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Topic: What's the worst way you've ever been dumped?
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IMoppedtheFloor unregistered
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posted December 25, 2013 09:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by ash20: I was completely ignored and never given any closure, even when i practically (pathetically lol) begged. Him: Virgo sun Scorpio moon Leo venus Libra mercury & mars
Virgo Sun Leo Venus guys do this.
They just stop responding to you lmao. Out of the blue. An ex of mine was exactly like that and then once he was done with me I was in a weird position where I had a front row seat to see the next girls fly off the handle when he suddenly forgot they existed too.
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summerlite Knowflake Posts: 850 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 25, 2013 09:25 PM
^i actually think it's the scorpio moon or mars for her case. Must have been some misunderstanding/miscommunication for scorpio to get all bitter.IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 8687 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 25, 2013 09:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by happyaskings: Most devastating too. I want to hear more about this story...
hm simple. The most devastating thing was that there was never any closure...... Even a text message would be something. Just left my life without any trace.... I mean yeah logically I did realize it was over but it's not that simple. Ever since I've had nightmares about being abandoned -___-. Have dreams where they could not see, hear, or feel me. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 3747 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 25, 2013 09:49 PM
asclibrasagsun did ask she not be quoted and more than one did.IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3498 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted December 25, 2013 09:52 PM
STOP QUOTING ASCLIBRASAGSUNIP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1039 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 25, 2013 10:23 PM
worst - there are a few, but prize goes to the guy who went on a trip with me overseas (supposed to be for 10 days) and when we had a fight on day 3 he went back to the airport and took a flight home to the USA. meanwhile, I thought he was touring a museum and didn't actually realize he was gone until I got back to the room many hours later and saw his stuff missing and the hotel clerks told me he had asked for a shuttle to the airport. when I tried to call it went to voicemail for days. yeah... :-) I stayed for the full trip and had a blast, never cried until I got home actually. he was a mix of Gemini and Taurus placementsIP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 2755 From: Mälmo, Sweden Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 25, 2013 10:26 PM
STOP QUOTING!!!!!!!!!!!!! I SAID DO NOT QUOTE AND I SEE 3 POSTS OF YOUCAN ANYONE HAVE SOME COURTESY HERE? !!!!!!!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 2755 From: Mälmo, Sweden Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 25, 2013 10:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: asclibrasagsun did ask she not be quoted and more than one did.
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asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 2755 From: Mälmo, Sweden Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 25, 2013 10:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: [b]STOP QUOTING ASCLIBRASAGSUN[/B]
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asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 2755 From: Mälmo, Sweden Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 25, 2013 10:26 PM
THANK YOU PIXIE AND ODETTE!IP: Logged |
happyaskings Knowflake Posts: 730 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 25, 2013 11:06 PM
uhh how about stop clogging the forum with 10 posts about how people need to stop quoting. the probably saw the first 2 times, they don't need all those other reminders too. keep it on topic. smhIP: Logged |
happyaskings Knowflake Posts: 730 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 25, 2013 11:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: worst - there are a few, but prize goes to the guy who went on a trip with me overseas (supposed to be for 10 days) and when we had a fight on day 3 he went back to the airport and took a flight home to the USA. meanwhile, I thought he was touring a museum and didn't actually realize he was gone until I got back to the room many hours later and saw his stuff missing and the hotel clerks told me he had asked for a shuttle to the airport. when I tried to call it went to voicemail for days. yeah... :-) I stayed for the full trip and had a blast, never cried until I got home actually. he was a mix of Gemini and Taurus placements
lol that is his loss! i would have stayed for the trip and just gotten a different room or something. people are nuts.
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Odette Knowflake Posts: 3498 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted December 26, 2013 09:57 PM
I can't believe they still didn't remove the quotes.asclibrasagsun - you can contact Randall to remove the posts! IP: Logged |
incognito Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 27, 2013 04:56 PM
Hi Neptune. Well for example we would go shopping for something and he would be really into whatever gadget he was buying and would take time thinking over which one to get etc. Then being really pleased with his decision once its bought. 5 min later its like...complete mood swing...."Actually I hate this thing that I bought I should have got the other one." Same with dating him. One minute he would be all excited about seeing me and the next he would be cold, out of nowhere, something set him off and he would suddenly change his mind. quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: Incognito can you please explain?? I have this placement and aspect very tight too…I can relate to it also...
