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Topic: What's the worst way you've ever been dumped?
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happyaskings
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posted December 24, 2013 06:13 PM
  
What were their placements?Tryna filter out who the ********* people are... IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted December 24, 2013 06:17 PM
I feel that's a pretty tough thing to accomplish. There are billions of people out there literally, and unfortunately they're all a holes in all different ways. IP: Logged |
eliotray
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posted December 24, 2013 06:25 PM
Guy asked me out twice and I turned him down not because I didn't want to be with him, but because I didn't know him well enough to totally assimilate (as I do normally) I asked for more time. After I dismissed his request (quite nicely with kisses and emotional support -_-) a second time, he went off on a group camping trip, and in less than 4 days, he has a new beau, and they're and official tissue item. It was the only time I was "dumped" - albeit it informally - I don't get tied down often or I do the dumping. But yeah, it counts to me. I'll post his chart in a bit >_> IP: Logged |
IMoppedtheFloor
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posted December 24, 2013 06:36 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I feel that's a pretty tough thing to accomplish. There are billions of people out there literally, and unfortunately they're all a holes in all different ways.
LOL...This. IP: Logged |
IMoppedtheFloor
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posted December 24, 2013 06:36 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I feel that's a pretty tough thing to accomplish. There are billions of people out there literally, and unfortunately they're all a holes in all different ways.
LOL...This. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted December 24, 2013 06:37 PM
The worst way, not the most devastating?Okay the worst way, I was basically kicked out of a leo's party in front of everyone.. It was embarrassing at the time but I remember running into people who saw everything and were basically telling me how petty and ridiculous that display was. IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted December 24, 2013 06:42 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
The worst way, not the most devastating?Okay the worst way, I was basically kicked out of a leo's party in front of everyone.. It was embarrassing at the time but I remember running into people who saw everything and were basically telling me how petty and ridiculous that display was.
Most devastating too. I want to hear more about this story... IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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posted December 24, 2013 06:58 PM
A playboy taurus…the only guy I think who ever dumped me for real.
He had a lot of aries going on(aries venus, mercury and maybe moon) and scorpio mars.
We were having a nice time (so I thought)
But when I was leaving he suddenly took on the player attitude and didn't wanted to tell when we were going to meet again and when I asked him "Are you gonna call me or?" he was like "Maybe baby" lol
And he never called.
Then I met him randomly in town and he ignored me and I made a drama, the scorpio venus I am…and confused about it.But I learned from this that I'm never gonna ask a guy if he's gonna call me, it sounds so desperate lol! He was also a lot older than me and I was only 19 and immature …and dramatic, very dramatic IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 25, 2013 11:31 AM
Through text message. The whole relationship ended up being very traumatic for me. He was a Leo Sun with a Sag Moon and Leo Venus. Something I have experienced with Sag influenced males (three instances) is in the beginning of knowing them they mess up, and if you take the high ground or don't react you will get an apology right away, but later on when they actually make you upset they will say nothing, and they DO NOT like (or concede really) to being at fault. Why is this? What is so different about when they mess up initially vs. later?In any case, it begun a year long torture of me giving every ounce of energy to having him in my life and making him happy, and him knowing we felt differently about one another but continuing to "emotionally" seduce me anyway. So traumatic, who does that...smh IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 25, 2013 12:00 PM
Hmm... His friends dumped me for him. He was too coward to admit that he wasn't interested into having a relationship. He wasnt interested in women either. I found that later.
He was an Aries Sun, Aquarius Moon conjunct my IC(exact) and Venus in Taurus.IP: Logged |
AlexDern
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posted December 25, 2013 12:08 PM
This is going to sound really bad but once I made sweet love to a girl I had been dating for several years. I knew I was going to brake up with her but I was young, and the cruelty of it was crazy passionate.When we were done, even though I told her several times I loved her and that we were going to be together until she dismissed me into the world, I told her everything I said was a joke, and that we're just young and foolish, and that this wasn't anything serious.... IP: Logged |
incognito
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posted December 25, 2013 12:13 PM
Don't feel like saying what happened but the person had pisces moon square uranus almost exact-so unpredictable and hard to please
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Originally posted by happyaskings:
What were their placements?Tryna filter out who the ********* people are...
