posted January 27, 2014 01:10 PM            

What aspects or placements would you associate with this?

posted January 27, 2014 01:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Violets:
I have Saturn in 11th, as well as Uranus trine Sun/BML and sextile Moon. I did not fit in well with the people in my rural, small town high school. At all. I also have Aqua Mercury/DC, which probably makes me seem "weird" or "odd" to some people, if their definition of "normal" is too narrow.

High school wasn't as bad as junior high, though. By that time I had developed some rather unhealthy defenses, but they worked.

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Honestly, I have no idea.

I usually don't like to talk to people in MY SCHOOL because alot of rumours go around about me and I get this feeling that most people who talk to me are kinda judging me. My 11th house ruler is Libra and Venus is in Virgo in 9th. My 3rd house ruler Uranus though is very afflicted, square Saturn, opposite Moon, and is also placed in 3rd.

I have never felt like I 'fitted in' in my school and this is why I stay off people.

posted January 27, 2014 01:31 PM            

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Originally posted by m.blade:
What aspects would you find in someone who say had a bad high school experience? i.e. prone to gossip, not liked, etc

What aspects or placements would you associate with this?

Just because someone told me recently that I'm an 'emotional introvert that nobody likes'

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posted January 27, 2014 01:34 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
In my chart I think it's:
10th house Venus in Leo afflicted by Saturn
Leo is a popular sign and tenth is the most visible house. Affliction from Saturn is self evident. It is limiting and restrictive. It restricts the power of Venus to create pleasantry and happiness.
moon opposite Neptune - another telling feature since moon rules not only reputation but in my case, the MC.
Mercury in third, afflicted by a twelfth house planet it can indicate secret enemies and people who will do a lot of gossiping, might even plan evil things which I am sure they did but I was too wily to stick around.
12th house planets have a lot to do with sabotage and difficult circumstances, sorrows and undoing. They can indicate conditions that are generally destructive, even environments.

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I have Mars in 12th but I wouldn't say it's afflicted. It is in Scorpio, it's domicile and is sextile 11th house ruler Venus, but squares my 8th/10th house ruler Mercury and opposes Jupiter 2nd house ruler.

posted January 27, 2014 01:46 PM            

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Originally posted by m.blade:

I usually don't like to talk to people in MY SCHOOL
I have never felt like I 'fitted in' in my school and this is why I stay off people.

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That's how it was for me, too.
I had boyfriends from different schools, and hung out with people who were older and had already graduated.

I did have a small group of friends (again with Saturn in 11th, I think, and they were a lot like me) that I still keep in touch with, but we really disliked where we were and the people we were surrounded by.

posted January 27, 2014 07:02 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
I had horrible experiences. Saturn transitted my 4th and 5th houses. So it wasn't just my high school but my home life as well

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Oh surprise surprise. Saturn was transiting 10-11th during most of my time here. God that makes sense.

posted January 27, 2014 07:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
It does not even matter.
We all get old anyways

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posted January 27, 2014 09:58 PM            

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Originally posted by m.blade:
Oh surprise surprise. Saturn was transiting 10-11th during most of my time here. God that makes sense.

saturn is now transiting my 12th/1st. I feel like I'm starting to find myself a bit

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posted January 28, 2014 02:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Lunae:
I got bullied during my elementary and HS years. I won't enumerate my experiences but in summary, I was almost always alone back then. I didn't belong to any group. It's hard to believe that I'm a social butterfly now lol

Natally, I think I could attribute this to the Jupiter-Mercury-Moon t-square in the 3rd, 6th and 9th respectively. I also have Uranus, Neptune and NN conjunct in the 7th house of open enemies.

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Honestly for me it's not about wishing to be social.
For me, I've had rumours about my personal life at home which due to unfortunate circumstances was seen by everyone.

I don't fit in ANY of the interests most people do. Most people are interested in sex, sports and social status.

I've never been interested in any of this. Sex, eh too young for that. Sports, I'm not into football and that's pretty much the only sport people value here and social status? People love it; I really don't mind.

posted January 28, 2014 05:31 AM            

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Originally posted by m.blade:
Honestly for me it's not about wishing to be social.
For me, I've had rumours about my personal life at home which due to unfortunate circumstances was seen by everyone.

I don't fit in ANY of the interests most people do. Most people are interested in sex, sports and social status.

I've never been interested in any of this. Sex, eh too young for that. Sports, I'm not into football and that's pretty much the only sport people value here and social status? People love it; I really don't mind.

I'm usually seen as that 'weird' kid who is pretty quiet and just strange when he does talk. I just haven't seen any different and I wouldn't like this sort of theme to prevail throughout life.

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I'm sure that it won't. I felt the same way that you're describing when I was in high school. I think that, once you leave the place where you're at and can go somewhere with more like-minded people, it will probably be easier for you. That's how it was for me.

