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Topic: Insecurity
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:56 PM
  
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Again I don't like negative feelings or being around negative people or energy. I don't deny it I just don't like to let myself get too involved in it. Once I'm in a hole there's no digging me out. It's all my body's way of protecting me and my heart. 
I know what you mean. I can relate to this. With Libra, it's important to maintain balance and if you don't, get it back asap, so why worry? It brings about imbalance and that's not the Libra way. I also attribute it to 12th house and Pisces north node. It's my worry free zone so I never worry about anything. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 10:57 PM
You're damn right it's a defense mechanism. I'm a very strong person but when it comes to certain things I get really really low. So how about you eat your own words of sympathy for once and see where I'm coming from and what I mean Cappy just this one time. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7677
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 10:58 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
It's not just about the looks. It's your energy, your attitude and the way a person carries them self.
Lol I don't believe in all the junk about confidence , vibes, and the way one carries themselves. Nobody is always confident or carries themselves in that way. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:00 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Lol I don't believe in all the junk about confidence , vibes, and the way one carries themselves. Nobody is always confident or carries themselves in that way.
I am and do. Are you saying I'm the only person than out of all the people on this earth who feels this way? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5155
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 11:01 PM
In the long run, it is easier to just let go of the things that bother you and get the mindset that if someone has a problem with you, it's their problem and not yours. It will save you headaches if you can get into that way of thinking. You can only control what goes on inside your own mind, no one else's so if someone is having an issue, not much you can do about it.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:02 PM
@SSS I have too much 12th house planets so I understand and know what you mean. If anyone has gone through half as much **** as I've gone through than everyone here would know why I am the way I am IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:03 PM
I don't understand what's so hard about just answering the question instead of making this all so unnecessary. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 11:03 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
@SSS I have too much 12th house planets so I understand and know what you mean. If anyone has gone through half as much **** as I've gone through than everyone here would know why I am the way I am
Actually twelfth house is the worry free one
Sixth is where you go to worry. So, when you are worry free, you are just being in your twelfth house. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7677
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 11:05 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I am and do. Are you saying I'm the only person than out of all the people on this earth who feels this way?
You are kidding yourself. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5155
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 11:06 PM
Aquaguy, it's not as easy for you to let go because you have sun conjunct Saturn in a fixed sign so worry could possibly be a form of self undoing due to the twelfth being involved :s
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Barbiegirl19
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From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:07 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
You are kidding yourself.
Why am I kidding myself? Being happy and smiling is very contagious is it not? I'd rather be that way and make someone else smile than to see them down and sad or what not. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 11:07 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Aquaguy, it's not as easy for you to let go because you have sun conjunct Saturn in a fixed sign so worry could possibly be a form of self undoing due to the twelfth being involved :s
What are you talking about? The twelfth house is filled with worry and misery.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 11:09 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
What are you talking about? The twelfth house is filled with worry and misery.
No, it's opposite the sign and house or worry, Virgo and the sixth. Ideally, it is worry free. Pisces and twelfth are where there aren't any worries. Virgo and sixth are where the worries linger. It becomes misery only because of self undoing, when you let your mind run away, or emotions, drives, what have you, and they ruin your life. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:10 PM
Could explain why I don't worry too much  lol IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5155
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 11:14 PM
Libra coupled with twelve is a good lifetime lesson in finding balance between worry and not worrying. Even though this sign quincunxes Pisces, so the seventh and twelfth houses are, supposedly, really incompatible, the idea of mental composure goes really well with the twelfth house and finding inner peace because the twelfth deals with what is inside.
Great way to think of Libra and the twelfth house is finding and keeping inner peace.
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MsPrism
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:15 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Again I don't like negative feelings or being around negative people or energy. I don't deny it I just don't like to let myself get too involved in it. Once I'm in a hole there's no digging me out. It's all my body's way of protecting me and my heart.
