posted January 01, 2019 05:27 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Oh you mean Saturn in the 4th house. Sorry "saturn in 4" sounded weird. I was like what is she talking about....

Yes moon square pluto maybe can lead to some trust issues which perhaps leads to you keeping your distance from others altering the regular expression of venus in pisces.

I can't see your chart but there is probably other things that would explain this too. As someone with moon in pisces I am not impersonal, I very much connect deeply with many people, pisces is empathetic and merges with others easily so they don't come off as impersonal unless other things in their chart are making them guarded, distant or distrustful.

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posted January 01, 2019 01:49 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Oh you mean Saturn in the 4th house. Sorry "saturn in 4" sounded weird. I was like what is she talking about....

Yes moon square pluto maybe can lead to some trust issues which perhaps leads to you keeping your distance from others altering the regular expression of venus in pisces.

I can't see your chart but there is probably other things that would explain this too. As someone with moon in pisces I am not impersonal, I very much connect deeply with many people, pisces is empathetic and merges with others easily so they don't come off as impersonal unless other things in their chart are making them guarded, distant or distrustful.

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posted January 01, 2019 01:51 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yes this is very true about Moon square Pluto and defensive. I don't like it when a person tries to get close to me too soon.

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posted January 01, 2019 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
Yeah me neither. It makes me feel suspicious of the person straight away. I like to keep my guard up until I decide it is worth it to put it down and I usually have very good intuition as to who is worth to be let into my life.

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posted January 01, 2019 08:38 PM            

Falling in love is a choice which involves surrender and vulnerability. A choice doesn't mean you say "I choose to fall in love." And magically it happens. You have to say it, and also mean it without a "block" in your energy.

Someone who can't fall in love because they won't allow it, consciously or unconsciously, is more likely the cause. Someone like this has blocks, walls, barriers.

A person who is incapable of falling in love would be more in line with a psychopathic personality or someone who's pathologically affected due to imprinting issues or chemical imbalances.

Most of us are capable. Willing and able are the difference.

Someone who "can't" fall in love would be more like someone who maybe needs to work on and/or acknowledge their wounds: Chiron.
And deal with their fear: Saturn/Capricorn.

I would think the moon also plays a big part in how we allow ourselves to emotionally connect with others, or allow others to bond with us.

posted January 01, 2019 09:41 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Everyone is different some people have a easier time in regards to love. They could be seen as weak or gullible. While others have a harder time I would rather be the way I am. Than to be so open to allow myself to be hurt. I get people telling me all the time how I'm so guarded and defensive etc. How I shouldn't always have my guard up. But who are they to tell me how I should be? We are all our own person.

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Yeah I usually find people who are like that, who are judgmental of discerning individuals, generally have almost a milder version of the 70's feel good swinger "free love" style, doing something for the fun and or pleasure but not thinking about it in a serious way. That's why many call it the "dating game" because for a lot of people, especially youthful ones, it is essentially a game.
Clubs are also known as hunting grounds for people to catch their next meal.
For some, dating a person can be like using a drug. Meanwhile, they really don't think of the consequences.

posted January 01, 2019 09:43 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Everyone is different some people have a easier time in regards to love. They could be seen as weak or gullible. While others have a harder time I would rather be the way I am. Than to be so open to allow myself to be hurt. I get people telling me all the time how I'm so guarded and defensive etc. How I shouldn't always have my guard up. But who are they to tell me how I should be? We are all our own person.

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Yes been guarded has its good things and so does been single and I say yes we are all different and people should let you be, whatever works for you is fine.

posted January 01, 2019 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes been guarded has its good things and so does been single and I say yes we are all different and people should let you be, whatever works for you is fine.

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posted January 02, 2019 12:15 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I don't want to end up being alone though that's the only issue otherwise I'm ok. But when I do open up and let people in. I don't like to let them go and it's extremely hard for me. This is one reason why I don't like letting people in.

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That is your 8th house venus talking now and your moon square pluto too, if you do let someone in you do get very attached . Awww...

I am sure you can find someone to settle down with, just understand it will involve taking a risk and opening up, allowing the other to see your flaws and giving them the chance to accept you anyways. There is an emotional risk but you can go slow and take your time if that feels more comfortable, you can find someone that also likes to go slow but is also looking for a relationship.

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posted January 02, 2019 12:30 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
My boyfriend has moon in Pisces and I don't think he connects with people on such a deep personal level. But I reall do think it has do with culture as well. He is German and they do have a special mentality and don't get close too quickly with people.

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Can I see your boyfriend's chart? Bc I have met quite a few people with moon in pisces and they are all super sweet and from different backgrounds, one is an american lawyer who says all he cares about is if someone has a good heart (which sounds just like me). The other is an Indian guy who use to own a dispensary but he was a bit of a social worker more than a manager giving people jobs people bc he felt bad for their circumstances instead of what was best for his company! He was super sweet and felt bad about killing off the insects in his plants do to his spiritual views. Then a few clients of mine with moon in pisces, one was a kid and one of the sweetest people I have met who is latin and the other an adult woman very warm/engaging/compassionate and hard on herself who also had sun in pisces in addition to moon in pisces, she was Mexican. All these folks are softies. If your boyfriend is not like this I am sure there is a reason why he is not a typical moon in pisces but I would need to SEE his chart.

Pisces dissolves boundaries not the opposite, so distant and aloof is not a pisces thing unless that pisces is burned out and is doing the isolating thing as a survival thing bc they need to recharge and do self-care and that is how pisces does self-care, "alone time." Pisces feels connected to everything, they feel like humans are a big family (I do) and that we are all interconnected.

posted January 05, 2019 12:52 PM            

I have never been able to narrow it down in my chart though. My Venus makes no major aspects, which might have something to do with it... but I'm not at all sure. I also have Vesta prominently placed.