posted January 02, 2014 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
incognito: Heres my chart. me inside. Synastry and composite with the ex. Feel free to comment and analyze.

--I don't want to coldly analyze your chart, you sound like you're in pain over this. I don't want to make things worse for you. I was just curious because it sounds very very similar to my not to distant situation. I was curious if you had a water sign or leo in your chart. The only thing I can suggest is try to break through the thick shell or find someone more emotional. I'm sorry if I came across as cold, its just shocking how similar it is to my old situation.

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posted January 02, 2014 06:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
I honestly wish I could help you but I'm really new to astrology. I don't want to say to totally give up on the guy because maybe you could have a good relationship with him. I just know its really difficult to break through to his emotions.

I just don't want you to continue to cry at night, its exhausting and doesn't help you mentally. You need someone supportive.

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posted January 02, 2014 06:37 PM            

--I'll be honest, it took me a really long time and very supportive friends. I would talk to them about it. I had to realize how bad the relationship was for me. Trust me, you deserve more. There is nothing wrong if you want a more emotionally supportive guy. Again, the guy you are dealing with is a different guy from my ex so you may break through to him. Just take care of yourself too, talk to your friends or someone close to you. It helps so much talking it out with someone you trust.

posted January 02, 2014 07:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
incognito: Aw thanks. That means a lot. How did you get over it?

--I'll be honest, it took me a really long time and very supportive friends. I would talk to them about it and try to figure out a way to make it work. He and I slowly fell apart and I had to realize how bad the relationship was for me. Trust me, you deserve more. There is nothing wrong if you want a more emotionally supportive guy. Again, the guy you are dealing with is a different guy from my ex so you may break through to him. Just take care of yourself too, talk to your friends or someone close to you. It helps so much talking it out with someone you trust.

My ex still contacts me about his activities which I tend to just ignore.

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posted January 02, 2014 07:14 PM            

--You need some space to think and recover. Maybe you could remain casual friends in the future but just focus on yourself right now. If you can, talk to someone and have them help you figure out if the relationship is good for you or not.

posted January 03, 2014 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Canadiangirl:

He definitely was all over the place with his emotions. Sometimes he showed a restricted form of affection and other times when it was called for he didn't have it. He did expect emotion when he needed it but not he other way around. I don't think we really understood each other despite our cancer suns. He was also military and English so maybe *that* played a factor too.

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Cancer/Aqua needs a ton of space, yet wants to cling to you for dear life when THEY feel like it. I cannot do the hypocrisy.

What is your Moon btw?

posted January 04, 2014 03:11 AM            

I'm currently with Aqua AC/mercury/mars + aries Venus +Pisces Sun +Saggi Moon for 6 yrs. , all I can say for my man , when it's done then he will not go back anymore.

I ask him why? He said he doesn't like his heart to hold on to the past ,then it will also hold back your life into the same bad/unclear situation and no point to hold back your future .

I think it has to be his ARIES venus only said this for sure .

where is your guy's venus and moon?

posted January 04, 2014 12:51 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyKitty:
Wow..interested for Aqua sun/moon/venus and Saggi sun , they do the same .

I'm currently with Aqua AC/mercury/mars + aries Venus +Pisces Sun +Saggi Moon for 6 yrs. , all I can say for my man , when it's done then he will not go back anymore.

I ask him why? He said he doesn't like his heart to hold on to the past ,then it will also hold back your life into the same bad/unclear situation and no point to hold back your future .

I think it has to be his ARIES venus only said this for sure .

where is your guy's venus and moon?

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sun aqua
venus cap square pluto
moon pisces square uranus
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posted January 04, 2014 02:29 PM            

What is your Moon btw?

--What you said is so true with my ex and I couldn't handle the hypocrisy either. I'm a gem moon so I don't mind independence but at least have the groundwork of solid emotional connection first.

posted January 04, 2014 02:30 PM            

--Go out and do something with friends to distract yourself. What activities do you love to do? You need to keep busy and support to help you through this.

You need to think of your mental health here. You need to really ask yourself is this man you`re dealing with good for you. Are you happy the majority of times you interact with him or is there more pain and tears. Can you count on him when you need him. If you want a serious long term rels with him, will he be there when your sick.