posted January 09, 2014 12:04 AM            

So as you know, we have a lot of the same aspects! I have Venus square Saturn (5 degrees) and square Neptune (6 degrees.) My Venus is in the 11th however, which I think means I like to observe love happening more than be apart of it directly. Because yours is in the 12th I think you will have more successful relationships romantically (and with women also since we're talking bout Venus, equals friendships) if you are private about them. I know my description will sound like 8th house matters, but I don't see it that way: basically I see the 12th house as the closed door on our personalities, and the first house as the door open.

^ That being said I would imagine you can produce a very rich love life (you can otherwise too, mind over matter) by adapting more to Piscean energy. Learning to feel things out with your antennas and helping people, being creative.

posted January 09, 2014 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by caramel:
LOL @ "eat you, caramel"!
Thanks for the analysis Sven! Hahah no I have had no secret affairs, but I do fantasize about love. I'm restricted in a way that the love I want I never get, or may be the one I want is the one I know I wont get. 12th house self-sabotage! I'm still trying to work through that one.

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Can I eat you then?

No problem caramel! The fantasizing comes from your 12th house Venus.
All planets and placements are workable, you just need to keep working at them! You're possibly feeling your Venus square Saturn with restrictions, also this is only what Saturn wants you to think. Would you say you're afraid of entering relationships, caramel?

posted January 09, 2014 05:49 PM            

@ Hanna: Thanks for that analysis!! I'd love to get to know you more and see how we work through the same aspects yet from the perspectives of differing houses! And you are right I am evasive at the beginning of my relationships but once I commit (which takes my taurean moon a stupidly long time) I give my all. I am gladly willing to sacrifice so much just to see his smile.

posted January 10, 2014 02:43 AM            

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@ Sven: Haha! Yes you can! And you're correct I am afraid to enter into relationships, but I'll attribute that to the scars from the only relationship I ever did enter.

Btw you all make a great online community!! I was feeling bummed when I read about my chart but you guys have such positive energy and provided me with lots of direction! My taurus moon wants to bake you guys brownies but cap placements wants to shake your hand while 12h-aries wants to smile at you all coyly hahah

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Thanks! We're all students and we're all teachers here! Yum! You going to make brownies as well??? I've just ate you caramel

Ok, you can make us brownies and then we can shake hands, whilst you hand over the brownies. After this you can smile at us coyly whilst we devour them!!!

posted January 10, 2014 04:59 AM            

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Originally posted by caramel:
Oh I'm fairly new to the study of astrology so I'm unsure of that.. however I do know venus does not have any soft aspects.. but I realize I posted limited info. Here's my chart if it helps:

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I'm an Aries with Venus and Merc Square Neptune. When I got to a certain age, specifically when Pluto crossed my Moon in Sag, my whole idea of what I thought love was supposed to be and felt like you for a while, but you're an Aries, don't give up-you know who you are.
Btw, you were born on April 6th, 1989 eh? My little bro is April 7th, same year. He's been with his Cancer girlfriend for a few years now.

posted January 10, 2014 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by caramel:
@ Sven: Hahah its a deal!

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Hooray! Yum!

posted January 10, 2014 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Sven555:

Would you consider yourself to be a private person, caramel? Do you find it hard to express yourself?

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Actually in my mind I view myself as an open book but I detest it so if there's any chance I get to shut that book tightly, I take it. But we all must like to keep some sort of a mysterious aura around us, no?

posted January 10, 2014 12:21 PM            

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Hooray! Yum!

Would you consider yourself to be a private person, caramel?

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posted January 10, 2014 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by caramel:
Actually in my mind I view myself as an open book but I detest it so if there's any chance I get to shut that book tightly, I take it. But we all must like to keep some sort of a mysterious aura around us, no?

