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14All
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posted January 13, 2014 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 14All     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it a Venus Aries thing to just, attract everyone and never reach the point of having a stable relationship or is that just me ? -_- I mean, I always manage to **** things up and get so mad to a point where any love relationship I have just ends out of my impatience or intolerance to the negative sides of my potential partner. No matter how much I admire a potential lover, I can leave in a flash, considering my other half as a newborn enemy :S

Is this really a Venus Aries thing ?

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posted January 13, 2014 02:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Newrise     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a progressed venus in Aries and that's what happens :-(

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Violets
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posted January 13, 2014 02:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Erm...I have Venus in Aries, and it doesn't have any positive aspects to it (unless you count a conjunction from Ceres and wide orb conjunction with Jupiter). It's opposite Pluto, for that matter.

I've always had tumultuous, argumentative relationships with a lot of passion, but they were mostly long-term relationships.

So...I don't know. Does your Venus make a hard aspect to Uranus or something?

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posted January 13, 2014 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NeptunianSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Try having Venus in Aquarius, we are a mindfuck to everybody, even ourselves at times.

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posted January 13, 2014 04:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no.

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posted January 13, 2014 04:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
no.


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Chiemi
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posted January 13, 2014 04:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chiemi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you have moon in hard aspect to uranus or mars by any chance?

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ash20
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posted January 13, 2014 05:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Rihanna has this placement too and as attractive as she is she doesnt seem to have the best relationships either.

I feel like i can never have a stable long term relationship. My venus is aspecting uranus and neptune though.

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lvASTRO
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posted January 13, 2014 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lvASTRO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus in Aries, but while it is difficult (I feel like I'm constantly falling for strangers), I have a ton of Capricorn in my chart that makes me slow and steady and rationalize that it's just infatuation. If there's staying power, then there's no need to rush into anything.

I believe we just need a partner who is exciting, adventurous, and can keep us guessing.

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posted January 13, 2014 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dadoo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Description fits me quite well

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AriesLilith
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posted January 13, 2014 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesLilith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus here and no, I'm married and been in long term relationship with my husband for 8 years now.

I can be emotionally demanding and chaotic, but am fully capable to have long term relationship. I guess Aries needs to chase and feel chased, some sparks every now and then thought.

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14All
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posted January 13, 2014 11:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 14All     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Violets & ash20: that's what I thought as well. My Venus is squared to Uranus (capricorn) and also squared to Neptune (also capricorn) sextile Mars (gemini). PS: im a guy

Chiemi: my Moon's in Capricorn (5th house)... it's only aspect is square to Mercury (pisces)

Thank you AriesLilith for showing the path of hope :P hahah.

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posted January 14, 2014 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My daughter has Venus in Aries.
Her first relationship was in high school and lasted 3 years.
The second relationship she had a child with the man, and they lasted 2 years.

The relationship she's in right now has just passed its one year anniversary and they are talking about marriage. Coincidentally the guy is a Venus Aquarius, and he has only had one other relationship with high school flame, that lasted 5 years in total.

So, no, you won't be forever alone if you don't want to be.

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AriesLilith
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posted January 14, 2014 06:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesLilith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by 14All:
@Violets & ash20: that's what I thought as well. My Venus is squared to Uranus (capricorn) and also squared to Neptune (also capricorn) sextile Mars (gemini). PS: im a guy

Chiemi: my Moon's in Capricorn (5th house)... it's only aspect is square to Mercury (pisces)

Thank you AriesLilith for showing the path of hope :P hahah.


That square is probably what shows the lack of stability. Uranus/Neptune square Venus can show a very idealistic view, plus strong need for excitement, that might not match with reality. Too much idealism can point to disappointment when one realizes that the other person is not what he/she expected. Maybe deep inside, you are insecure, associating the lack of matching to your expectations to the other person not being the right one for you. We are often brainwashed by society and media that love has to be crazy passionate that if a relationship doesn't fit these expectations, then this relationship must be wrong, instead of seeing relationships with realism.
Also, sometimes being disappointed can create resentments and anger, which can justify why you can sometimes end up seeing a potential lover you used to admire as enemy.
Another possibility thought, is overlooking the flaws and red flags at the beginning, when you are too infatuated, which can make you drop off your guard and accept relationships that might not meet the minimum standards you need, which can later become more obvious.

The key to solve this is to understand why you have the expectations you have. Then understand where they are not realistic and try to be more compassionate and acknowledge the other person, instead of expecting too much too soon.

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posted January 14, 2014 08:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyKitty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, 14All
I think it doesn't always like the cook book said although it tend to be as fiery as aries but if you could find someone to have a solid ground relationship with , this could be work.

I have also similar natal chart like yours. I have venus in Fire element( Leo) square uranus in scorpio few degree, and more over my uranus is exact conjunct Mars too , so venus is also square mars , venus trine neptune . Till now is about 6 years that I've been with the Aries venus with Aqua stellium (AC/mercury/mars) , we've met when we both developed enough to be together and both of us try very hard to live with one another. I think in my case a big part that could help is Saturn , the old glue of any relationship .
Are you synastry of your last relationship(s) , has enough saturn to each other' personal planets?

