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Topic: Pisces mars....tell me who are and what do you crave sexually?
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Gabby Knowflake Posts: 2234 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 19, 2014 05:14 PM
I don't understand pisces mars at all! I don't have any pisces in my chart, but a lot of saggy and a gemini mars!I've dated this guy in the past who has pisces mars in 12th, a very tight square to my saggy mercury and sun....I don't have a clue what he needs sexually in order to open to me and I know he doesn't understand me in that way either! We are starting to talk again but I don't want to be with someone that doesn't communicate with me. I know we don't communicate the same way sexually! How can I bridge our differences in communicating sexually? What do you guys need in order to open and truly bond with someone so that you love talking to them and want to express yourself openly with them? What do you guys need sexually that makes you feel close and safe in a relationship to the point you feel love? What role do you want to play, are you always passive? Then if your mad your passive aggressive? Do you ever get to a place you don't bottle up your emotions? How does someone help you open up? I don't mean to be rude but pisces stresses me out because I can easily get angry and then get over it....and never think of it again! Pisces don't do that, they keep it inside until they turn cold! They don't fight for what they need they accept what's given then retaliate in quiet ways....quite frankly this scares me because I don't have a clue what's really going on in a pisces mind! Is there any way to stop this cycle and get a pisces to be open and trust that they won't be hurt by expressing themselves sexually or any other way? Any help would be so much appreciated! IP: Logged |
AlexDern Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 05:20 PM
Mars in pisces is empathic. This means that they want you to be as pleased by them as they are by you. If they sense that you are faking something they will turn cold, and depressed, but if you are genuinely aroused by them they will go wild. Sometimes they give you more than they realize they can handle so it's good for mars in pisces to really figure out what they want and not try to please you too hard.IP: Logged |
AlexDern Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 05:21 PM
And if they say something strange, they may be experimenting to see what you like, as a fish butts its head against a reef to find a way around.. they will be in tune with every quiver of your body and react accordingly. They have a way of bringing out sides of you didn't know existed, and then getting scared by it at the same time...IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 332 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted January 19, 2014 05:23 PM
Mars in pisces is super flaky in relationships. Quick to have an affair, but still be loving at home. Verrrrryyyyy sexual. Not sure what they want and EVASIVE! At least, this has been my experience. not to say they're all that way- again- just what I've seen. Other than that they are wonderful, kind, giving, folks. IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 2234 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 19, 2014 05:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by AlexDern: And if they say something strange, they may be experimenting to see what you like, as a fish butts its head against a reef to find a way around.. they will be in tune with every quiver of your body and react accordingly. They have a way of bringing out sides of you didn't know existed, and then getting scared by it at the same time...
It has always seemed I brought out things in him or suggested things that turned him on but scared him at the same time....his fear of things kind of turns me off? I want to be understanding of his nature but I guess they just move so much slower and ponder longer on this stuff than I do...my gemini mars is very quick to move, I'm thinking pisces isn't? My mars doesn't aspect his mars, my nearly unaspected mars is gemini@29.33 if it wasn't retrograde I'd say our mars trined, his pisces mars is early...pisces@3-4
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Gabby Knowflake Posts: 2234 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 19, 2014 05:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ann7: Mars in pisces is super flaky in relationships. Quick to have an affair, but still be loving at home. Verrrrryyyyy sexual. Not sure what they want and EVASIVE! At least, this has been my experience. not to say they're all that way- again- just what I've seen. Other than that they are wonderful, kind, giving, folks.
It's strange to think they are cheaters because they seem so empathetic and don't want to hurt others... Does anyone have experience with a pisces mars that wasn't a cheater or are you a pisces mars that wouldn't cheat? What is your thought on cheating? This guy has told me he cheated on his wife! So that's a huge red flag with me!
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AlexDern Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 06:24 PM
I'm mars in pisces...I never cheated, and I'm not flaky in relationships. I usually don't start them though unless I'm sure the woman is interested.Mars in pisces is impressionable. IP: Logged |
summerlite Knowflake Posts: 646 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 06:30 PM
lol are u close to being a Mars Cancer?Mars pisces seems to need a lot of coaxing when they get mad/passive. I get so irritated by them. IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 2234 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 19, 2014 06:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by AlexDern: I'm mars in pisces...I never cheated, and I'm not flaky in relationships. I usually don't start them though unless I'm sure the woman is interested.Mars in pisces is impressionable.
Do you have any squares or oppositions to your mars?
