posted November 22, 2013 09:53 AM            

Which signs, placements or aspects make for a Woman who embodies the 'player'?

The kind of woman that men cannot resist?

posted November 22, 2013 10:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Leocassandra:
I dont know if they desire to marry but i've noticed girls with Sun conjunct Mars are popular among boys

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I have sun conjunct mars exact. I don't think this = popularity amongst men (at least not sexually). it's a 'male' aspect because it and brings out male traits (like aggressiveness and enjoying competition, etc.) so perhaps you're picking up on that? I think men just notice I'm 'like' them because of the more aggressive/competitive/combative streak. it mirrors aries sun traits in a way

posted November 22, 2013 10:49 AM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
I have sun conjunct mars exact. I don't think this = popularity amongst men (at least not sexually). it's a 'male' aspect because it and brings out male traits (like aggressiveness and enjoying competition, etc.) so perhaps you're picking up on that? I think men just notice I'm 'like' them because of the more aggressive/competitive/combative streak. it mirrors aries sun traits in a way

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posted November 22, 2013 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I can't speak for other men. Only myself.

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posted November 22, 2013 11:03 AM            

back to the questions, I'd guess heavy mutable placements, especially pisces. It's just that from what I see, these people can "morph" into whatever your heart desires.

posted November 22, 2013 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Lovely Aries

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posted November 22, 2013 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Okay then, I allow you to speak for yourself. You shall proceed, your majesty.

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I agree.

posted November 22, 2013 11:10 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:

Heyyy Vickie

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posted November 22, 2013 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
The kind of woman that men cannot resist?

The kind of woman that many men desire to marry?

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I know nothing about astrology, but I can only share my own experiences and preferences.

Beauty - sorry that I succumb to the stereotypical male desire for looks. I chose a wife who turns heads and is ultimately desirable.

Intelligence - my wife has a good masters degree. Street smarts is also key.

Ambition/Drive/Motivation - I didn't demand a wife to have the best of careers, but she had established herself in the fashion design world, in addition to the modeling world, and had a taste for the acting world.

Values - I would usually put this at the very top of the list. Nothing is as important as sharing the same moral values. We not only share the same religion, we share the same denomination.

Respect - both of us respected our parents, even as we couldn't stand them. Unlike several of my ex-girlfriends, my wife couldn't care less if her parents objected to the marriage, as mine did. She literally pointed both middle fingers into the face of her dad. All four parents objected to the union. Love prevailed.

Views - We have the same political views, family-based outloook, etc.

Hobbies - We have a huge set of common hobbies both masculine and feminine. I can easily participate in every activity she does or discussion she participates in, including makeup, sewing, gardening, even shopping, etc. She can easily engage in all my masculine activities, driving, martial arts, except for firearms.

Housekeeping - I supposed it helps that I'm a good cook and she is a good baker. So, I make the meals and she makes the desserts. We are both highly competent in the housework. I do all the cooking and laundry at home, even as I get home late every night.

Financially responsible - we both love expensive material things, but I don't ever have to tell her when to throttle back on the spending. Having money helps, but a lot of people don't know when to stop, and that they don't really need another dozen pairs of shoes when they have ten dozen.

Understanding the other gender - I can walk into Sephora and pick up all her make up, then walk into VS and pick up all her lingere in her size and in the style she likes. The same applies. She knows all my shirt and shoe sizes, she knows my suit measurements, she knows what underwear I like, and she picks up all my toiletries. Not many women understand men to that extent.

Children - I cannot give birth or breastfeed - sorry about that. Other than that, I got married 100% proficient in all aspects of caring for babies and raising children. She has proven herself extremely capable in raising boys and taking care of boy stuff - not many women know what to do if say, a boy has a pimple under the foreskin of his penis. Similarly, not many men know how to properly handle a girl who is hitting puberty and gets her first period. We both were familiar.

Sex - I married a virgin, so there were no test drives before marriage. I suppose I "lucked out" with a truly sexually gifted woman who is sometimes too hot to handle.

Career Driven - We jointly decided that I should have the job and she should be the mother. I would have been equally comfortable the other way around. Since my salary is five to ten times more, it would be beneficial if I worked and she takes care of household matters. She has been highly supportive of my career, as I am of hers as a mother.

It goes on and on. In May, we celebrate our 20th anniversary.

posted November 22, 2013 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

It goes on and on. In May, we celebrate our 20th anniversary.

I must add that we were both fully "player capable" and she had more than enough marriage proposals that she declined, and I had more than my fill of escapades as a bachelor (I wasn't a saint), but we didn't swing from lover to lover breaking hearts.

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^^I relate to this. We can use our *charms* for good OR for evil. And I never do evil.

And congrats on having such a long prosperous marriage! You two are very lucky to have found ALL the traits you mentioned in each other! I hope to find that (or most of it) one day also.

So what (1) area did you guys struggle in? Every couple has one, usually.

Where do you live again YTA?

posted November 22, 2013 12:18 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
So what (1) area did you guys struggle in? Every couple has one, usually.

Where do you live again YTA?

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I live in Connecticut.

posted November 22, 2013 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
This is the female answer to that "Ladies Man" thread. So...

Which signs, placements or aspects make for a Woman who embodies the 'player'?

The kind of woman that men cannot resist?

The kind of woman that many men desire to marry?

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posted November 22, 2013 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
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Heyyy Vickie

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posted November 22, 2013 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:

I live in Connecticut.

There are struggles. Obviously. The largest struggle is the time I am away from home, with my long weekday hours. That takes me away from several important events like school meetings and some medical appointments. I'm out of the house before the sun remotely rises and home long after the sun sets.

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Oh yes - long hours away from each other can be rough. But you guys make it work. So glad to hear that!

posted November 22, 2013 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Come on, you Aries should be able to flirt better than that!

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LOL

name: victoria
skills: flirting
empowering aspect: dominant venus in Taurus in 3H.
values: doesn't like hijacking threads

posted November 22, 2013 12:43 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Venus conjunct Mars. S

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I have Venus *trine* Mars. Does that count?

As far as Arians flirting - I'm not typical. Some Aries folks are quite over-the-top with it. I'm a lot more Venusian or Taurean in my flirting style.

How about you?

LOL @Vickie

posted November 22, 2013 12:47 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
[b]This is the female answer to that "Ladies Man" thread. So...

Which signs, placements or aspects make for a Woman who embodies the 'player'?

The kind of woman that men cannot resist?

The kind of woman that many men desire to marry?

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