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Topic: People Who Can't Let Go?
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swampys
Knowflake Posts: 621
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 04, 2013 09:45 PM
  
What causes this? Like, people who won't forget the pastOR people who won't let go of abusive relationships (any form of abuse)? IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 1847
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 04, 2013 10:25 PM
Pluto?Fixed?
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Liliya
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Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 04, 2013 10:27 PM
Cancer placements?IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted December 04, 2013 10:30 PM
Cappy placements tooIP: Logged |
PiscesCancerTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 126
From: AZ
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 04, 2013 10:37 PM
Capricorns can't let go??? Really??? I always thought they were the most likely to let go the fastest. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 1847
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 04, 2013 10:38 PM
Saturn being the glue and all...IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 04, 2013 10:43 PM
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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
Capricorns can't let go??? Really??? I always thought they were the most likely to let go the fastest.
Cappy is opposite of Cancer so it makes sense. They share some stuff. And Cappy can't let go in a different way which, to me, means they continue to see someone in a certain light for a long time unlike Cancers or other signs who see the person's flaws but want them anyway. Cancers are more likely to be co-dependent in a long, deep relationship, than Cappies. IP: Logged |
swampys
Knowflake Posts: 621
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 04, 2013 11:19 PM
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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
Capricorns can't let go??? Really??? I always thought they were the most likely to let go the fastest.
Yeah! Me too! Like, or at least they never got emotionally involved in anything. IP: Logged |
swampys
Knowflake Posts: 621
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 04, 2013 11:20 PM
I have a twelfth house Cancer-Leo moon and a very strong Pluto in the fourth house in Scorpio. Mars is in Cap, too. I think I'm screwed.  IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 1847
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 04, 2013 11:32 PM
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Odette
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posted December 04, 2013 11:43 PM
Yup. Cancer and Cap - mainly the Moon or Mercury in those signs.. *jackpot* if you have both planets there!IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2945
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Registered: May 2012
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posted December 04, 2013 11:44 PM
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Capricorns can't let go??? Really??? I always thought they were the most likely to let go the fastest.
Oh no..
Capricorn Moon remembers everything that has ever happened - their entire lives.
I am testimony to that lol But actually they can 'let go' in the sense of moving past the situation ... but they still don't forget. IP: Logged |
PiscesCancerTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 126
From: AZ
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 04, 2013 11:47 PM
I get it…
Cancers can't let go in the sense of moving on from something or someone.
Capricorns can't let go of actions. Like once you do something that is who you are to them forever. <---that is kind of annoying if I do say so myself. IP: Logged |
charlie
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From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 05, 2013 12:06 AM
Cancer mars IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 1131
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 12:13 AM
Heh, I'm a cap and yeah, letting go can be tough when it comes to people who are important to me. Like with my parents, hell I hold on like there is no tomorrow lol. As for other people, eh if they are abusive or cray-cray, I don't have any problem forgetting about them. I don't even really hate or dislike them, I'm just indifferent. IP: Logged |
PiscesCancerTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 126
From: AZ
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 12:28 AM
@12muddySince you are a Cap maybe you can answer this. If you say you care about someone would you say that most of the time Capricorns mean it when they say that to someone?
And if a person you say you care about starts acting funny like not themselves would you just cut them off? Would it be easy for you to let them go?
Sorry if I am not making any sense. IP: Logged |
swampys
Knowflake Posts: 621
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 12:42 AM
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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
@12muddySince you are a Cap maybe you can answer this. If you say you care about someone would you say that most of the time Capricorns mean it when they say that to someone?
And if a person you say you care about starts acting funny like not themselves would you just cut them off? Would it be easy for you to let them go?
Sorry if I am not making any sense.
Same stuff happens to me with my Cappy man!   IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted December 05, 2013 12:50 AM
quote:
Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
@12muddySince you are a Cap maybe you can answer this. If you say you care about someone would you say that most of the time Capricorns mean it when they say that to someone?
And if a person you say you care about starts acting funny like not themselves would you just cut them off? Would it be easy for you to let them go?
Sorry if I am not making any sense.
Hmm, I've met quite a lot of capricorns, some of us can be quite flippant Speak for myself and most of the ones I know, then yes, when we say things like "I care about you" or "You mean a lot to me", we mean it. I only cut people I care about off when they have done considerable damage. And no, I don't forget about them. IP: Logged |
swampys
Knowflake Posts: 621
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 12:52 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Hmm, I've met quite a lot of capricorns, some of us can be quite flippant. Speak for myself and most of the ones I know, then yes, when we say things like "I care about you" or "You mean a lot to me", we mean it. I only cut people I care about off when they have done considerable damage. And no, I don't forget about them.
Do you think you would leave someone who's overly dependent in general and clingy if you knew you couldn't provide them with emotionally security, just to protect them? If you cared about them!
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12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 1131
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posted December 05, 2013 01:03 AM
Ah hell, lol I'd want to run the 1st moment I sense excessive clinginess. But nah, most likely I'd stick around and try to provide some comfort. IP: Logged |
swampys
Knowflake Posts: 621
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 01:08 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Ah hell, lol I'd want to run the 1st moment I sense excessive clinginess. But nah, most likely I'd stick around and try to provide some comfort.
I've been with my Cap man for three years off and on and I've been clingy since the beginning. Does that mean I may be special to him since he's stuck with me for so long? He's deeply reclusive right now and I have no idea where he even is! I was searching lots of blogs to find him but I don't think he's even there, because I'd be able to recognize him pretty easily! I'm scared but I'm sure he's not physically hurt. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 4437
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted December 05, 2013 01:10 AM
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Originally posted by swampys:
I've been with my Cap man for three years off and on and I've been clingy since the beginning. Does that mean I may be special to him since he's stuck with me for so long? He's deeply reclusive right now and I have no idea where he even is! I was searching lots of blogs to find him but I don't think he's even there, because I'd be able to recognize him pretty easily! I'm scared but I'm sure he's not physically hurt.
If you care about him. Just send him a message, don't search for him on blogs.
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Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 1239
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 05, 2013 01:11 AM
Virgo and Plutonian energy.I've always found it really hard to let go with people I get really attached to. IP: Logged |
swampys
Knowflake Posts: 621
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 01:17 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
If you care about him. Just send him a message, don't search for him on blogs.
I tried sending him messages on AIM but he's not online. Plus I updated my computer to Mavericks and all I had before that was iChat and I haven't even had the chance to see if AIM even works, and I've also been paranoid if it's just not working and he's been thinking that I'm ignoring him! I have Google Analytics for my blog and I've been checking to see if he's viewed my blog. It used to be everyday, but lately it's been about every THREE DAYS! It's killing me and very draining because I don't want him to forget me. :'( If messaging him was an option, I'd message him my little heart out, trust me! IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 1131
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 01:19 AM
Swampys: I'm sorry I don't know. The whole situation sounds quite unusual to me so I don't know what to make of it. He could be dealing with his own issues. Do you have any other way to contact him, other than blogs? Edit: Just saw your answer. I wish you luck. IP: Logged |
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