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AlexDern Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 06:43 PM
Yeah...Chiron/gemini/1st-12th square pisces Pluto/scorpio/5th-6th trine mars And Saturn is almost square...I believe... IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 2234 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 19, 2014 06:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by summerlite: lol are u close to being a Mars Cancer?Mars pisces seems to need a lot of coaxing when they get mad/passive. I get so irritated by them.
My mars has never seen cancer! It will be retrograde for another 16 years... My progressed mars right now is gemini@15, so it'll be an exact square to his mars before it's ever a trine! I doubt in my lifetime I will see my mars as cancer, I bet I'll be a taurus mars for a minute though! Progressions are interesting! I totally agree pisces is a hard to understand sign, they are so inside themselves and don't show who they truly are until they are either imploding or exploding! Seems to be a tough sign to be! IP: Logged |
fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 203 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 19, 2014 06:46 PM
I am a Pisces Moon with a whole hot mess Neptune aspects. Neptunian influenced people ARE empathetic and will lie to protect US from feeling your pain and our guilt. Admittedly, I cheated on past boyfriends before when I was younger.I had a plethora of "reasons". We can be deceptive to ourselves as well as others. If this dude cheated on his (hopefully ex) wife, that should be a warning. If he is doing the warts and all full disclosure, great. I am an evolved Neptunian too. It does happen. Look at uber Neptunian Johnny Cash. His life is a prime example of Neptunian redemption. ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 2234 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 19, 2014 07:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by fireopal09: I am a Pisces Moon with a whole hot mess Neptune aspects. Neptunian influenced people ARE empathetic and will lie to protect US from feeling your pain and our guilt. Admittedly, I cheated on past boyfriends before when I was younger.I had a plethora of "reasons". We can be deceptive to ourselves as well as others. If this dude cheated on his (hopefully ex) wife, that should be a warning. If he is doing the warts and all full disclosure, great. I am an evolved Neptunian too. It does happen. Look at uber Neptunian Johnny Cash. His life is a prime example of Neptunian redemption.
Yes it his ex wife! He did do a full exposure with me, which scared the $!*+ out of me, because he was bad! But then he said i scared him, because for some reason he wanted to tell me everything and be so open with me. Honestly....I wish he hadn't have told me! He does seem to have saggy "too honest" syndrome with me....it just comes out and I can tell he's shocked by what he's told me! He says he loves how honest he feels with me....I can't say I love it all the time though! He has gemini Venus opposed his saggy Neptune with pisces Mars t-squaring it... Plus his mars is in 12th....it's a tough placement.
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AlexDern Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 07:00 PM
Think about it as a metaphor.You're a fish swimming in water...you're swimming towards a thing but have to move side to side to get there, and it might not be what you expected. It really isn't much more complicated than that. Vague questions of morality should be based on character, not astrology...character is the habbit patterns of the person. Do they do drugs? Do they lie a lot? That has nothing to do with your stylistic approach towards a goal. IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 332 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted January 19, 2014 07:04 PM
Agree w/ fireopal09- I'm a Pisces moon as well (aquarius cusp) neptune in 12th. While I've never cheated (saturn in 5th lots of jupiter conjunctions in the 10th) I'm definitely a flake in regards to relationships (commitment issues) and I tend to have a wandering eye. Like I said, pisces people have numerous endearing qualities but they can be extremely evasive. The fact that he cheated IS a red flag. Proceed with caution. IP: Logged |
AlexDern Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 07:10 PM
As a pisces moon, and pisces mars, and a sun conjunct neptune...I am very piscean...and I can attest to a wandering eye...But not necessarily one that is searching for romance. Again, pisceans are impressionable. What this means is that they retain the images, emotions, feelings, thoughts, words, etc...of any experience, so if it's too intense, it will stick with them. They need to wring out a bad experience like a sponge is wrought out of water. They do this by taking a warm bath, or meditating, or engaging in a spiritual practice, and being disciplined. Then they're sensitivity becomes a strength because they are highly dynamic and almost psychic. IP: Logged |
summerlite Knowflake Posts: 646 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 07:11 PM
The reason why Mars Pisces is cheater sign is because Pisces is a savior sign. They love saving people. So if when a damsel in distress falls into his arms, his Mars will not hesitate to save. Of course you can't judge by Mars alone. It also depends on Venus/Moon. You mentioned he has Venus Gemini. Venus Gemini can be over friendly with girls so that's when it gets dangerous.IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire Knowflake Posts: 1390 From: The Crossing Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 19, 2014 07:17 PM
