posted November 27, 2013 03:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
9 times out of 10 gemini does not care about you.
They have just been told their whole lives to be empathetic to others suffering .
They are good at faking emotions so I suppose they are more prone to psychopathy.

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posted November 27, 2013 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
9 times out of 10 gemini does not care about you.
They have just been told their whole lives to be empathetic to others suffering .
They are good at faking emotions so I suppose they are more prone to psychopathy.

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posted November 27, 2013 03:44 PM            

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PixieJane: Naw, just a little wry humor on my part.

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posted November 27, 2013 03:50 PM            

What I don't get is why some people are drawn to the Gray Lizards unless it's a teenage girl trying to upset her parents or some guy who thinks he can have his way with her (enough were that way with my mom though she was the one who played them while the idiotic guys who fell for her Scorpio charms thinking it was the other way around). I wonder if the women drawn to such obsessive stalking jerks are also into other forms of self-harm as well (that is, a cry for help and/or self-hatred).

posted November 27, 2013 04:20 PM            

As much as I keep reading about how they can be straightforward and blunt, most often than not they shut up about how they really feel and pretend people can read their minds somehow.

It can be annoying.

posted November 27, 2013 05:03 PM            

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Oh, I know.

Leo Suns and confidence.

A lot of Leo Suns (that I've known personally) appear confident but aren't really when you get to know them on a more personal level.

I suppose that goes for a lot of people, though.

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teasel,

posted November 27, 2013 05:07 PM            

In general, I don't find most Libra stereotypes to be true.

I really do hate that whole "omg Libras are so kind and peace loving!!!1111!!!!!!1!!!" stereotype. If anything, most of the Libra suns that I've known (more so than any other sun sign) were completely two faced and had an air of superiority about them (arrogance). A lot of them were also really manipulative (or at least they tried be, most of them were terrible liars). The whole stereotypical description of them...only what they pretended to be.

I also don't find most Libra ascendants all that attractive, too generic/bland looking for me. I've seen some pretty good looking ones, but for the most part...meh, too conventional looking. Overhyped, big time.

And a lot of Libra Venus people that I've known (I've known Virgo suns, Libra and Scorpio's with this placement) were not the super romantic people that they are claimed to be. A lot of them were quite the opposite, actually.

LOOOOL, but seriously...I don't hate all Libra placements. Libra Mercury is probably my favorite Mercury placement.

I apologize in advance to anyone with these placements.

Okay, now me.

posted November 27, 2013 05:13 PM            

Libra Suns can be quite arrogant and argumentative.

Libra Venus is not always "romantic" in the watery, Piscean sense... Libra's symbol is an inanimate object, after all. The scales that weigh the pros and cons. Air element - focused on the mind, ideas, communication.

Oh but they can be very romantic if other things in the chart support it.

Libra Mercury is usually a pretty cool placement but they can also be arrogant and argumentative, just like the Suns... from what I've noticed.

posted November 27, 2013 06:51 PM            

I think Virgos are actually very disorganized and confused most of the time UNLESS they have strong Libra or Leo placements.

When it comes to health and diet obsessions Taurus women are often on extremes. They either love all kinds of food and weigh a bit more or they're fussy vegans.

posted November 27, 2013 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:

The ASC's aren't necessarily "beautiful" or "attractive" per se, but they're usually "pleasant" to look at. They give off a calm / refined vibe.

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thank you. Someone finally said it. The Libras I know lack presence, big time. Both presence and charisma. It cracks me up seeing those beautifully crafted poems written about Libras.
I'm not generalizing, again I'm talking my observations about real life Libras. They are so judgmental, and think everyone is jealous of them and want to take them down. The women lack confidence and seem to be jealous of every woman in sight ... and threatened when a beautiful woman walks by. It's fun to watch.
I want to add they're very biased and not fair.

Virgos, I used to go by the stereotype and find them very boring and stagnant, but meeting up with more and more Virgos, they're simply fun people to be around. Very unpredictable sometimes, and sacrificial - more than Pisces.

posted November 27, 2013 07:30 PM            

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Astrological Stereotypes and HARSH TRUTHS!!

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A quick glance and I thought it said "hard thrust". Reminded me of Ami Ann's thread title.

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Most of the caps I know aren't that hard working. Well some can be, but we don't really enjoy it. We only want to laze around on the beach with a colourful drink in our hand.

posted November 27, 2013 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
Finally, someone understands me!

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posted November 27, 2013 07:57 PM            

I'm pretty offended considering I have a Gemini Rising. Then I remember that my chart ruler is in my 12th house and I have an 8th house stellium, so not caring for others is almost impossible for me :P Actually, I don't get positive vibes from most Gemini suns I know. I feel like they can't love and connect with me on a deep level. My aunt's a Gemini and me and her have had a turbulent relationship since I was a baby!

