posted February 05, 2014 06:03 PM            

But there can be other indicators for that, I think.

Gemini anything and Pisces anything is usually quite good at spreading feelings all over the place, lol.

posted February 05, 2014 06:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Yep.

But there can be other indicators for that, I think.

Gemini anything and Pisces anything is usually quite good at spreading feelings all over the place, lol.

**generalizing here of course.

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posted February 05, 2014 07:21 PM            

If I am not in a relationship, I usually have multiple interests and have a hard time picking one.

But if I am in a relationship I am fully committed- I would never cheat.

posted February 05, 2014 07:31 PM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
Is it true that people with a mutable moon like Gemini, are capable of loving more than one person at the same time?

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posted February 05, 2014 08:09 PM            

When we were together i think she was totally into me and did not messed about.
But because i messed it and i neglected her she found somebody else...

The thing is that it's been 6 months since that happened and from day one we meet and have sex 2-3 times a month.
Whenever we meet most times she gives signs that she has feelings for me and she even told me that we should have met earlier and be together since school if i hadn't go abroad for studies.
We made some attempt to reconcile during the last few months but because of some stupid conflict we didn't make it.
Two days ago while chatting online she told me she loves me and she wants me to be well and to only tell her good things about me...
I dont know if she said that "friendy".

BUT she is still with that guy and i think she has feelings for him too now...
Thats why i am confused.

Do you think her planets make her a two faced player???

Because generally i'm a player too when i play around, but when in love with someone i don't care about anyone else!!!!

posted February 05, 2014 08:27 PM            

Scorpios can be pretty intense so if they don't get their way in the beginning, they can cut themselves off pretty quickly and move on to greener pastures - that's multiplied x10 with a Gemini Moon. Ain't nobody got time for that! type of thing.

Mutable signs don't attach great importance to words either, saying "I love you" to someone can mean a lot of different things; there are many different types of love so it's really hard to know what she meant here. Generally speaking though, if she's with someone else at the moment and doesn't have the intention to leave that guy to be with you, it's safe to assume she doesn't have deep feelings for you. It's probably a physical thing. And yes, in her mind she can probably feel in 'love' with two people or at least be attracted to two people at the same time.

Now, to the question "is she a player?" - the answer isn't really clear, because I'm sure she has her "reasons" to be the way she is. However if she acts in such a way that hurts others, and if she's aware of it and doesn't mind it, then she could be a player or at least someone who lacks empathy / moral principles.

posted February 05, 2014 08:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
If she actually has Moon square Venus and/or Mars, then yes. She's *probably* a mess, especially with Mutable placements.

Scorpios can be pretty intense so if they don't get their way in the beginning, they can cut themselves off pretty quickly and move on to greener pastures - that's multiplied x10 with a Gemini Moon. Ain't nobody got time for that! type of thing.

Mutable signs don't attach great importance to words either, saying "I love you" to someone can mean a lot of different things; there are many different types of love so it's really hard to know what she meant here. Generally speaking though, if she's with someone else at the moment and doesn't have the intention to leave that guy to be with you, it's safe to assume she doesn't have deep feelings for you. It's probably a physical thing. And yes, in her mind she can probably feel in 'love' with two people or at least be attracted to two people at the same time.

Now, to the question "is she a player?" - the answer isn't really clear, because I'm sure she has her "reasons" to be the way she is. However if she acts in such a way that hurts others, and if she's aware of it and doesn't mind it, then she could be a player or at least someone who lacks empathy / moral principles.

On the other hand... if you messed things up badly with her, she probably feels like she can't trust you anymore and if that's the case, things are doomed.

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It seems that what you said above has a lot to do with her...

If i give you her complete chart do you think we'll have a better picture??

posted February 05, 2014 08:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
depends there many different forms of affection and they are all important and beautiful

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well, i think you understand which type of affection i'm talking about....

posted February 05, 2014 08:54 PM            

The situation was already weird back then and it seems things haven't changed much.

Question is... why are you still affected? Looks like you enjoy the drama.
If that's the case then there's literally nothing I can say to help you, because the more messed up the situation, the more you'll feel sucked in.

posted February 05, 2014 09:25 PM            

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I remember you posted about her some months ago, liquido.

The situation was already weird back then and it seems things haven't changed much.

Question is... why are you still affected? Looks like you enjoy the drama.
If that's the case then there's literally nothing I can say to help you, because the more messed up the situation, the more you'll feel sucked in.

IDK. Post her chart if you want to, but it seems to me that that woman doesn't know what she wants and is just trying to get all the "love" she can get from different 'sources' of affection. Oh and you're not completely sure where you stand with her, either. *shrug*

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Doux Reve yes i posted some time ago.

True it's still complicated.
I am affected because we had something strong and i left it in the middle.
She felt the same way too.
She was also expecting to reconnect but i didn't handle it well i think..
I behaved a bit harsh because i didn't liked the way she handled things.
You see, we had quite different attitude in the way we see some things.

Well there was some time i had completely disappeared for about a month, but the affection is still here. For me and for her.
Even some of her girlfriends try to connects us again.

I burned her badly since day one...
She tried to escape from the situation but she hasn't achieve it yet i think.
But i want to make up for everything because i was in difficult time back then.

Is it better to send the chart or synastry??

I would really appreciate a more advanced opinion.

posted February 05, 2014 09:56 PM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
well, i think you understand which type of affection i'm talking about....

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posted February 05, 2014 10:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Ha too bad most gem moons on here will probably tell you otherwise because that's a major major taboo.
So good luck with this theory,
Im sure its possible for everyone to fall in love with multiple people.. It just depends if you choose to or not. If you choose to get that close with someone other than your s.o.. unless there so is more polyamory going on.

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Well, you maybe right but i can't do it nor can choose it!! I am full force on one person if i'm in love.

posted February 05, 2014 10:35 PM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
Well, you maybe right but i can't do it nor can choose it!! I am full force on one person if i'm in love.

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posted February 05, 2014 10:40 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^If you really love her then falling in love with multiple person is the stage that comes after it, i.e. if you don't follow some random rules created by "normal" human society.

I think she is in a bit of dilemma right now. She wants to love both of you but she can't because of those "rules". And then it creates problems....depression, suicide, murder etcetera, etcetera. Resistance to love .

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Ah, okay.

posted February 05, 2014 10:45 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ Because she won't have enough energy in her tank to sleep with both of them, which means possibility of having deep sex will be less?

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posted February 05, 2014 10:47 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ Me too, lol.

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posted February 05, 2014 10:51 PM            

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Originally posted by liquido:
she does sleep with both of them actually.... i bang her now and then....

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Um...

I think my idea of love is very unique and scarce in the world we live in today.