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Topic: Mars/Venus Attraction
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ScorpieScorp
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posted November 28, 2013 12:22 AM
  
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Originally posted by starrystratosphere:
I would say the both of you! try not to rip each others clothes off. 
Oh Starry...  No ripping clothes off, I'm trying to fig out how to keep this one at bay. There is a some Saturn in the charts--certainly that would be a damper right?? IP: Logged |
starrystratosphere
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posted November 28, 2013 01:01 AM
maybe Saturn is testing your work ethic.lol!resist at all cost .avoid eye contact.  Saturn is not always a damper though, it is either lessons to learn or relationships to build on. IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted November 28, 2013 01:15 AM
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Originally posted by starrystratosphere:
maybe Saturn is testing your work ethic.lol!resist at all cost .avoid eye contact. Saturn is not always a damper though, it is either lessons to learn or relationships to build on.
Lots of Saturn...I wonder if that is why there is so much tension between us--we have a hard time communicating..he's an executive in the company, but I have to work with him daily.... My Saturn: conjuncts his Sun and Mercury (wide orb, 9), square Uranus, Trine Jupiter (wide orb 7) His Saturn: conjuncts Moon, sextiles Mars, square Jupiter, conjunct Pluto (wide orb 7) IP: Logged |
starrystratosphere
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posted November 28, 2013 01:49 AM
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
Lots of Saturn...I wonder if that is why there is so much tension between us--we have a hard time communicating..he's an executive in the company, but I have to work with him daily....My Saturn: conjuncts his Sun and Mercury (wide orb, 9), square Uranus, Trine Jupiter (wide orb 7) His Saturn: conjuncts Moon, sextiles Mars, square Jupiter, conjunct Pluto (wide orb 7)
Again, with all your synastry I will just suggest to try and focus on your work maybe. If you feel there is tension I would suggest try not to focus on it. Good luck  IP: Logged |
SerpeantKing
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posted November 28, 2013 02:44 AM
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
BUT-I will also add, that is not my typical history. I usually like nicer kind of guys...this is just an odd case of attraction for me.
If that's what you're into, that's what you're into. ------------------
Aries Sun
Sagittarious Moon
Scorpio Ascendant(2nd decan)
Mercury in Aries
Venus in Aries
Mars in Taurus
Jupiter in Aquarius
Saturn in Scorpio
Uranus in Sagittarious
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio
Chiron in Gemini
North node in Taurus
"Nature speaks for itself" IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 28, 2013 04:02 AM
Leos are not all that arrogant in my experience.. but maybe you met a bad egg Leo.
Usually people with teeny tiny egos who have no self-confidence are the arrogant ones. So it's not so much a Leo Sun thing.
Maybe since you're a Scorpio - you expect more depth than he has to give.
In what way is he arrogant? Could it be that you are misinterpreting his behaviour? IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted November 28, 2013 11:25 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Leos are not all that arrogant in my experience.. but maybe you met a bad egg Leo.
Usually people with teeny tiny egos who have no self-confidence are the arrogant ones. So it's not so much a Leo Sun thing.
Maybe since you're a Scorpio - you expect more depth than he has to give.
In what way is he arrogant? Could it be that you are misinterpreting his behaviour?
I could be--but he is disliked by a majority of the company--so this is just not a Scorpio thing....I do agree he has not shown much depth so far, which yes, will not impress a Scorpio.
Perhaps it's a power struggle thing with Pluto being in the mix.
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summerlite
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posted November 28, 2013 11:41 AM
if u put down the signs, it'll be easier to see..IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted November 28, 2013 11:54 AM
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Originally posted by summerlite:
if u put down the signs, it'll be easier to see..
What do you mean--the signs that the Pluto aspects are in? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 28, 2013 11:59 AM
Leos are arrogant.
All the ones I've ever met were, at least.- Venus / Mars, there's your answer.
Sun / ASC is very magnetic as well, especially for the ASC person. In the Venus / Mars square there is attraction but also friction because the way Mars acts is in conflict with what the Venus persons values or is usually attracted to (isn't that exactly your situation, Scorp?). So... Yeah, raw magnetism, cool. If you want some passion, great.
If you want respect and compatibility... Gotta look for something else, cause that's not it.
Not saying it can't happen with a Venus/Mars square but there's gotta be some conjunctions and / or flowing aspects between the personal planets for something deeper / more comfortable.
My 2 cents.
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ScorpieScorp
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posted November 28, 2013 12:05 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Leos are arrogant.
All the ones I've ever met were, at least.- Venus / Mars, there's your answer.
Sun / ASC is very magnetic as well, especially for the ASC person. In the Venus / Mars square there is attraction but also friction because the way Mars acts is in conflict with what the Venus persons values or is usually attracted to (isn't that exactly your situation, Scorp?). So... Yeah, raw magnetism, cool. If you want some passion, great.
If you want respect and compatibility... Gotta look for something else, cause that's not it.
Not saying it can't happen with a Venus/Mars square but there's gotta be some conjunctions and / or flowing aspects between the personal planets for something deeper / more comfortable.
My 2 cents.
