posted November 16, 2013 09:05 AM            

I mean, if you're born with the Moon in Libra for example, wouldn't you have the Moon conjunct Pluto in synastry with everybody born within a certain year or so?

So wouldn't it feel kind of blah or whatever for the planet person?

My ASC is at 7 Libra and I tend to attract men born in 1975/1976.

I guess to answer my own question, when the rest of the synastry comparison was STACKED then I really felt the obsession. If the rest of the synastry was "blah", then all I felt was blah.

I guess this is why we MUST use very tight orbs with the outer planets.

posted November 16, 2013 09:24 AM            

hers to mine synastry
Pluto Opposition Moon 4.85
Moon Square Pluto 7.79

posted November 16, 2013 11:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Venus De Milo:
Can any people in the planet part of a Pluto equation chime in?

I mean, if you're born with the Moon in Libra for example, wouldn't you have the Moon conjunct Pluto in synastry with everybody born within a certain year or so?

So wouldn't it feel kind of blah or whatever for the planet person?

My ASC is at 7 Libra and I tend to attract men born in 1975/1976.

I guess to answer my own question, when the rest of the synastry comparison was STACKED then I really felt the obsession. If the rest of the synastry was "blah", then all I felt was blah.

I guess this is why we MUST use very tight orbs with the outer planets.

Any thoughts?

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I made the same observation. Aspects to the outers have to be really tight, or also involving a personal planet, or an angle, on the other person`s side.

If it is ONLY their Pluto, squaring my Venus, well, it is just background noise, however if they do resonate with Venus-Pluto natally or / and have a personal planet in the brew, it feels very different.

posted November 17, 2013 12:00 AM            

However, I have to say, he has a Venus/Mars conjunction in Leo which sextiles my Pluto and then trines my Venus/Neptune conjunction in Sag (my natal Pluto perfectly sextles this natal conjunction).

His Moon is also in my 1st house.

So there are many other explanations for our explosive chemistry.

Anyhow, back to what you said, you're saying you're the planet person and you definitely feel it? The numbers after the aspects you listed, those are the orbs? Yes?

Have you googled Moon/Pluto aspects in synastry? There is a great discussion on LL about it. I definitely feel that everything stated on that thread rings very true. The intimacy. Just wanting to BE with that person. The obsession. I cannot rid myself of thoughts of him. It's exhausting. I've tried and tried.

Heres the thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/216006.html

Ceridwen, thanks for your insight! It's hard for me to ascertain from my personal experiences, bc often there is so much Pluto going on back and forth that I can't pinpoint what exactly comes from what.

But I'm really trying hard to manage my obsession and expectations with this attraction, and so therefore just maybe trying to minimise how "profound" I find it all and talk myself off the ledge so to speak, lol.

posted November 17, 2013 04:40 AM            

For example, in synastry we have only Venus trine Pluto. However, it feels really plutonian. Natally we both have Moon square Pluto, which makes for a conjunction of Moon and Pluto in Composite.

The most tightly aspected planet in our synastry is his Uranus. It makes 5 exact aspects and a few more. However it does feel deep and emotionally bonding. Yesterday i found out that his Uranus is exactly on his own Moon - Pluto midpoint in his chart. That means my ASC exactly squares this midpoint, and my Mars is exactly opposite this midpoint.

posted November 17, 2013 05:22 AM            

I have been meditatng on "surrender"... to the universe, to God's plan, to the outcome, whatever it will be.

I've kept a pretty cool-as-acucumber veneer, but this Aqua girl has really been obsessing over this guy, to the point that i have felt opressed and enslaved by thoughts of him. It's really crazy.

posted November 17, 2013 06:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I made the same observation. Aspects to the outers have to be really tight, or also involving a personal planet, or an angle, on the other person`s side.

If it is ONLY their Pluto, squaring my Venus, well, it is just background noise, however if they do resonate with Venus-Pluto natally or / and have a personal planet in the brew, it feels very different.

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posted November 17, 2013 07:04 AM            

For example , I've never had a plutonian love style with anyone when their personal planets touch my pluto or vice versa. But I will feel this when the planet touch my angles , it'd be deep and meaningful relationship.

posted November 17, 2013 07:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Queen Salome:
HOW tight?

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posted November 17, 2013 09:15 AM            

That reminds me so much of a past experience where I was literally crazy over someone... Dear Lord, that was so intense.

Anyway, on topic:

Someone who has a prominent outer planet influence natally, will experience other people from their generation reacting to their natal configuration - so say someone has a very aspected Pluto - they may not think of themselves as very intense or obsessive but other people from their generation will act that way towards them - playing out the Pluto influence for them.

Same goes for Neptune and Uranus.

That's especially true if there's an opposition aspect (projection) but can also happen with the square (less so with the conjunction and the flowing aspects, since they're easier to integrate in the personality). The dynamic is probably changed if the outer planet is in the 1st house though, because it's more "personal" and part of the conscious identity (VS the 7th house and the southern hemisphere in general, where it's more likely to be projected).

posted November 17, 2013 10:07 AM            

1st house Pluto exactly sextile Venus/Neptune conjunction in Sag...

NN sextile singleton Uranus in Scorp (2 orb).

This dude hits all of those natal planets in one way or another! Sort of like a game of dominos, lol. I don't hit his outer planets so hard, but the aspects are still there.

We also have EXACT double whammy chiron/juno back and forth :/

I have Chiron at 5 Taurus, his Juno is at 5 Taurus.
I have Juno a 2 Pisces, his Chiron is at 2 Gemini.

Its like, WHOOAAAHHH.

I have to surrender to let it go and stop obsessing about him and what happens next!!! :/

I feel OK wih nothing happening out of this. I used to feel like I was going to suffocate and panic at the same time at the thought that he might never be mine. But I'm (reluctantly) OK with this very real possibility. LOL.... The Rolling Stones just came onto itunes singing "you can't always get what you want"... LOL.... talk about the universe talking to me.. YES I KNOW I'M SAYING I'M OK WITH THAT, UNIVERSE. SHEEESSSH.

But, I do know that he feels a lot of what I'm feeling. He feels a lot of something for me. Probably no as obsessed as I am, but its there. It's a complicated story.

posted November 19, 2013 04:48 AM            

So that is opposite his Mars/Venus conjunction in Leo, and also sextile his NN and my Venus/Neptune conjunction... and square my natal Uranus. And trine his Moon and my Pluto.

So its like a domino hitting all those points again.

I actually have Lillith opposed Priapus natally... what does Priapus represent? Neither his Priapus or Lillith make any aspect to either of mine.

posted November 19, 2013 07:05 AM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Does your Priapus (h22) conjoin his BML? I've discovered this can REALLY do that.

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