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AlexDern
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posted December 25, 2013 01:26 PM
incognito - that's a peculiar aspect.IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted December 25, 2013 01:42 PM
This guy I call the "cold shoulder" guy -
running after me, seeing the love in his eyes.... and then getting a phone call from some lady he hadn't talked to in 30 years and becoming official with her even before he was even done with me and hadn't even divorced his wife yet...
Now he and I never had a sexual relationship but we did engage in an emotional affair for 2 years, we loved each other but we were honest and did not overstep our boundaries...
Anyways he gets involved with the old lady and instantly drops me .... STOPPED LOOKING ME IN THE EYES AND ACTED AS IF HE HATES ME WITH A PASSION, COMPLETELY COLD AND ANGRY don't quote He has Sun in Sag, Moon in Sag, Venus in Cap and Mars in Cap but the mars and venus do not conjunct, he has sun conjunct moon though...
seems to take his relationships seriously but this was the worst "breakup" I ever had, he ended it with me without words, never explained a thing and still thinks that I think that he is single when I know he is in a relationship with someone else. What a piece of shiznittttt IP: Logged |
incognito
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posted December 25, 2013 04:09 PM
That's harsh. I think it's been mentioned a couple of times that men with Venus in cap are coooold. Same sort of experience here.IP: Logged |
incognito
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posted December 25, 2013 04:11 PM
That's harsh. I think it's been mentioned a couple of times that men with Venus in cap are coooold. Same sort of experience here.
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ash20
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posted December 25, 2013 04:26 PM
I was completely ignored and never given any closure, even when i practically (pathetically lol) begged. Him:
Virgo sun
Scorpio moon
Leo venus
Libra mercury & mars IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted December 25, 2013 04:30 PM
Sags are swift with breakups. They just want to get over it quick. Caps can be ruthless.IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted December 25, 2013 04:58 PM
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Originally posted by ash20:
I was completely ignored and never given any closure, even when i practically (pathetically lol) begged. Him:
Virgo sun
Scorpio moon
Leo venus
Libra mercury & mars
Wow what a little b. How long were you with them? IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted December 25, 2013 05:10 PM
incognito - can you unquote please?I asked for it not to be quoted... Please click edit and delete both of the quotes Thanks IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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posted December 25, 2013 07:07 PM
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Originally posted by incognito:
Don't feel like saying what happened but the person had pisces moon square uranus almost exact-so unpredictable and hard to please
Incognito can you please explain?? I have this placement and aspect very tight too…I can relate to it also... IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted December 25, 2013 07:23 PM
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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Wow what a little b. How long were you with them?
Off and on for about 6 months but we were mostly off sooo .. not long.
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fireopal09
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posted December 25, 2013 07:59 PM
Ex husband told me he wanted a divorce over the phone. Coward. His Moon, Venus, and Lilith are all sorts of afflicted.------------------
Claire
"When going gets weird, the weird turn pro."
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Odette
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posted December 25, 2013 09:10 PM
Most men tend to drift out of things rather than really break up. I've never seen a guy properly break up with someone and I've never had this experience either. Usually either because there is another girl or just because they feel like things are over.. they will detach and act cold or stop interacting.This doesn't bother me. But the worst men I know of and have seen in my life.. in relationships - have Taurus and Aries influence.. because they are self-centred and very selfish. AlexDern - You didn't post your chart *shrug*
Thanks for the confession.. lol IP: Logged |
IMoppedtheFloor
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posted December 25, 2013 09:19 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
This guy I call the "cold shoulder" guy -
running after me, seeing the love in his eyes.... and then getting a phone call from some lady he hadn't talked to in 30 years and becoming official with her even before he was even done with me and hadn't even divorced his wife yet...
Now he and I never had a sexual relationship but we did engage in an emotional affair for 2 years, we loved each other but we were honest and did not overstep our boundaries...
Anyways he gets involved with the old lady and instantly drops me .... STOPPED LOOKING ME IN THE EYES AND ACTED AS IF HE HATES ME WITH A PASSION, COMPLETELY COLD AND ANGRY don't quote He has Sun in Sag, Moon in Sag, Venus in Cap and Mars in Cap but the mars and venus do not conjunct, he has sun conjunct moon though...
seems to take his relationships seriously but this was the worst "breakup" I ever had, he ended it with me without words, never explained a thing and still thinks that I think that he is single when I know he is in a relationship with someone else. What a piece of shiznittttt
Moon in Sag is pretty hardcore like that they'll dump you like so much trash. One of mine has Sag moon and he's a nasty dumper too.
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