posted January 11, 2014 06:09 PM            

Pretty much 100% true.

posted January 11, 2014 06:48 PM            

for me I dont find PDA uncomfortable
but I keep hearing other wise

posted January 12, 2014 01:08 PM              

The food part.... not true at all for me. I love food and there's few things that I don't like. Even some that I don't like I can "stomach" them if I have to.

Otherwise, I can see some truth. I've been fighting it though because it's usually led to disappointment or being taken advantage of. I prefer to be the "reliable friend" who's services are available if needed. I'm okay with not giving services for no reason. Same goes for people who need "rescued". Any more, I prefer not, but would. I just like to be the safety net at the bottom if they fall.

posted January 12, 2014 01:23 PM            

Openly affectionate n PDA: Yes to friends and family.

About affection, I think it depends. I like affection, but I don't like to be babied and fussed over too much.

With strangers, I like to keep it cordial - don't think that counts as "chilly".

Money - lol I'm not a dragon hoarding n sleeping on gold coins. Why work for it if I don't intend on spending it

posted January 13, 2014 12:49 AM            

The 'service' that you are meaning is more in the 'actions' not in the philosophy of the relationship. So, for instance, I will go out of my way to sincerely find out about the little things-personal tastes, preferences, etc that my partner likes and I will seek to fulfill those things. I highly appreciate it when my partner does the same for me, because it means that they are sincere in their affection for me, and not just throwing in any old grand gesture of love that they could easily shower on ANY partner that they may have. The 'service' theme really seeks to fulfill a genuine, pure sincerity that Virgos tend to display. This is generally where most people get tripped up when it comes to Virgos. We don't just like to be of service... We like to genuinely show that we care ABOUT YOU AS A PERSON- We're not just throwing around thoughtless attempts to woo someone, anyone by using generalized romantic gestures. We really personalize it, in part, because we feel special when someone does it for us.

posted January 13, 2014 03:37 AM              

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Originally posted by enchantress299:
Sorry, but the Venus in Virgo description is way too vague, and quite frankly, not accurate. I've always been more of the impression that most Virgo Venuses are fairly discriminating in whom they will accept in a relationship (because we are generally more comfortable being alone than being in a bad relationship like some of the other signs). I personally would never in ten bazillion years look for a guy as a 'project' or to be a 'savior.' That makes for an incredibly unhealthy, unbalanced relationship and much more stress and strain for me. Many Virgos actually do realize their worth ya know? (Plus, I've found 'savior' complexes to be more indicative of Cancer Venuses whom want to ensure that their partner is coddled and taken care of. Virgos don't coddle. We just don't. Many Virgos don't put up with BS at all).

The 'service' that you are meaning is more in the 'actions' not in the philosophy of the relationship. So, for instance, I will go out of my way to sincerely find out about the little things-personal tastes, preferences, etc that my partner likes and I will seek to fulfill those things. I highly appreciate it when my partner does the same for me, because it means that they are sincere in their affection for me, and not just throwing in any old grand gesture of love that they could easily shower on ANY partner that they may have. The 'service' theme really seeks to fulfill a genuine, pure sincerity that Virgos tend to display. This is generally where most people get tripped up when it comes to Virgos. We don't just like to be of service... We like to genuinely show that we care ABOUT YOU AS A PERSON- We're not just throwing around thoughtless attempts to woo someone, anyone by using generalized romantic gestures. We really personalize it, in part, because we feel special when someone does it for us.

And the food part... That part is just a very generalized Virgo stereotype. Not all Virgos are super picky about what they eat. Most of us will be able to tell you exactly which restaurants that we like the best (and why), but that doesn't mean we have to eat there 24/7. Also, not all of us are super healthy dieting nuts who impose our diets on everyone else. That is silly and entirely subjective.

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posted January 14, 2014 11:23 AM            

This is the opposite of my husband:

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Venus in Virgo man may be attracted to a woman who needs help, physically or otherwise.

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Not at all. I think Virgo Venus might feel overwhelmed by serious situations like that, and they hate feeling inadequate or not up to the task. I just say this as one who married a Venus Virgo, dated a few, and knows a few others.

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So there may be a lot of criticism and attempts to fix seemingly trivial problems.

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posted January 14, 2014 12:33 PM            

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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
Venus in cap here. It's not accurate. I think venus in cap is the most misunderstood placement of all times.

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posted July 13, 2015 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor:
You saved me some keystrokes (Venus in Virgo, 7th house).

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posted July 13, 2015 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by earthypisces:
Brilliant! I honestly don't think I've ever read a more accurate Cap Venus description for me.

Pretty much 100% true.

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Yes, he's very good.

posted July 13, 2015 11:01 PM            

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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
Venus in cap here. It's not accurate. I think venus in cap is the most misunderstood placement of all times.

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posted July 14, 2015 10:04 AM            

I don't know if they mean showing affection thorough psychical intimacy, or like all the other sources mean by gifts and such.

As a cap venus, I know for sure that all I need in love is to know that the person is happy to be with me and loves me. Caps are usually aren't appreciated much so the little things mean a lot to them. And if the person they love likes to show their affection with big gestures, they will be ok with it as long as they know its genuine.

posted July 14, 2015 10:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
How would you desribe your venus in capricorn?

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posted July 14, 2015 10:45 AM            

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Originally posted by goddessinworld:

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I also hate it when they say venus in capricorns are attracted to people who are rich and successful, we aren't that shallow. there is so much more to a person than that.

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posted July 14, 2015 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I think Venus in Capricorn is attracted to partners that, being with that person will enhance their reputation or garner their friends and family's respect. The partner doesn't have to be wealthy or successful necessarily - that is where astrologers often go wrong. It's about status yes but not necessarily wealth. In some circles a tattooed broke dude would gain the respect of your peers, and that is who the Venus in Cappy would tend to go for.

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I don't think this is true. As a venus in capricorn, I can say that when I'm attracted to people,what would happen to my reputation if we were together never ever crosses my mind. When I'm attracted to someone, I think about the person and not how it would benefit me, or how that would appear in the public eye. Thats just me.

posted July 14, 2015 08:43 PM            

My parents didn't like my s.o at all. Neither did my relatives and they caused us a lot of troubles. I fought them so many times over it.

As for friends, I don't mind if they don't like my s.o. They only need to be civil, that's all.

posted July 21, 2015 02:53 PM            

I have Venus in Cappie, Rx and in the 12th house. I loathe this placement right behind having Saturn in the 5th house (I really wanted to be a mom!) And adding double Aqua aloofness doesn't help. I also thought of cappy venus as classy, not trashy. I have Pisces in my 2nd house so I'm not tightfisted but I'll work hard to keep the love nest I build safe (Mars Taurus?) I'm not one to fall in love quickly or out of it having the "divorce aspect" venus-uranus either. Earth venus crave stability, respect, nurturing and desire. We give this back to the ones we love in practical ways I guess. Like water signs, earth runs deep - and i believe water softens the earth so I married a venus scorpio (only just getting into astro) and i read venus water signs worked well with venus earth signs and possbily venus aries, if they lean more on the "lamb" than the "ram" side whatever that means