Yes, I do sometimes find people are not perceptive enough to read between the lines. I mean, I'm not hesitant to elaborate but its more of that I am consciously putting multiple filters in front of myself so to not hurt others (knowing my Aries has the potential to do so). Unless the other person is the one person who knows me long/well enough and I know will be able to understand me. And yes this repression may cause problems later. Then again, isn't everyone like that Sven?

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An open book? It could be your Midheaven (MC)? The Ruler of your Midheaven is in your 9th house. You're right know, you need to keep a little mysterious aura so people stay interested trying to get to know you!

People must feel your 12th house energy then, as you think people don't read between the lines. Selflessness (Pisces energy) is possibly why you don't want to hurt others. Maybe you can use your Arian energy for other things? I think some people repress, caramel. But obviously it's not always good!

Excluding family, do the people that know you, know you very well?

posted January 10, 2014 05:27 PM            

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My goodness, I guard my privacy like an aqua man would his freedom. Extremely private

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posted January 10, 2014 05:41 PM            

Even some of my family does not know me as well as they could but I've noticed that especially when I'm in dire need of a specific type of support, somehow the universe gives me someone out of the blue who's fits the bill exactly!

posted January 10, 2014 05:59 PM            

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I love your insight!! Hahah i'll definitely keep that as a career option if I want a change.

Even some of my family does not know me as well as they could but enough people do for me to have a support system which is great! As for aries energy, yes I try to (and hope to) channel it into bouncing back staying positive and in my career.

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Thank you! Haha sure, it's always an option

That's good! Friends can tend to know us better, than family lol. You have alot of Arian energy deep down lol, give me some

posted January 10, 2014 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Hello caramel! Welcome to LL

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posted January 10, 2014 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by caramel:
Gladly!!! Take it all! Hahah I'd gladly be a taurus that changes these squares to trines.

Btw what are your prominent energies?

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Take it all? All the caramel? Yum!

Although being a Taurus would lead to trines, you do need squares! Squares are a source of energy!

posted January 11, 2014 05:43 AM            

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Squares are a source of energy!

I'm not sure what my prominent energies are, I have a Leo Mars, which squares my Taurus Sun and scorpio pluto, it trines my Aries Venus. Mars sits in my 10th house conjunct MC, so i'm rather driven towards career things!

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posted January 11, 2014 07:14 AM            

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Originally posted by caramel:
I liked the positive spin you put on squares! Oh you're a taurus sun! Super sweet people in general! And no wonder you appreciated my taurus moon baking you brownies haha! Leo mars is awesome, I've noticed that in general it gives people such admirable drive.

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Yes! Some squares are easier to deal with than others, but typically Saturn or Pluto squares (and oppositions) to Luminaries require more work do overcome the friction.

Thanks! Most Taurus Sun's I know are decent people; although we all have Sun square Mars, ha! You need to make more brownies! Well my Sun and your Moon don't conjunct (19 degrees apart) but your Moon and ASC conjunct my DSC, which is very good! You're right about Leo Mars, but not everyone acts on their Mars and instead they don't get very far, they end up being bossy lol.

posted January 11, 2014 10:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Sven555:
Yes! Some squares are easier to deal with than others, but typically Saturn or Pluto squares (and oppositions) to Luminaries require more work do overcome the friction.

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That's so interesting!I'm happy that I dont have any pluto squares. It being in 7th house scorpio, is tough enough on its own.. according to what I have read... Any way, everything you have said is super educational! I'll definitely be making more brownies haha!

posted January 11, 2014 03:24 PM            

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Originally posted by caramel:
That's so interesting!I'm happy that I dont have any pluto squares. It being in 7th house scorpio, is tough enough on its own.. according to what I have read... Any way, everything you have said is super educational! I'll definitely be making more brownies haha!

I'd love to ask more and learn more but now I'm feeling bad that this "lets-talk-about-ME" thread I've made keeps jumping up to the top So I guess its
time I let it fall into the abyss

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I'll make a new thread in the "Lindaland Central 2.0" forums, and we can discuss there?