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Topic: Sun in Sagittarius and Venus in Scorpio man... What's going on in his mind???
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ScarlettO'Hara
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posted December 05, 2013 07:08 AM
  
Well I like this senior of mine in our college... he at, starting used to ignore me but eventually he started responding to my activities and the eye-contact and that fun stuff started between us. And his friend started talking to me and our group. I've never seen this guy talk to a single girl in the college(I've been observing him since more than a year now) and his cousin sis told me that he is not into girls. So after "eye-contact" , "standing near by" of 4 months, I thought of making a move. I sent him the request on fb but he didn't accept it. A week later my friend got to know that "he already has someone in his life" so I got over it even though i was upset and sad. This thing happened during summer vacations. So after the vacations were over, I knew he wouldn't pay me much attention and would ignore me and I too avoided his thoughts invading my mind and decided to move on. Okay so, at our first meeting(we are one the same floor) we both, I suppose felt awkward and ignored each-other but then suddenly he started eye-contacts, standing close to me. Each day something new happens. And this time it is happening with more intensity. He looks me deep in the eyes and positively tries to grab my attention. He stands near me and his friends smile a lot when I pass him. And he tries to deliberately stand near our classroom. And my best friends say they "noticed him blushing after he saw you"(after our eye-contact). And his eye-contact is sooooooo intense, he looks at me sometimes as if he'll kill me or I m not worth him. And another moment it's like he wants my attention and wants to be near me. I m so confused, what does he want!!! Please tell me what should I do??? Please I need your help... It's bugging me now! I have capricorn sun and venus in pisces. I am patient but sometimes I get sad on wondering "what if he is insensitive and what if he is playing with my heart"... you know that feelings come!!! It's like he pulls me in and then pushes me away... I can wait for this guy if he isn't playing with my feelings. I m in no haste but thought that what if he is playing with me bugs me everytime. I know we have some thing cause before I even noticed him, I ignored this guy for almost 4 months and then out of a sudden saw a guy and felt intense connection, to find out he is the same guy I've been ignoring... I know we have that connection and we can look each-other directly into eyes for so long period. Now that you know, what should I do? Please help me!IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 07:35 AM
Try to get a friend to set up a hang out date with a bunch of people, including him. Maybe u guys can get to know eachother better that way.IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted December 05, 2013 10:31 AM
Is he gay?Next time he gives you one of those "I can see into the depths of your soul" looks, go over to him and say, "Question: why are you looking at me like that?" You're a Cap sun, you can do it 
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ScarlettO'Hara
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posted December 06, 2013 06:23 AM
Venusian Moon- Thanks for your suggestion... I'll try my best!!!  IP: Logged |
ScarlettO'Hara
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posted December 06, 2013 06:27 AM
Faith- Oh Faith, how do I tell you this... I daydream about this situation a lot... I am tolerating this behavior but if 1 day my dam will break and believe me, it will... I m about to do the same, ask him, "WTH does he want from me?". Believe me, I m tired of this confusion! But at the same time, I think of the consequences... they say venus in scorpio people test you a lot and they want to know if you are worth the time!  IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty
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From: 12th House with pr.moon
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 06, 2013 07:23 AM
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Originally posted by ScarlettO'Hara:
... they say venus in scorpio people test you a lot and they want to know if you are worth the time!
Then be strong , be yourself , don't show any weakness in front of him . Be nice , polite or whatever you do don't chase him or talking to him " what do you want from me ?" . Let he make a move first . When he's not doing that yet that's mean he's not so ready and when you can't stand the situation and want it so bad to happen, just do the simple sweet smile every times you've met him , I think it's enough to make he understand you in some points cuz he is a Sagg. sun, a jovial type , so he will get some of your good intention. If his personal planets aren't in earth sign..I suggest...don't cappricorn to him, he might get confused a bit. Just m2C , from Scorpio Mars/Mercury and Libra sun
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LovelyKitty
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From: 12th House with pr.moon
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posted December 06, 2013 07:25 AM
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Originally posted by ScarlettO'Hara:
... they say venus in scorpio people test you a lot and they want to know if you are worth the time!
Then be strong , be yourself , don't show any weakness in front of him . Be nice , polite or whatever you do don't chase him or talking to him " what do you want from me ?" . Let he make a move first . When he's not doing that yet that's mean he's not so ready and when you can't stand the situation and want it so bad to happen, just do the simple sweet smile every times you've met him , I think it's enough to make he understand you in some points cuz he is a Sagg. sun, a jovial type , so he will get some of your good intention. If his personal planets aren't in earth sign..I suggest...don't cappricorn to him, he might get confused a bit. Just m2C , from Scorpio Mars/Mercury and Libra sun
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ScarlettO'Hara
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posted December 06, 2013 08:11 AM
LovelyKitty- Thanks for your advice! And I swear... I don't chase him anymore...it's been more than 6 months now, I haven't! He's the one this time... He does it! Like last week... I was in my class and he sits in another class... so he came and was standing on our door, when I didn't see him first time and he started yelling his friend's name(in our class) and started looking at me!IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted December 06, 2013 10:33 AM
what's his Mars sign?IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 06, 2013 10:46 AM
Not read the story. Post the natal, synastry or composite chart to see how the things are.IP: Logged |
ScarlettO'Hara
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posted December 06, 2013 11:15 AM
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Originally posted by summerlite:
what's his Mars sign?
