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Topic: seriously, are libra men always a bit unfaithful?
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 07, 2013 07:44 AM
I'm starting to get a little bit too skeptical about them… haven't really met a libra who was completely loyal, but still they are very good to be in a relationship with? How to really explain the behavior of libra men? They seem very stable in relationships and really "care for their women" and rarely creates conflicts, but then they also have their outbursts where they are unfaithful or have some secret (but mostly short?) affair with another?IP: Logged |
Pure Knowflake Posts: 236 From: UK Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 07, 2013 11:36 AM
I'm a Libra female and I would describe myself as a "bit unfaithful". I'm sure it has much more to do with my immaturity than my Sun Sign though.IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 07, 2013 11:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by Pure: I'm a Libra female and I would describe myself as a "bit unfaithful". I'm sure it has much more to do with my immaturity than my Sun Sign though.
how old are you and what is "a bit" unfaithful to you?:P I think a bit unfaithful is when you might talk and write together with someone else while in a relationship (from the opposite sex) or maybe have a one-night stand, but other than that is completely loyal to your partner at the same time IP: Logged |
unforgiven_soul Knowflake Posts: 701 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 07, 2013 11:55 AM
Libras are considered the indecisive sign of the zodiac. Maybe that's the reason... and some extra aspects can make him unfaithful.IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 07, 2013 12:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by unforgiven_soul: Libras are considered the indecisive sign of the zodiac. Maybe that's the reason... and some extra aspects can make him unfaithful.
Yeah well…so that makes all libras 100% unfaithful if they got those aspect? The one I'm dating got his venus and sun square aquarius and has a gemini mars…those are very unfaithful aspects:S IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae Knowflake Posts: 4120 From: Venice, California, US Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 07, 2013 12:18 PM
Might talk and write together? What does THAT mean? And what does that have to do with loyalty or fidelity?IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 07, 2013 12:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by IndigoDirae: Might talk and write together? What does THAT mean? And what does that have to do with loyalty or fidelity?
Yeah not friends, but someone he used to see or his ex, or someone he is going to bang IP: Logged |
4lifephrases unregistered
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posted December 07, 2013 01:39 PM
Libra men I think they just need company. They hate being alone for a second. I do not think it is wrong. I just do not know where there needing company ends and what morals they have ?I am still not sure if my ex ever loved me or not due to wishy-washiness. I am sure there is general care and possibly guilt. I have met 20 year olds and in his mind if my girlfriend doesn't know it is ok. Another 25 year old possibly had a girlfriend but once again it doesn't stop him being charming and flirting with others.******** about his girlfriend how he is having relationship only because of sex. I have met 40 year old man who wants to keep in touch with all his exes( to me that is bit insane) I am not sure what loyalty might be in their minds? Libra men lie, argue and get away by their charm. (not all but some cheat or are on constantly look out for appreciation of beauty, flirting or intimacy.) I guess it is matter of what do you consider ok and not ok for somebody to do ? I was lied by ex and wasn't made clear he had wife and son. That was breaking point for me despite me being ok with him meeting on regular basis various girls for coffee, kissing on cheeks with some women who came home. At the same time being paranoid about me talking to anyone including my family members or making new friends. He has Scorpio Asc Most of the time they are in relationship but they are always looking outside... I have wife/ girlfriend but errr.... I am Scorpio Sun with Libra Venus. I have learnt enough to see through such types though. IP: Logged |
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posted December 07, 2013 01:39 PM
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 04:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by 4lifephrases: Libra men I think they just need company. They hate being alone for a second. I do not think it is wrong. I just do not know where there needing company ends and what morals they have ?I am still not sure if my ex ever loved me or not due to wishy-washiness. I am sure there is general care and possibly guilt. I have met 20 year olds and in his mind if my girlfriend doesn't know it is ok. Another 25 year old possibly had a girlfriend but once again it doesn't stop him being charming and flirting with others.******** about his girlfriend how he is having relationship only because of sex. I have met 40 year old man who wants to keep in touch with all his exes( to me that is bit insane) I am not sure what loyalty might be in their minds? Libra men lie, argue and get away by their charm. (not all but some cheat or are on constantly look out for appreciation of beauty, flirting or intimacy.) I guess it is matter of what do you consider ok and not ok for somebody to do ? I was lied by ex and wasn't made clear he had wife and son. That was breaking point for me despite me being ok with him meeting on regular basis various girls for coffee, kissing on cheeks with some women who came home. At the same time being paranoid about me talking to anyone including my family members or making new friends. He has Scorpio Asc Most of the time they are in relationship but they are always looking outside... I have wife/ girlfriend but errr.... I am Scorpio Sun with Libra Venus. I have learnt enough to see through such types though.