Btw, good to know the Thai 's Fellow here


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posted January 14, 2014 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by GypseeWind:

The relationship she's in right now has just passed its one year anniversary and they are talking about marriage. Coincidentally the guy is a Venus Aquarius, and he has only had one other relationship with high school flame, that lasted 5 years in total.

So, no, you won't be forever alone if you don't want to be.


Ooo I'm a Venus in Aries engaged to a Venus in Aqua

He can be a bit "cold" sometimes, doesn't always recognize the need I have for attention. But the best part of his "aloof" ways are that I can constantly chase and flirt and it actually means something..

I don't think Venus in Aries means you'll be alone. I've been in a few long-term relationships over past 10 years. Granted the first one wasn't healthy (Thanks Venus square Neptune) at all and I stayed waaaaay longer than I ever should have.

You just need somebody to hold your interest. "Winning" ends the chase and therefore usually Aries' desire to continue the venture. If you have somebody who just gives you everything you feel you want/need I guarantee it won't last. Where was the fun? The chase? The hint at victory to keep you coming on?

The only affliction my Venus has is that silly little Neptune square.

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posted January 14, 2014 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by AriesLilith:
That square is probably what shows the lack of stability. Uranus/Neptune square Venus can show a very idealistic view, plus strong need for excitement, that might not match with reality. Too much idealism can point to disappointment when one realizes that the other person is not what he/she expected. Maybe deep inside, you are insecure, associating the lack of matching to your expectations to the other person not being the right one for you. We are often brainwashed by society and media that love has to be crazy passionate that if a relationship doesn't fit these expectations, then this relationship must be wrong, instead of seeing relationships with realism.
Also, sometimes being disappointed can create resentments and anger, which can justify why you can sometimes end up seeing a potential lover you used to admire as enemy.
Another possibility thought, is overlooking the flaws and red flags at the beginning, when you are too infatuated, which can make you drop off your guard and accept relationships that might not meet the minimum standards you need, which can later become more obvious.

The key to solve this is to understand why you have the expectations you have. Then understand where they are not realistic and try to be more compassionate and acknowledge the other person, instead of expecting too much too soon.


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I don't get bored with people easily but when the relationship becomes too stable i fear the other person is going to get bored with ME. So either i shake things up by being super flirty to make them jealous or i leave first but it's NEVER because i'm bored with them. I would actually prefer a stable relationship but i'm afraid if i don't keep the excitement up i will be left.

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posted January 15, 2014 10:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jjj     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have seen that men with Aries venus are very different from women with this placement. Can any Aries Venus man give some feedback and add their sun/mars sign?
I have seen that they are not the chaser type at all... more like a small boy who drags a girl by her hair and then escapes and laughs in the corner with other fellows...

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posted January 15, 2014 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Or: find yourself another Aries-venus.
My sis has it and her guy has one also, conjunct by 2 degr.
With both Pluto opp. their venus and ofcourse each other's.
Their Saturn/Mars conjunction (her Mars/his Saturn) is making a T-square of it.
Together for about 17 years or so... they live together now for only one year.
They're from different cultures. I'm sure they will never get bored of each other.

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posted January 15, 2014 12:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ash20:
Rihanna has this placement too and as attractive as she she doesnt seem to have the best relationships either.

My Aries Venus best friend is the same way.

She has Venus conjunct her south node, though.

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posted January 15, 2014 01:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sven555     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by jjj:
I have seen that men with Aries venus are very different from women with this placement. Can any Aries Venus man give some feedback and add their sun/mars sign?
I have seen that they are not the chaser type at all... more like a small boy who drags a girl by her hair and then escapes and laughs in the corner with other fellows...

I have Venus in Aries.
My Sun is in Taurus; Mars in Leo.

I sometimes like to pursue a girl who I am interested in and mostly, they just seem to want friendship with me rather than love. It's almost as if I can't get to know them better than friendship. I don't know, it's probably the way I come across?? I'll never know.

Although I don't mind people pursuing me, I find it a little uncomfortable at times, because I feel that's my role to do. If i want something or someone, I'll do my best to get them; but if someone else pursues me, it's like they're doing my role for me. :/

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lalalinda
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posted January 15, 2014 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello 14All! Welcome to LL

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posted January 16, 2014 05:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for summerlite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by jjj:
I have seen that men with Aries venus are very different from women with this placement. Can any Aries Venus man give some feedback and add their sun/mars sign?
I have seen that they are not the chaser type at all... more like a small boy who drags a girl by her hair and then escapes and laughs in the corner with other fellows...

i have read beforet that venus in aries guys are actually complete opposite of the venus in aries girls

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lvASTRO
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posted January 16, 2014 05:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lvASTRO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Aries, Sun Pisces, Mars in Caprciorn with a Moon in Leo. I don't like being pursued at all unless I have mutual interest. Even though, if I do like someone, it's a bit more reserved and not an all-out chase like it's written for this Venus placement. I am also not the quickly in-and-out of love/infatuation type, because I rationalize things quickly. I do get bored easily if it's too routine/mundane, so that can be remedied by keeping things interesting, changing it up, etc. I also have a really hard time thinking outside of myself. Sometimes in a relationship I forget there's another side/person that has feelings, too. But I'm getting better over the years...

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