posted February 05, 2014 11:25 PM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
she does sleep with both of them actually.... i bang her now and then....

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posted February 05, 2014 11:33 PM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
but i'm trying to make a decision now.. i have 3 options.
One is to keep banging her whenever i want.
The other is to try and make things work between us.
And the other is to ban her for good...

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Ban her for good.
Homie don't play that.

Coming from a gemini moon.

posted February 05, 2014 11:37 PM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
but i'm trying to make a decision now.. i have 3 options.
One is to keep banging her whenever i want.
The other is to try and make things work between us.
And the other is to ban her for good...

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Habits are hard to break. If you are possessive and jealous, even if it works out between you two, you may face problems in the future. In this case, go for option 3.

posted February 05, 2014 11:38 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Ban her for good.
Homie don't play that.

Coming from a gemini moon.

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posted February 05, 2014 11:39 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
edit, I think Sag and probably Gemini moons have this mentality like well if it's not working out you have to just keep moving, there's plenty of fish, etc. So it sounds like you left, or "burned her" and she moved on... That doesn't mean the feelings are gone but I think Gem or Sag moons aren't going to stay in an emotionally stifling situation for very long. Although Scorpio suns will get their revenge lol

What's your Sun and moon sign out of curiosity?

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posted February 05, 2014 11:47 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Habits are hard to break. If you are possessive and jealous, even if it works out between you two, you may face problems in the future. In this case, go for option 3.

If you really love her and if you can accept her as she is, go for her.

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Haha!! I was never like that. She was the jealous type etc...

posted February 05, 2014 11:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Hecate:
I have a virgo moon…and I say no. One person at a time.

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Virgo moon here also and I second your "No! One person at a time!"

posted February 06, 2014 12:01 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Although Scorpio suns will get their revenge lol

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Hahaha!!! She did took her revenge!!!

10 days after the break up she updated her fbook status "in relationship" with that guy and all my friends were laughing..... and said how low level she is.. because that guy is ridiculous and a low life.

she'd never had a status on fbook before..
it was obvious she did it on purpose!!

posted February 06, 2014 12:08 AM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
Virgo sun with Aries moon here! Tell me your thoughts

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Hmm, Virgo and Scorpio is an interesting combo. Have to say I'm agreeing with everyone else you should probably move on at least for the time being. She might enjoy having the power in this situation but withholding things and watching you worry about it and try to over-analyze (sorry I don't say that to be mean but because my dad is a Virgo sun and my step mom is a Scorpio, and that tends to be a general dynamic lol)

posted February 06, 2014 12:37 AM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
Hahaha!!! She did took her revenge!!!

10 days after the break up she updated her fbook status "in relationship" with that guy and all my friends were laughing..... and said how low level she is.. because that guy is ridiculous and a low life.

she'd never had a status on fbook before..
it was obvious she did it on purpose!!

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Ugh yeah that sounds like a power trip... If you really are still in contact just be cold and ignore her, she'll probably haaaate it. Or if you really want to play into the game find a way to let her know you're moving on with someone else, post your own status or whatever.

posted February 06, 2014 05:12 AM            

BUT maybe a scorpio with a mutable moon is more forgiving, I would really think that. Mutable signs are kinda easy come and easy go, but also easy to get back again, they don't really mind.

posted February 06, 2014 06:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux R�ve:
If she actually has Moon square Venus and/or Mars, then yes. She's *probably* a mess, especially with Mutable placements.

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posted February 06, 2014 07:26 AM            

You sound like you don't actually care about that Scorpio lady, because the way you talk about her makes me think that all you want is to have her "for yourself". You don't seem to care about how *she* feels, about what *she* wants and about what would make *her* happy. You don't really think about your role as a positive influence in her life, and I don't mean from an ego point of view "I can give you all you want!! Look at me!! I can make you happy!" but more like... "how can I be supportive to you, and show you that I care and am here for you, because you matter to me and I wish to see you happy?" Do you see what I mean? Sure, everyone has a different definition of love, and expectations are different... But, it seems that it's your ego that's at stake, not your love feelings or whatever.

It sounds like you're in a competition or something. She actually had to get away from you for you to suddenly "wake up" and realize that you "want to be with her." That sounds like an ego trap to me, nothing more. Yeah, the sex may be good as well, so obviously you don't want to let go of that, do you?

Look, things seem pretty simple to me, from an objective POV.

It's not gonna work out, because 1) the trust has been broken and 2) I doubt you both actually love each other (based on what you say and how you say it.)

So, you can either keep "banging" her, or you move on, for good.

If you try to have an exclusive relationship with her, it's not going to be a very happy one, because you both seem to be quite unhealthy when it comes to love attachment (no offense, just saying what it *looks like* to me). Don't have hopes for it unless you actually want the drama and the never-ending questioning and highs and lows (which is possible - to each their own, maybe you like it that way).