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incognito Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 27, 2013 04:58 PM
Oops sorry I tried removing the quotes but it says only a moderator can do it. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 7337 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 27, 2013 04:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by incognito: Oops sorry I tried removing the quotes but it says only a moderator can do it.
All you do is click "edit" and your post then delete all the words. IP: Logged |
FruitTreeFresh Knowflake Posts: 376 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 08:07 AM
This is a good post I think. At least for us to be mentally prepared.IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 6806 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 28, 2013 08:53 AM
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libraschoice77 Knowflake Posts: 1486 From: past, present, and future Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 28, 2013 01:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Leo sun/Gemini moonHis girlfriend had died in a car accident in high school, and it sort of turned him evil. He had a history of dumping girls in this "sudden death" way, I think so that others would have to endure a taste of what he had gone through. Maybe so he'd feel less alone with this kind of pain. Anyway, I KNEW he was going to dump me like that eventually...why should I be special? And it was so unlike me to get involved with anyone risky, but for whatever reason I actually really fell in love with this guy. So...one day we were on the phone and he sounded thrilled to hear me, told me loved me...next day I get an email saying that it was over and never contact him again. No explanation whatsoever.
Having a love die like that can wound a person deeply on the soul level, one of the worst things in life to experience. From my perspective it seems he felt when she died a part of him that was capable of love died along with her. He probably feels like whats the use of trying to love again, that he had felt so much feelings before only to be so badly hurt by loosing her. Seems he is more cautious now because of it  IP: Logged |
libraschoice77 Knowflake Posts: 1486 From: past, present, and future Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 28, 2013 01:32 PM
Worst way I was dumped was by a double Pisces, we had only been seeing each other for 4 months and I could tell he was getting irritated by me little by little. He even made snide remarks on the phone that I was smothering him, so it should not have come as a surprise when he had his friend call me up on the night when we were suppose to go out to tell me he didn't want to see me anymore. It lacked any kind of backbone to have one of his friends do the dirty work for him, he could have at least had the guts to tell me himself  Its why I don't buy into that triple water is so sensitive crap anymore, that Pisces was mostly water and was thoughtless. I am now with a man with almost all fire in his chart and he loves being with me every chance he gets. Don't believe stereotypes. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 6806 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 28, 2013 01:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by libraschoice77: Having a love die like that can wound a person deeply on the soul level, one of the worst things in life to experience.
I agree with all you wrote.
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summerlite Knowflake Posts: 850 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 28, 2013 02:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Leo sun/Gemini moonHis girlfriend had died in a car accident in high school, and it sort of turned him evil. He had a history of dumping girls in this "sudden death" way, I think so that others would have to endure a taste of what he had gone through. Maybe so he'd feel less alone with this kind of pain. Anyway, I KNEW he was going to dump me like that eventually...why should I be special? And it was so unlike me to get involved with anyone risky, but for whatever reason I actually really fell in love with this guy. So...one day we were on the phone and he sounded thrilled to hear me, told me loved me...next day I get an email saying that it was over and never contact him again. No explanation whatsoever.
He dumped you because he's scared he'll lose you in that manner. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 3935 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 28, 2013 02:48 PM
I was once dumped immediately after taking a pregnancy test. (It was negative) We got back together a week or so later but it was tortue because he persuaded me to quit my job to take care of me. I know, I was really dumb. Then like a month later we broke up again. It was really his doing - he was cheating on me but technically I said it was ending but it was clear he was just being unbearable so I would be the one to break up with him. Definitely the only time I had a boyfriend that treated me so poorly. I don't know what I was thinking. Anyways, he's a libra/cancer/libra with 5 planets in his 12th or something. Sagittarius Venus. He only has ONE square in his chart. The rest is blue besides conjunctions. IP: Logged |