I grew up in a small town that was (and is) a lot the way you're describing. My home life was never on display, but school was really unpleasant.

But then I graduated, stuck around for a couple of years, and moved to a lovely, diverse city where I fit in just fine (for the most part...I still have Saturn in 11th).

posted January 28, 2014 02:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Violets:
I'm sure that it won't. I felt the same way that you're describing when I was in high school. I think that, once you leave the place where you're at and can go somewhere with more like-minded people, it will probably be easier for you. That's how it was for me.

I grew up in a small town that was (and is) a lot the way you're describing. My home life was never on display, but school was really unpleasant.

But then I graduated, stuck around for a couple of years, and moved to a lovely, diverse city where I fit in just fine (for the most part...I still have Saturn in 11th).

I think you'll be okay.

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thanks

I guess since I haven't seen much different I have this mindset that things'll be like this.

posted January 28, 2014 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by m.blade:
What aspects would you find in someone who say had a bad high school experience? i.e. prone to gossip, not liked, etc

What aspects or placements would you associate with this?

Just because someone told me recently that I'm an 'emotional introvert that nobody likes'

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My high school experience wasn't very fun. I was that kid who would get laughed at by the entire class before bursting into tears(this happened on my first day of 9th grade).

Higher education like college is 9th house; stuff like k-12 is 3rd, and I have Chiron in the 3rd house. Neptune is in the 11th (friends), squaring Venus and most of my planetary midpoints. Uranus is on the MC (people tend to dislike weird ppl); Aqua ascendant. I have a few other chart indicators for being preyed upon, things like the asteroids "Bambi" and "Prey" in some pretty interesting spots.

Introversion has nothing to do with it, for the record. Plenty of introverted kids are well liked by the other kids around them. I don't even think it's really about that. Kids just tend to pick on the ones that stick out. Adults do the same thing too, it's not really any different. I don't hold any grudges against the kids I went to school with, because they WERE kids too, and didn't know their heads from their a55es at that age any more than I did.

Adults, on the other hand, have no excuse, because you should know better by then.

posted January 28, 2014 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor:
My high school experience wasn't very fun. I was that kid who would get laughed at by the entire class before bursting into tears(this happened on my first day of 9th grade).

Higher education like college is 9th house; stuff like k-12 is 3rd, and I have Chiron in the 3rd house. Neptune is in the 11th (friends), squaring Venus and most of my planetary midpoints. Uranus is on the MC (people tend to dislike weird ppl); Aqua ascendant. I have a few other chart indicators for being preyed upon, things like the asteroids "Bambi" and "Prey" in some pretty interesting spots.

Introversion has nothing to do with it, for the record. Plenty of introverted kids are well liked by the other kids around them. I don't even think it's really about that. Kids just tend to pick on the ones that stick out. Adults do the same thing too, it's not really any different. I don't hold any grudges against the kids I went to school with, because they WERE kids too, and didn't know their heads from their a55es at that age any more than I did.

Adults, on the other hand, have no excuse, because you should know better by then.

I never really cared much about being disliked (still don't), and never felt the need to have a pack of friends and be popular. 4 planets in the eighth with an Aqua ascendant tends to make you not give a damn and not be so desperate for a clique and constant praise. I've always had a lack of reverence for that sort of thing, honestly.

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Honestly, I am just really suspicious of people.

I feel like I'm always being laughed at.

posted January 28, 2014 05:09 PM            

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Originally posted by m.blade:
Honestly, I am just really suspicious of people.

I feel like I'm always being laughed at.

My good friend said I need to try and ease up a bit, to try and be less judgemental and understand that not everyone is cruel

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You're looking at it the wrong way though.

If they ARE laughing...so what? Seriously. So what? Who are they, they're no better than you.

posted January 28, 2014 07:04 PM            

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Originally posted by ScorpioMoon:
My high school experience was pretty ****** to be frank. Particularly 11th grade where I was bullied physically, mocked, teased, made an outcast, laughed at, all for seemingly no reason at all. Natally, I have sun opposite uranus/neptune, square moon, mars square jupiter and saturn, moon sextile saturn and neptune, saturn sextile asc, neptune and uranus in the 10th house, saturn in the 11th house, unaspected venus in the 3rd house, chiron conjunct sun/jupiter/mercury and trine pluto. Like I said, i was basically bullied during almost all of 11th grade for seemingly no reason at all. Both students and teachers would justify the bullying with "But i don't like him!" referring to me, of course. i could walk into a room and all eyes would be on me. Some people expressed genuine interest in me, others expressed disgust. I think my Pluto, Chiron, and
Uranus are off-putting, and Chiron showing people wounds they think they can pick at.

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