So true… I also have a libra ex who keeps contacting me, yesterday he wrote that he missed me and he's been doing that for years, but I think he does that with a bunch of women and all his exes so its nothing special…just a bit crazy I think libra men just loves women in general:P IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9169 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 08, 2013 04:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: I'm starting to get a little bit too skeptical about them… haven't really met a libra who was completely loyal, but still they are very good to be in a relationship with? How to really explain the behavior of libra men? They seem very stable in relationships and really "care for their women" and rarely creates conflicts, but then they also have their outbursts where they are unfaithful or have some secret (but mostly short?) affair with another?
I went out with one Libra guy, Venus in Scorpio. He was not what I would call faithful but we didn't really have that kind of relationship anyway. We just went on dates, so nothing serious was expected. He's the only Libra guy I knew and the Libra girl I was best friends with has Venus in Virgo and she is the exact opposite. I knew a guy who went out with a Libra guy, he's gay, and the Libra guy was not faithful in their relationship. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze unregistered
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posted December 08, 2013 04:51 AM
Weird coincidence SSS. lol The two Libra women I went out with, one was Scorpio Venus and DEFINITELY unfaithful. Sneaky, excellent liar, the whole bit. One Venus Virgo (conjunct mine). She's never been unfaithful with anyone. She married after our relationship. Then, they divorced and she tried to get back with me again. Although never unfaithful, she did something in our relationship that I considered to be very "shady". IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 9383 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 08, 2013 04:57 AM
Not all of them are cheaters but they do take a very long time before they fully commit, probably the longest of any sign (generally speaking). IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9169 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 08, 2013 05:21 AM
The ones with Venus in Virgo can be extremely chaste.IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 06:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: The ones with Venus in Virgo can be extremely chaste.
Haha my ex had virgo venus and aries mars what about those libras with libra venus? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9169 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 08, 2013 06:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: Haha my ex had virgo venus and aries marswhat about those libras with libra venus?
I would think they would have a lot of love in their lives, lol.IP: Logged |
summerlite Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 08, 2013 06:55 AM
Libra is a flirty sign. Even if they are in a relationship, it doesn't stop them from doing so. They can be committed in a relationship if their Moon/Venus signs are stable but most love to keep themselves busy charming the ladies. Even if they weren't trying to flirt, ladies end up getting drawn to them. That's when trouble happens.IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 1630 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 07:01 AM
My Libra bf talks to his exes. I think he just wants to be nice. Libras really care about their reputation, and want to be in good terms with everybody. At first, it was annoying, but then I actually do the same. I still talk to some exes, not much, but maybe twice in a year over email, just to see how they are doing. As for cheating, I don't know. Usually, Libras are flirty and popular, and other people may take as a suggestion and act inappropriately. I've seen girls flirt with him in front of me, but he always lets them know he's with me by hugging or kissing me. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 07:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by Liliya: I've seen girls flirt with him in front of me, but he always lets them know he's with me by hugging or kissing me.
Awww my guy does the same, I think it's the nicest way to handle it, it makes me feel very loved! IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 07:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by summerlite: Libra is a flirty sign. Even if they are in a relationship, it doesn't stop them from doing so. They can be committed in a relationship if their Moon/Venus signs are stable but most love to keep themselves busy charming the ladies. Even if they weren't trying to flirt, ladies end up getting drawn to them. That's when trouble happens.
Well they are usually good looking (and the one I'm dating is really charming too) so mostly girls thinks he is really cute and sweet (and he also is, cause he has a pieces moon too) But I just got to learn how to deal with that….pisces mooners isn't especially stable though? I'm one myself and I'm definitely not stable at all IP: Logged |
summerlite Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 08, 2013 07:52 AM
I'm not familiar with pisces moon but pisces can be a charmer.If he has Libra sun/pisces moon/ Libra venus, i would be careful. IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 1630 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 07:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: Awww my guy does the same, I think it's the nicest way to handle it, it makes me feel very loved!
It's almost like "Thank you, but I have a girlfriend". I think, they don't like when their partners are openly jealous either. They don't like conflicts, possessive and badly mannered people. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae Knowflake Posts: 4120 From: Venice, California, US Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 08, 2013 01:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: Yeah not friends, but someone he used to see or his ex, or someone he is going to bang
... but he's in a committed relationship? Then ... WTF? Then he's clearly NOT committed, or it's not a committed relationship. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 01:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by IndigoDirae: ... but he's in a committed relationship? Then ... WTF? Then he's clearly NOT committed, or it's not a committed relationship.
No we are not in a relationship, so I guess he is free to do what he want, I don't really want to commit to a libra guy either, it's way too risky … I just hope he likes me the most lol IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 01:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by summerlite: IIf he has Libra sun/pisces moon/ Libra venus, i would be careful.
Yeah he also has sun and venus square uranus to top it, but he is unbelievable charming though…. damn it!:/
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