posted January 21, 2014 04:15 AM            

I haven't been contacted by someone from my past though but that's probably cuz I want him to contact me... that's how this stupid universe works apparently when you want something it doesn't happen & when you finally move on BAM there they are -.-

anyways what I've also noticed is that everytime Venus went Rx the past 4 years I got sick... I rarely get sick & I remember everything so I remember the dates lol! xD
Isn't that strange? Venus doesn't rule my 6th

posted January 21, 2014 04:31 AM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Let see I got dumped the first day of Venus Rx. It's snowballed from there lol...
I actually reach out to an ex I had 2 years ago. I was trying to apologize for things that happened in the last...it did not go well.
I also had a friend I hadn't spoken to in about 5 years contact me to catch up. Pretty interesting.

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Hey, i went through a breakup on the day it started too!

posted January 21, 2014 04:52 AM            

Most of those never gave me closure. I just... realized it was never going to be worked out, I was never going to see them again and tearfully moved on. I'm holding way too much inside and it gets even worse seeing everyone be happy and lovey-dovey together.

posted January 21, 2014 11:39 AM            

And that was just happen , nothing further , just one day and I feel overwhelm , I hate this feeling , it's so intense to met someone who has ...
- his Jupiter/Uranus conjunct my AC
- his mars conjunct my sun
- his moon trine my sun
- my Lilith/Juno conjunct his jupiter
- his lilith conjunct my psyche
- his Mercury/Neptune conjunct my mars/Uranus , and square my Venus
- his aphrodite conjunct my venus
- his valentine conjunct my sun
- my Amor conjunct his sun
- his lust conjunct my Eros/Karma/Mercury/pandora/Bacchus
- his Union /Boda conjunct my IC

Ohhhh... and we have sun/moon/venus/saturn contact to eachother Nodes !

Helppp.... I'm gonna be insane , maybe it's good that he's just disappered .

posted January 21, 2014 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
I'm a Capricorn at 26°, Rx Venus in Aquarius 3° and Mars in Libra 13°. Quite interesting huh? I was crazy in love with a guy for one year, I had a huge heartache and since Rx Venus took place I stopped thinking about him, just like a miracle... Right now it's transiting my 11th house. I really hope when it gets straight I will not start thinking about him again. It sounds weird but this Venus was a breath of fresh air to me. No communication with exs, and I don't want it to happen these last days... Eventually, is it true that for us with natal Rx Venus when it transits is good?

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posted January 21, 2014 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by LeonisStar:
From the mixed answers in this thread I don't really know! Some people with Venus Rx were still affected badly. I don't have a natal Venus Rx and mine wasn't necessarily bad, the ex that contacted me I have no feelings for whatsoever it was just odd.

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I think it has to do with the whole chart (aspects, transits etc.). Most of the people had exs showing up. I never thought that a Rx Venus could make you fall out of love. The ones that you had exs returning can you tell us sth you think that signified their return in your chart? Mostly transits...

posted January 21, 2014 09:05 PM            

!!!!

posted January 21, 2014 11:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
My guy says astrology is hogwash.
Today he told me that he got his hair cut, and doesn't like it.
I usually keep the astrology to my self, but I couldn't contain myself. And told him that Venus is rx, and that people often don't get "good new look results" during this time.

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posted January 22, 2014 08:42 AM            

Being in Capricorn, it went conjunct to my Moon (5th house), and conjunct to both me and another girl's Jupiter and Neptune. We were starting a little something for the past few months, and the attempt to make it go farther doing this period separated us.

posted January 22, 2014 12:00 PM            

Well, I have been messaging with the ex from 2011 ( he never ceases to give up), he wished me happy new year, love and consciousness etc. I have NO feeling for him at all..but we messaged about films we like etc so was alright. I have also heard from my recent ex (who I do still have feelings for, we wanted to meet when I am in Dubai but he has exams, so guessing venus rx means delays too...).

posted January 22, 2014 03:26 PM            

I was quite under the spell of this guy some years ago (from 2008 to 2009/10), a Scorpio with RETRO Venus in scorp natally.