His mars is in sagittarius!IP: Logged |
ScarlettO'Hara
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posted December 06, 2013 11:17 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Not read the story. Post the natal, synastry or composite chart to see how the things are.
It's ok and thank you! And i will post it very soon...
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summerlite
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posted December 06, 2013 11:22 AM
Mars Sag doesn't stare at you to flirt.Since his sun/mars are both in sag, just go up to talk to him. Ask him why he didn't accept your facebook request. IP: Logged |
ScarlettO'Hara
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posted December 06, 2013 11:43 AM
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Originally posted by summerlite:
Mars Sag doesn't stare at you to flirt.Since his sun/mars are both in sag, just go up to talk to him. Ask him why he didn't accept your facebook request.
Hey, first of all thanks a lot... I m sorry... it's soo stupid of me to ask this foolish question but what your intuition says!!! I mean... fine he already has someone then why this... m sorry! m just paranoid, i guess!
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Odette
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posted December 06, 2013 04:00 PM
Ok jokes aside... I wouldn't ask him what he wants from you, because you might just embarrass him.Try saying "Hi".... every time you bump into each other.. and seem 'friendly" - as opposed to staring him down. You keep mentioning his Sun and Venus, but it has no connection imo Scorpio Venus is usually highly curious about potential friends and love interests. The minute you added him on FB he would've jumped on it.. if he didn't have other reasons not to.
They do test - but not in this way. They get to know you.
I don't see this as testing.
He has some other issue - whether it's shyness or whatever else. Post the synastry if you can. IP: Logged |
hodad
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From: tiburon ca usa
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 12, 2014 05:56 AM
Sun in Sagittarius and Venus in Scorpio---Casual but intense at the same time---it's actually an intriguing combo since those qualities are so at odds with each other---IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted March 12, 2014 01:33 PM
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Originally posted by ScarlettO'Hara:
Faith- Oh Faith, how do I tell you this... I daydream about this situation a lot... I am tolerating this behavior but if 1 day my dam will break and believe me, it will... I m about to do the same, ask him, "WTH does he want from me?". Believe me, I m tired of this confusion! But at the same time, I think of the consequences... they say venus in scorpio people test you a lot and they want to know if you are worth the time!
Is he as venus Scorpio, Sag sun? I am that & I'd love if you made the first move. But I'm a girl. Could be different for guys. I think you should just go talk to him. In a friendly way. Try to get rid of your shyness too. We are friendly & curious about people but sometimes are really shy to make the first move because we don't want to be rejected. If it doesn't work out, if he has someone else (who knows maybe that' over), you won't be any worse off. At least you'll know and maybe be friends. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted March 12, 2014 01:35 PM
I want to marry a Sagittarius with venus scorpio :P------------------
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Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 12, 2014 06:00 PM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I want to marry a Sagittarius with venus scorpio :P
Hey I'm a Sag Sun, Venus in Scorpio 17 Deg with Mars in Libra 18 Deg.lol Well, the combination of Venus in Scorpio with Sun in Sagittarius is tricky; I for one want intensity but with some playfulness-if that makes sense.
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LucieLemonade
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posted March 12, 2014 08:31 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Hey I'm a Sag Sun, Venus in Scorpio 17 Deg with Mars in Libra 18 Deg.lolWell, the combination of Venus in Scorpio with Sun in Sagittarius is tricky; I for one want intensity but with some playfulness-if that makes sense.
Hey! Me too! Same, sun, venus, mars! Though I don't think it's tricky. The best of both worlds! But I'm too old for someone with a 28o Pluto. 
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Padre35
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posted March 12, 2014 11:49 PM
He sounds shy, with the Sag placement he probably is outgoing about many things but not willing to actually put it out there, with the Scorpio placement, there is the intensity.I have these two and it is pretty much "me", only probably strike up a conversation about nothing really, seeing how you respond, then go from there. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 13, 2014 01:15 AM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Hey! Me too! Same, sun, venus, mars! Though I don't think it's tricky. The best of both worlds! But I'm too old for someone with a 28o Pluto.
LOL
My sentiments exactly; 28 Scorpio Pluto is an infant IP: Logged |
alaz7200
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posted March 13, 2014 01:49 AM
He sounds exactly like me....I'm Sag Sun with Venus in Scorpio. I'm December 1991.... could he be too? IP: Logged |
ScarlettO'Hara
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posted March 20, 2014 01:43 PM
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Originally posted by alaz7200:
He sounds exactly like me....I'm Sag Sun with Venus in Scorpio. I'm December 1991.... could he be too?
Yep...he is!!! What a coincidence!!! LOL
14 dec
But don't care anymore... haha... It was all childish,I never expected that outta me but it's fine...
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