge and an intense aspect to play out, but I find the female being the Sun person and regarding me, the male Moon person as too unimportant to be worthy of their attention at first glance to be pretty unexciting.

When I am the Sun person, sometimes the woman seems ... attractive but not quite attractive enough at first. Whenever I've pursued things I've never regretted it.

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I have found myself in this situation with a male who's moon falls on my sun, he chased me for a year and I barely realized it until one day he walked up and asked me if I just hated him or something, I had no idea what he was talking about! But felt really bad for making him feel the way I had made him feel!
Turns out he's amazing and my best friend...I have apologized numerous times for not noticing him and missing it when he tried to get my attention!

posted November 03, 2013 10:59 AM            

You have to know the exact degree of their Sun, and compare that to the degree of your Moon.

Say, your Moon is at 10° Taurus - people who have their Sun at that degree (with an orb of about 5°) make a conjunction to your Moon.

10° Taurus is around May 1st, so you can get an idea of the date that would make the Sun conjunct your Moon.

posted November 03, 2013 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Hanna,

You have to know the exact degree of their Sun, and compare that to the degree of your Moon.

Say, your Moon is at 10° Taurus - people who have their Sun at that degree (with an orb of about 5°) make a conjunction to your Moon.

10° Taurus is around May 1st, so you can get an idea of the date that would make the Sun conjunct your Moon.

I personally believe that orbs matter a lot and when two planets are in the same sign but do not aspect each other, it doesn't have much impact at all.
There can be a slight feeling of appreciation but not a strong reaction like in a conjunction.

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