Always love your 2 cents! So there are conjunctions: Sun/Saturn, Moon/Venus, Moon/Jupiter, Moon/Saturn (mind you re: Moon, I don't have his birth time), Pluto/Jupiter (wide orb), Pluto/Saturn (wide orb), Pluto/Venus (orb 5), Neptune/Neptune (wide orb)... I am just wondering if this is only felt by me, especially with my AC conjuncting his Sun. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 28, 2013 12:31 PM
Thanks.Sounds pretty solid, actually... but also complicated because of the Saturn and Pluto in the mix. With Saturn, it can take some time for a relationship to develop. And with Pluto, there could be an attraction / repulsion dynamic (fear of being fooled / controlled by the other). Well, you must have noticed something in his behavior that could show he's attracted? If you can't think of even one instance where he seemed to have a thing for you, then... Maybe he hasn't noticed you? IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted November 28, 2013 12:37 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Thanks.Sounds pretty solid, actually... but also complicated because of the Saturn and Pluto in the mix. With Saturn, it can take some time for a relationship to develop. And with Pluto, there could be an attraction / repulsion dynamic (fear of being fooled / controlled by the other). Well, you must have noticed something in his behavior that could show he's attracted? If you can't think of even one instance where he seemed to have a thing for you, then... Maybe he hasn't noticed you?
Doux--do you have a Twitter or webpage? He's very observant of me--but he is my employer. And we are a small company. But--my gut says, yea, probably thinks I'm attractive, but not sure if there is anything else further. Don't know if he feels the attraction in the manner I have, where it won't go away--despite the fact I don't like his character or the way he treats people.
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summerlite
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posted November 28, 2013 12:52 PM
if you don't like his character, why would you care if he likes you or is attracted to you?your Leo ASC conjunct his sun Leo signifies physical attraction towards you. i can't read anything else since you didn't put down the Venus/Mars signs. IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted November 28, 2013 12:54 PM
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Originally posted by summerlite:
if you don't like his character, why would you care if he likes you or is attracted to you?your Leo ASC conjunct his sun Leo signifies physical attraction towards you. i can't read anything else since you didn't put down the Venus/Mars signs.
Both of our Venus are Libra, My Mars is Leo, his is Cancer. Re: Character--that's why this is bothering me! There are strong factors going on that I don't understand.
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 28, 2013 01:22 PM
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
Doux--do you have a Twitter or webpage?He's very observant of me--but he is my employer. And we are a small company. But--my gut says, yea, probably thinks I'm attractive, but not sure if there is anything else further. Don't know if he feels the attraction in the manner I have, where it won't go away--despite the fact I don't like his character or the way he treats people.
I have a mailbox and a FB account  Why? Right, you guys work together. Usually people (men especially) make sure not to cross boundaries at work. Maybe he's attracted to you but not as strongly, or maybe he just represses it or hides it, being in an environment that doesn't really create favorable conditions for a romance. IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted November 28, 2013 02:08 PM
His NN also conjuncts my Mars (12th House), squares my Venus, and trines my Mercury. His South Node trines my Moon...anyone know what these mean?IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted November 28, 2013 03:33 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I have a mailbox and a FB account Why?
Because you know a lot about astrology and was wondering if you had articles/posts to read... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 28, 2013 04:09 PM
Oh thanks, but all my "knowledge" comes from external sources mainly.
There are plenty of great astrology blogs so I don't need to make one, it'll be too repetitive. I think you've read this already but it's a pretty good site (has some good basics): http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!mars-conjunct-south-node-in-synastry/c19od *at one point there's a mistake:
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The Node person is strongly attracted to the Node [they meant Mars] person’s drive and ambition.
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ScorpieScorp
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posted November 29, 2013 12:19 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I think you've read this already but it's a pretty good site (has some good basics): http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!mars-conjunct-south-node-in-synastry/c19od *at one point there's a mistake:
[QUOTE]The Node person is strongly attracted to the [b]Node [they meant Mars] person’s drive and ambition.
[/B][/QUOTE]Funny enough--I come across that site all the time in my google searches--but it seems to mess up my computer...my browsers get stuck so I don't go there anymore. :/ I was reading that the Sun opposite Moon could also be a part of the attraction...thoughts? IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted November 29, 2013 12:33 AM
You never know! Jerks can be sweethearts and sweethearts can be jerks! Even just being at work can have very profound personality changes with some people.
If he had deeper feelings for you, he could be a completely different person.
The show of self-confidence and arrogance is not always the true feelings. Sometimes teeth and claw are shown for fear if they rolled over someone would hurt their sensitive under belly. IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted November 29, 2013 08:43 AM
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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
Funny enough--I come across that site all the time in my google searches--but it seems to mess up my computer...my browsers get stuck so I don't go there anymore. :/I was reading that the Sun opposite Moon could also be a part of the attraction...thoughts?
Got the site to work. So this would indicate he has attraction for me--perhaps in a more physical way? My Venus also squares his NN and Mercury trines his NN...what would you say about these? IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted November 30, 2013 11:17 AM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
You never know! Jerks can be sweethearts and sweethearts can be jerks! Even just being at work can have very profound personality changes with some people.
If he had deeper feelings for you, he could be a completely different person.
The show of self-confidence and arrogance is not always the true feelings. Sometimes teeth and claw are shown for fear if they rolled over someone would hurt their sensitive under belly.
Hah, well Deepfreeze, the teeth and claws may show soon if he doesn't let up on all the Saturn we have! We have Saturn aspects on just about every planet except Venus!
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 30, 2013 11:26 AM
Yes, physical attraction from the NN person to the Mars person is likely. Although it's not 100% certain, of course.Trine to Mercury is a supportive aspect but wouldn't create a strong pull.
Venus sq. Nodes may point to some relationship / love karma with this person.
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ScorpieScorp
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posted November 30, 2013 11:35 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Yes, physical attraction from the NN person to the Mars person is likely. Although it's not 100% certain, of course.Trine to Mercury is a supportive aspect but wouldn't create a strong pull.
Venus sq. Nodes may point to some relationship / love karma with this person.
Thanks Doux! Speaking of love karma, how does that exactly play out in the next life. I get that there is some unfinished business to take care of... IP: Logged |
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