Virgo Risers can nag, nag, nag, but they really do love and care for their friends. They are loyal companions. They have interesting senses of humor.

Leo Suns...whoo. They always burn me, but I love 'em. They tend to draw in attention (good and bad) without even trying. And the weapon that usually does that IS their glorious hair. :')

Cancer-influenced people I know are LUNAtics, but they're popular at the same time.

posted November 27, 2013 08:07 PM            

It's actually a talent if you think about.
Gemini can help you with out getting caught into your emotional drama.
They are resistant to emotional vampire types.

For gemini it's all about integrity.

I have sun conjunct Aldebaran exact which happens to be all about integrity.
I help people around me because it's the right thing to do not because I have a need or a want...
I clean up your mess with out breaking down in the process.

Aquarius is kind of the same way but they don't know how to fake emotions. Gemini's fake "sympathetic" human loving nature is how they help others by "being" there for others while not actually being there..

posted November 27, 2013 08:14 PM            

But what I learned was it wasn't HOW I was communicating, it was that I dared challenge their views and didn't do what they ordered me to do in the first place and THAT is what made me "arrogant" etc. Furthermore, they were calling me arrogant could dish it out and felt right for doing so but then were shocked & outraged when they got their own medicine served back to them (that is they were just as argumentive or even more so but say "I don't think so" and they get upset). Well if that's the case, then GOOD, may I always be so, I'd rather be thought of as arrogant than a doormat. Though of course I don't consider it arrogant just as I don't consider others arrogant for promoting a view contrary to mine or asserting something I don't agree with. It's not that we're arrogant it's that those calling us that are insecure and/or dogmatic who feel judged for not being agreed with by a sycophant.

posted November 27, 2013 10:30 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I remember when I was younger (and much more snarky) I was called arrogant, argumentive, and the like. So I asked how to better communicate my thoughts. Online I even pointed out threads where I was called this. And I've certainly shown others how to word things differently so I know it can be done.

But what I learned was it wasn't HOW I was communicating, it was that I dared challenge their views and didn't do what they ordered me to do in the first place and THAT is what made me "arrogant" etc. Furthermore, they were calling me arrogant could dish it out and felt right for doing so but then were shocked & outraged when they got their own medicine served back to them (that is they were just as argumentive or even more so but say "I don't think so" and they get upset). Well if that's the case, then GOOD, may I always be so, I'd rather be thought of as arrogant than a doormat. Though of course I don't consider it arrogant just as I don't consider others arrogant for promoting a view contrary to mine or asserting something I don't agree with. It's not that we're arrogant it's that those calling us that are insecure and/or dogmatic who feel judged for not being agreed with by a sycophant.

I feel sorry for the Libras who feel they have to make themselves less (a sycophant who just smiles and agrees with everyone to get along) just to get on the good side of other people which, of course, would then make them two faced.

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posted November 27, 2013 10:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Honestly very few people have access to a gemini's soul.

It does not matter if your a family either, they have to want to give you their soul. I'd imagine they have a very special connection with that person.. like a soul connection.

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Oh so true. Stop writing down my thoughts, damn!

posted November 27, 2013 10:55 PM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
As always, every website goes on and on about how powerful and sexy and magnetic and irresistible Scorpio is. But in truth, and one of the reasons I never research things and instead observe them, this so wrong...Scorpios I know, in real life, as in real life Scorpios, tend to be pretty mellow. Most times, they're actually pretty depressive and frustrating to deal with! And overweight/prone to acne.

So what other harsh truths do you have for stereotypes!!!!

Scorpio Mars especially is frustrating to deal with. The only Scorpio Mars I actually liked that I know of is sand. Every other one has been so annoying and stupid, ugh!!

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posted November 28, 2013 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I remember when I was younger (and much more snarky) I was called arrogant, argumentive, and the like. So I asked how to better communicate my thoughts. Online I even pointed out threads where I was called this. And I've certainly shown others how to word things differently so I know it can be done.

But what I learned was it wasn't HOW I was communicating, it was that I dared challenge their views and didn't do what they ordered me to do in the first place and THAT is what made me "arrogant" etc. Furthermore, they were calling me arrogant could dish it out and felt right for doing so but then were shocked & outraged when they got their own medicine served back to them (that is they were just as argumentive or even more so but say "I don't think so" and they get upset). Well if that's the case, then GOOD, may I always be so, I'd rather be thought of as arrogant than a doormat. Though of course I don't consider it arrogant just as I don't consider others arrogant for promoting a view contrary to mine or asserting something I don't agree with. It's not that we're arrogant it's that those calling us that are insecure and/or dogmatic who feel judged for not being agreed with by a sycophant.

I feel sorry for the Libras who feel they have to make themselves less (a sycophant who just smiles and agrees with everyone to get along) just to get on the good side of other people which, of course, would then make them two faced.

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Nothing against you but this is all just argumentative tone to me.

I doubt Libras realise how off-putting that can be.