I got a text message from him the 3rd of januari this year (I had not heard from him a long time) in which he wished me 'happy new year', saying that he thinks about me every day and that he had some "issues" which kept him from contacting me sooner (he ignored my messages more than once - also at an earlier stage). And ofcourse he promised in it to contact me soon...

Yesterday:
Second message from him.
And to finally make a long message story short (in which much apologies from his side); the relationship he's in now (I had NO idea he's involved with someone) is completely KILLING him.. he wants to get out of it.. needs to talk with me so badly.. etc.

I made it very clear that I have no ears for him anymore. "Isn't it painful that in life too often there's no way back anymore? For long I already helplessly witnessed how you were sowing the seeds for our eternal downfall."

posted January 22, 2014 05:11 PM            

Here's a simple article about this Venus Rx.

Venus Retrograde

When Venus is retrograde, we re-evaluate many things in our lives, aiming to achieve that perfect balance of beauty, harmony and happiness. We re-evaluate our important relationships to see if they are providing us the harmony we hoped for. We look around our environment and make adjustments; rearranging the furniture, repainting the walls a different color, or making other changes to beautify our surroundings. It is the same with our personal appearance; we try a new hairstyle or redecorate ourselves, always with this urge towards more beautification. It is a good idea to allow for this period of experimentation since preferences may change again by the time Venus concludes her retrograde cycle.

It’s only about every 18 months that Venus goes retrograde for about 40 days. She spends the least amount of time retrograde of any of the “planets”. (Of course the Sun and Moon are technically the “lights” and they never go retrograde.)

Venus’s next retrograde period begins December 21, 2013 when Venus stations at 28º Capricorn. Venus moves back to 13º Capricorn, resuming direct motion on January 31, 2014. Venus makes it back to 28º Capricorn on March 3, 2014.

Venus is rather like our happiness gauge. During its backward motion we have the opportunity to take a deep look at what is making us happy, whether it be relationships, situations, environment or “things”. We enter a period of review of these.

Throughout this process, keep in mind that Venus has to do with attraction, affections, and objects of devotion. Venus connects to the sentiments and since our sensitive side is more sensitive than usual, it’s a good idea to practice diplomacy and be gentle, especially with those you love. They are likely to be the first target of your displeasure. Give others the benefit of the doubt.

If the passions are aroused a new relationship could form. In this case you might need to reevaluate how precious your freedom is. In many cases, there’s a matter of a choice; giving up one thing in order to have another. Incidentally, it’s a good time to explore a new relationship but not a good time to wed. For some, the need to end a relationship will be real and a wise choice, however, you should be wary of the impulse for this Venus to act too quickly. Think it over carefully and if you have the slightest inkling that you could be making a mistake, wait awhile. We may be anxious to turn over a new leaf only to find later on that something crucial is missing from the new page.

Ruling objects of beauty, art, décor, jewelry, etc. this may not be the best time to make expensive purchases, but a time to de-clutter and let go of things that are no longer a reflection of who you are. Look around you; what about that old collection of ______ from the ’80s? Does it still bring you the pleasure it once did or have you outgrown it? Let it go and make room to grow. You may not want to actually sell it until Venus turns direct if it’s really valuable but you can spruce it up and get it ready – emotionally detach.

Of course, there’s always the chance that something will “happen to” some of our “stuff” that upsets us. We lose something, break something, plans are cancelled, etc. If you find a way to use the energy of this transit constructively, however, fewer of these incidents will occur.

posted January 22, 2014 05:15 PM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
I have a question... What's the significance of transiting Rx Venus conjunct Pluto in my 11th house?

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posted January 22, 2014 11:50 PM            

I am just holding on. Remaining pleasant and positive. It will be two weeks since we last saw each other on Saturday. However, I am thinking about possibly waiting to see him until next week; closer to the end of the Rx. I dont want to take ANY chances. Lol.