Yes, I must agree on the rescue of damsels in distress. In the past, I did experience a Mars in Pisces who was happy about cheating with me. He openly expressed joy about the thrill of being in love with an unavailable person; and being the hero to rescue me from an unhappy situation. However, when I did exit the unhappy situation he became evasive. I think it was more about the fantasy; or he just didn't want to deal with the reality of things. In any case; he is an Aquarius Sun and did have the tendency to go back and forth. IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1009 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 19, 2014 07:24 PM
ok, so i slept with a mars pisces for 4 years. in the end he was a cheater (sexually) but i think all along he harbored fantasies about other women and being in different dream scenarios. i found him to be very lazy both in and out of bed - it was like he wanted to experience sex more than actually do any work or participate in it. i got that feeling, like he was into feelings over actual action. he was not sexually aggressive, but fairly open to everything. loved cuddling and being told how great he was, etc. - that he made me happy, etc. he was a very kind lover, in the sense he was never degrading or never made unkind remarks, etc. - thoughtful and respectful in that way. his cheating ended our relationship and sexually i wouldn't want one again - too boring ... my mars likes action. if you're a water sign mars/moon i bet it'd be heavenIP: Logged |
AlexDern Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 07:29 PM
It's preposterous to assume that mars in Pisces is a cheater based on a simple mars and sign placement.I call foul play here..and coincidence. Plus, to poster above, I know many Aquarius suns who cheat. IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 332 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted January 19, 2014 07:36 PM
Alex, I totally understand why you are a bit defensive and I agree that not all pisces mars are cheaters just like not all gemini moons are cheaters but , in my experience, the placement seems to produce more people that are inclined to it.
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Gabby Knowflake Posts: 2234 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 19, 2014 07:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by AlexDern: Think about it as a metaphor.You're a fish swimming in water...you're swimming towards a thing but have to move side to side to get there, and it might not be what you expected. It really isn't much more complicated than that. Vague questions of morality should be based on character, not astrology...character is the habbit patterns of the person. Do they do drugs? Do they lie a lot? That has nothing to do with your stylistic approach towards a goal.
Yes, when he was cheating he was addicted to drugs! His dad murdered his mom when he was 15, his dad was a surgeon and did a botched after hours surgery on his mom and cut her too deep, "on accident " but the court saw it different...and the fact that his dad had the janitor as an assistant and he was in major debt and needed the insurance money to pull himself out if debt, he was found guilty but never served time! His dad abandoned the kids after getting them to give him their insurance money from their moms death on the promise he would pay them back and pay for their education. He did neither!
This guy started using drugs as a teenager, put himself through college, got married and had his 1st child addicted to drugs! He graduated, he's a surgeon, from med school with highest grades in his class, addicted to drugs! After he graduated the medical board figured out his addiction and took his medical license...he got or back and he has been clean for 5 years. Now he's divorced and starting his own practice! I guess that's the only reason why I'm even considering seeing him again, I think he's starting a new life, hopefully an honest life! He seems very devoted and so happy to being this new person! I feel bad holding his past against him, I've went to many AA meeting with him...it felt good supporting him and seeing him give lectures on how his addiction hurt him and the ppl he loved. But still....I have fear about trusting him! IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 2234 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 19, 2014 08:12 PM
Ugh....I haven't heard much that sounds promising so far.
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fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 203 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 19, 2014 08:17 PM
It sounds to me like he is reclaiming himself and doing a great job at it. How long have you all been together?------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
mcmlxix Knowflake Posts: 324 From: Jupiter Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 19, 2014 08:25 PM
I really like this site to gain fresh insight on Venus-Mars. Personally, the hopeless, love-at-first-sight romantic in me finds this Mars placement irresistibly magnetic.Here are some highlights: For the Mars in Pisces Lover, to love and be loved is a compulsion; an all-consuming drive that affects every part of their lives. It is their demon... With Mars in Pisces we confront the essence of sex appeal... A relationship with a Mars in Pisces Lover can seem like a headlong plunge into an emotional and sexual abyss. ...these Lovers often thrive in circumstances of emotional upheaval and they typically do all they can to keep their romantic situations fluid and unfixed. Deception and subterfuge often play large roles in the love lives of Mars in Pisces Lovers. And perhaps that is the most problematic quality of this type — no matter how badly they behave, it’s just too damn easy to fall in love with them all over again. IP: Logged |