Oh and another thought... Maybe you should talk to *her* about your thoughts? Like you know, figure it out with *her*? Because, she's kinda part of this, as well, you know.

Mutable Moon or not, that person has feelings and thoughts as well. Don't forget that and try to see her POV and not just your own. There should be a dialog, communication, exchange of thoughts... If you can't even do that, I doubt things are ever gonna be sorted out. Oh and besides, communication is usually a key factor for Gem Moons. You got nothing to lose by talking things out with her (except for the ego game between you two).

I hope this makes sense to you.

posted February 06, 2014 07:39 AM            

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Originally posted by dadoo:
So what would be the part you'd attribute to the mutable element and what would be the part you would say belongs to the squares?
I once knew someone who had both squares to a Scorpio Moon, and the description given by OP definitely rings a bell.

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How do they act, exactly?

It depends on other things in the chart, the level of maturity and self-awareness and so on. There are several possible manifestations.

Moon sq Venus and/or Mars usually points to a conflict between wants vs. needs; emotional vs. physical attraction; attachment vs. freedom; assertiveness vs. submission.

For example... You're emotionally attracted to one person, but can't see yourself in an intimate relationship with them. Or you're physically attracted to someone who's "wrong" for you (mentally or emotionally incompatible ).

Intimacy may seem scary to these people and they usually freak out when there's an air of "emotional responsibility" going on... They want to act independently, and don't like it when others seem too enmeshed with them (triggers their intimacy fears).
Feelings can appear pretty easily - their romantic nature is usually easily awaken. However it may be difficult for them to settle and engage in a serious/ emotionally stable relationship.

Basically... such aspects *usually* point to attachment issues that can make close relationships not very satisfying - and that's why some of them hop from one person to another, in hopes of finding "the one" that would solve all their problems, although obviously it's an internal thing and should be resolved by the person themselves and not by someone external to them.

The Mutable factor makes it easy to move on from one person to another without really getting too attached to people.

While the Fixed signs would find it harder to just move on and let it go... They can get stuck in unhealthy dynamics for longer than needed.

posted February 06, 2014 10:31 AM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
but i'm trying to make a decision now.. i have 3 options.
One is to keep banging her whenever i want.
The other is to try and make things work between us.
And the other is to ban her for good...

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get over it.

You reconnect with her despite knowing she is with someone. You did the deeds and then call her out for being a two-faced player. You can't even decide and yet think she's indecsive.

posted February 06, 2014 12:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux R�ve:
How do they act, exactly?

It depends on other things in the chart, the level of maturity and self-awareness and so on. There are several possible manifestations.

Moon sq Venus and/or Mars usually points to a conflict between wants vs. needs; emotional vs. physical attraction; attachment vs. freedom; assertiveness vs. submission.

For example... You're emotionally attracted to one person, but can't see yourself in an intimate relationship with them. Or you're physically attracted to someone who's "wrong" for you (mentally or emotionally incompatible ).

Intimacy may seem scary to these people and they usually freak out when there's an air of "emotional responsibility" going on... They want to act independently, and don't like it when others seem too enmeshed with them (triggers their intimacy fears).
Feelings can appear pretty easily - their romantic nature is usually easily awaken. However it may be difficult for them to settle and engage in a serious/ emotionally stable relationship.

Basically... such aspects *usually* point to attachment issues that can make close relationships not very satisfying - and that's why some of them hop from one person to another, in hopes of finding "the one" that would solve all their problems, although obviously it's an internal thing and should be resolved by the person themselves and not by someone external to them.

The Mutable factor makes it easy to move on from one person to another without really getting too attached to people.

While the Fixed signs would find it harder to just move on and let it go... They can get stuck in unhealthy dynamics for longer than needed.

**again, this is generalized information. I'm sure there are people with such aspects who have overcome the challenges and don't have the traits mentioned above.

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posted February 06, 2014 01:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Yep.

But there can be other indicators for that, I think.

Gemini anything and Pisces anything is usually quite good at spreading feelings all over the place, lol.

**generalizing here of course.

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That was my thought too.It's a real Gemini thing. From what I've seen.

And Pisces too now that you say it. They fall madly in love at least once a week

Btw I love Gemini and Pisces so I mean no offence

posted February 06, 2014 01:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Yep.

But there can be other indicators for that, I think.

Gemini anything and Pisces anything is usually quite good at spreading feelings all over the place, lol.

**generalizing here of course.

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That was my thought too.It's a real Gemini thing. From what I've seen.

And Pisces too now that you say it. They fall madly in love at least once a week

Btw I love Gemini and Pisces so I mean no offence

posted February 06, 2014 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
...i bang her now and then...

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Ah, so it's true love then.