posted December 16, 2013 10:45 PM            

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A friend who is only a friend when circumstances are pleasant or profitable. At the first sign of trouble, these capricious, disloyal friends will drop their relationship with you.

e.g. "I had thought Ted would stand by me when I was accused of theft, but it turned out he was only a fair-weather friend."

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posted December 16, 2013 11:21 PM              

Capricorn people are pretty ride-or-die also, but not they aren't as far gone as Libra Moon Venus-Neptune ppl are. Like, they have a point where they'll throw you over if it comes to that, in order to save themselves.

Piscean people are pretty damn fair-weather; I had a friend I was pretty close to for years, and as soon as she thought she'd found/made new friends she took off. Later I approached her in anger about how she took off and the friendship suddenly began again - I realized later that the friendships she'd thought she'd made earlier hadn't panned out.

I had an Aqua sun woman insist she was in love with me after about a week of talking to me. After a lot of arguing and her sorta talkin me into it I developed feelings for her and quite comically, once a guy started to pay her some degree of attention she did a pretty hard and fast about-face.

posted December 16, 2013 11:25 PM            

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Most people will be fair-weather friends if they're only casual and not very close

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O_O
Really?

But wouldn't that make them acquaintances, rather than 'friends' - if it was that casual?

posted December 17, 2013 12:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:

I was wondering about friends who are actually close... and who still drop you when you have problems.. when you least expect it..

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I know what you're saying, Odette, however my experiences with fair weather people happened differently. I don't like friends who don't know how to get over arguments and yet I have many of them. So, ime, those are fair-weathered friends.

Taurus sun, Pisces moon (and whenever she gets a boyfriend you go from 2 to 20 on her priority list.) Venus in Gemini

Sag sun, Capricorn moon (won't argue, just leaves. Avoids.) Venus in Sagittarius

Scorpio sun, Capricorn moon (pretty self-absorbed and avoid responsibility for problems in the friendship) Venus in Scorpio

Pisces sun, Libra moon (there's always a certain amount of distance, hard to be in sync with and didn't talk for a year after a small argument.) Venus in Aquarius

Virgo Sun, Sagittarius Moon (not a really "bad" friend per se but isn't very nurturing. Doesn't check up on you when something is wrong, etc.) Venus in Libra

The people who were loyal and supportive although they may not have been apart of my everyday life or I don't see them (people who've consistently given me "good" vibes)

Taurus Sun, Scorpio Moon, Venus in Leo

Aquarius Sun, Cancer Moon, Venus in Pisces

Aquarius Sun, Cancer Moon, Venus in Aries

Aquarius Sun, Cancer Moon… can't remember the Venus.

Virgo Sun Venus in Leo

posted December 17, 2013 12:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
O_O
Really?

But wouldn't that make them acquaintances, rather than 'friends' - if it was that casual?

I was wondering about friends who are actually close... and who still drop you when you have problems.. when you least expect it..

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Well, there are friends who are casual and who you associate with vs. friends who you can share very personal things with.
I was thinking about people who you consider friends, but when you get into trouble, they don't really take a stance, kind of passive, really.

But what I listed I find still stands, maybe hard uranus or neptune aspects too for unreliability.

posted December 17, 2013 08:10 AM            

Fixed signs are stubborn, they'll stay put except for Aquarius, who's emotionally detached.

I'll probably narrow it down to Cap sun/ air moons. But i don't think Gem moons drop friends. So it's probably Cap sun/ Aquarius moon or Cap sun/Libra moon.

For Venus signs, it's the mutables that'll run in a relationship/friendship. Pisces venus, sag venus, gem venus except perhaps virgo.

posted December 17, 2013 02:17 PM              

in synastry fit the fair-weather friend to a T...
See venus square jupiter, it might seem lovely but keep and eye out you can't really trust them.
Venus trine jupiter on the other hand is perfection.

Mercury and Venus square Jupiter in natal chart.
I think these placements make me "friends" with everyone.
I don't do this with people Im close with but if someone is turning into a mess I start to avoiding them because I don't really want deal with that..
Even if it's not their fault often my feelings for them are not strong enough for me to stick around..

posted December 17, 2013 03:32 PM            

I don't like just drop people, but...I dunno, I'd rather sail with people who have smooth lives like myself. I'm flaky. Besides, I'm very independent myself and don't really like to receive help unless I know I need it, so maybe that plays into it too. Same in reverse, I'll help out only if like...I really know they needed it I guess.

posted December 17, 2013 04:16 PM              

Otherwise if I start to find them annoying or boring I'll probably just stop talking to them.

posted December 17, 2013 06:43 PM            

I don't know his other placements but I'm almost positive he has some Virgo in him

posted December 17, 2013 06:49 PM              

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Originally posted by LeonisStar:
I have a Scorpio friend who drops all of his friends literally every. single. time. he gets a girlfriend. And we never say anything about it. Next time I'm just going to ignore him when he comes running back...sigh

I don't know his other placements but I'm almost positive he has some Virgo in him

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posted December 17, 2013 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor:

I know a Venus in Leo, Sun in Virgo guy who runs through friends and girfriends like underwear. I got used to seeing people rant at him because he'd gone from hanging out with them (or sweettalking them) to overnight , not respnding to messages anyore and actively avoiding them. Which is why when I saw those placements listed here in connection to loyalty I literally exclaimed, "Nuh unhhhh!" at the computer screen lmao.

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