I don't think you're a bad person or anything. I'm responding because I love knowledge and being knowledgeable about oneself is the most important thing. The macrocosm (every person, the universe, etc) is reflected in the microcosm (yourself, every cell that creates you) and to know thyself is to know the world around you. This is a quest we all take when looking for answers in relationship, spirituality, psychology, health, on and on. Defense or protecting your heart is insecurity. IN SECURE or not secure. Your heart is fragile so you protect it, it is not secure. We all protect, defend, secure ourselves with locks on our houses, clothes to cover our bodies, etc. The reason we do this is because we ARE very insecure. This applies on a physical, mental and spiritual level. Maybe we reincarnate because our spiritual self is insecure, not finished, not whole. It's a natural expansion contraction movement. You inhale, you exhale, you leap, you fall, you love the light for doing things, you love the night for relaxing, Sun, Moon, up, down. The natal chart is a great example of this, spirit represents the whole, the circular chart and logic represents the two axis or angular lines. Linear and wholistic. They're both necessary. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:16 PM
Exactly which is why I remain as happy as my little body can stand lol. It makes me happy, it makes my body happy that I'm happy and it rubs off on other people which in return makes everything better IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:18 PM
Okay MsPrism thanks. I know who and what I am. I don't have to or need to defend what I know IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5155
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 11:18 PM
Libra's awesome. I need to become a better Libra in this lifetime, lol. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:20 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Libra's awesome. I need to become a better Libra in this lifetime, lol.
How about just an overall better person Libra is just an added gift IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5155
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 11:23 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
How about just an overall better person Libra is just an added gift
*Nods* for me, balance has been a major component in becoming a better person. I like calmness in myself and others. Whenever everyone is freaking out, including myself, I don't function as well as when everyone is calm. It makes a huge difference. My concentration goes out the window unless there is a lot of mellowness all around. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7677
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 11:24 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Why am I kidding myself? Being happy and smiling is very contagious is it not? I'd rather be that way and make someone else smile than to see them down and sad or what not.
That's all great! Being happy and smiley is the way we should all aspire to be. im just saying that nobody is always going to feel confident about themselves or life. We all have ups and downs and can have great days and bad days. On good days people feel unstoppable and on bad days they feel terrible. From what I have seen most people who preach confidence and positivity have lived fairly easy lives and tend to fall harder when they face adversity. Case and point, I have a good looking friend who never has any trouble finding an attractive girlfriend or a girl to hook up with. Whenever we go out as a group of friends he always hogs all the female attention . He is always hounding me and my friends about how we need to be confident and positive if we wanna get women. Wanna hear something funny? After talking all that sh* t about confidence and positivity my good looking friend got rejected by a girl he liked and he became the most insecure person on the planet. He literally cried like a little girl and called himself ugly. This story i just shared about my friend is a good example of the ups and downs of life. The fact is its easy to be cocky when everything goes your way. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 1857
From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:27 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
*Nods* for me, balance has been a major component in becoming a better person. I like calmness in myself and others. Whenever everyone is freaking out, including myself, I don't function as well as when everyone is calm. It makes a huge difference. My concentration goes out the window unless there is a lot of mellowness all around.
It does for me too. I'm the kind of person who works to make it calm again. I'm a nurturing person and it bothers me when people aren't happy. I will do whatever I have to do to make the problem not a problem anymore. I love mellowness too if only it were like that everywhere
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7677
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 02, 2013 11:29 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
No, it's opposite the sign and house or worry, Virgo and the sixth. Ideally, it is worry free. Pisces and twelfth are where there aren't any worries. Virgo and sixth are where the worries linger. It becomes misery only because of self undoing, when you let your mind run away, or emotions, drives, what have you, and they ruin your life.
If you say so.lol IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: 👾🔮The Moon
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 02, 2013 11:30 PM
@AG True but what's the point in dwelling and getting all miserable about it. There are things in life you can't control but the one thing you can without a doubt is yourself. IP: Logged |
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