posted July 21, 2015 06:05 PM
I found a website that has an interesting description .... with Mars in Scorpio and a Scorpio stellium I feel that I relate the most to this description (I suppose there can be factors that overwhelm a persons venus sign) ....
Venus in Water: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
With Venus in a water sign, you desire intimacy and deep connections. Your relationships are safe harbors, places of refuge in a storm, and you’re attracted to people with whom you feel emotionally secure. Those closest to you know what you’re feeling before you say a word. They make you feel that no matter what happens, everything is going to be all right and they’ll be there for you.
You’re looking for people with whom you can share every flaw, every vulnerability, and they’ll love you all the more. What you want most in relationships is a sense of profound emotional attunement, safety, and deep sense of belonging: a nonverbal understanding that says, “You get me, I don’t have to explain.”
What you fear most is betrayal. When you stand before another and drop all defenses, you expect that person to honor the trust you’ve placed in her or him. Anyone who is careless with your feelings or who doesn’t share your innate sensitivity will find themselves shut out in the cold.
http://heavenlywriting.com/article-1/
Venus in Earth: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn
With Venus in an earth sign, you seek the security, peace, and comfort that come with committed friendships and relationships. You understand true passion stems from mutual respect and that love needs to be tended.
You’re drawn to people who are sensual, competent, and have a surplus of integrity and strength. Particularly attractive are the “doers” of the world, who work hard to create the life they want. Your ideal partner reinforces your sense of stability and facilitates your native self-reliance and desire to get things right.
You’re a sensualist, so touch is often a profound means of connection: holding hands, making love, a passing caress act as outward demonstrations of what you share. What you want most from your relationships is to feel physically attuned and connected to others, to know on a cellular level that those closest to you are every bit as strong, dependable, trustworthy, and committed as you are, and that together you can weather anything.
To capture your heart, one must first earn your respect. All style and no substance leaves you cold and those prone to unrealistic flights of fancy make you flee for the nearest exit. You take the long view on life, seeking what is real and lasting, and you aren’t prone to settle for less.