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posted December 29, 2013 01:57 PM            

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Just a fast look at your chart, Pluto in 12th square Mercury (ruler of 8th and 11th), then Saturn (ruler of 3rd) in 1st square Venus (ruler of 7th) and Moon. Then Mars in the 3rd.

It feels that you seem very serious and hurt/betrayal might trigger hurt feelings (in case it's from someone you trust), and mental fixation/anger. If you can't break the mental 'loop' of remembering again and again (Pluto square Mercury from the 12th), you might get very angry. It's best to calm down and not decide anything, let it pass first so that you can think clearly again.

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posted December 29, 2013 02:14 PM            

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Pluto conjunct Ascendant in 1st.

Of course there might be other things. I'm not sure.
Mars/mercury square moon perhaps.

It depends on what it is. It's kind of strange because I never ever forget. I may let it go and carry on just as was before. However, that memory will secretly influence the future with this person. I may draw a new boundary and they are completely unaware of it unless they try to cross it.

If any of that made sense. LOL

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posted December 29, 2013 02:17 PM            

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I have Pluto in twelve square Mars and it conjuncts a planet conjunct the ascendant. Sort of a friend of a friend type of thing.

I don't forgive so easily but I don't dwell, either. What I do is forget about something until I am reminded. Like, if I see the person or hear someone talk about them and they were malicious in the past, I will instantly remember how much they ****** me off and how much I hate them for doing that.

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posted December 29, 2013 02:30 PM            

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NOPE

Scoprio Pluto conj Moon, opposing Sun and Venus, making a T-square with (aqua) Saturn. I have a hard time doing either of those, but if someone can make it up to me, I may forgive them. However, in most cases, there is no closure since I stop talking to people once they have crossed the line, and thus I have a hard time forgetting. I need you out of my life to get over it.

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posted December 29, 2013 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by brightwhites:
NOPE

Scoprio Pluto conj Moon, opposing Sun and Venus, making a T-square with (aqua) Saturn. I have a hard time doing either of those, but if someone can make it up to me, I may forgive them. However, in most cases, there is no closure since I stop talking to people once they have crossed the line, and thus I have a hard time forgetting. I need you out of my life to get over it.

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Yep, I'm similar. If I see a pattern I don't like, I just stop talking to them. If they want to say stuff that will drive me crazy every time they are within ear shot then fine. Do so without me.

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posted December 29, 2013 02:48 PM            

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It's a Scorpio thing.

Strongly Cancerian people have the same problem too though.

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posted December 29, 2013 02:50 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I find that Plutonic people in general are like this and also Cancer Mars.

My mom is a sun/moon/merc Scorpio in 8H and my dad is a Leo Moon conj Pluto with a Cancer Mars. Both remember **** and DWELL about things that occurred in 1983....no lie.

I have also dated 3 men with Cancer Mars and "hades moons" and they were the same.

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It has to be something else doing it because I have Moon-Pluto in the 8th and a Cancer Mars and as long as the person stops doing whatever it is they did to me I forget and move on pretty fast. If I'm still complaining it's because it's still happening lmao.

I think that's a Leo thing though - Leos don't really *do* grudges. If you leave us be , five minutes later we forget anything was ever done to us in the first place.

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posted December 29, 2013 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor:
It's a Scorpio thing.

Strongly Cancerian people have the same problem too though.

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Very true about Cancers! I know from experience.

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