posted February 06, 2014 10:51 PM              

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
This has me written all over it. I'm dating a Capricorn guy and want to know how to keep his interest! I mean, he's super sweet and he's my boyfriend but you know. I want to be able to connect with him as powerfully on other levels as we do physically.

Anyway.

Something that will have an Aries interest is if you can keep up with them every step in the way. Capricorns like taking their time. They tend to like saying "No, no, not yet… okay, now." And quite often their sense of timing is right. However. An Aries would rather experience something, anything in it's most authentic moment with the good, and the bad, than wait and have it be perfect. That's what makes us real and that's part of our magnetism. If you can go with the flow a little more it's pretty helpful.

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Yeah I understand it can be a little difficult for Aries and Caps to relate sometimes (although both are passionate physically) but I think it's definitely worth the effort to overcome some of the misunderstandings..

And thanks for the advice that makes complete sense! I think Caps can help Aries to have more patience and wait things out, but Aries can really get Cap to loosen up and just go for things instead of painstakingly planning everything out.. We can be too much of perfectionists or too afraid of failing at things to even try sometimes which I'm sure can be really annoying lol.

posted February 06, 2014 10:52 PM              

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Originally posted by Kerosene:

Last aries I attracted I was drunk and rolling down a hill and lo and behold I see a shiny new aries right above me.
and preceded to compliment my bum as it was hanging out -___-.[QUOTE]

"A shiny new aries" They are pretty shiny!

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Kerosene:
YASSS cardinal-square relationship.
PERFECT

Okay you guys have more in common than you think.
Esp since your fire-earth combo.

I think you should really be yourself because your 4th away from his sign so he feel comfortable with YOU.
and you look up to him since he's 10th away.

similar situation with Gemini-Pisces relationships.
Good luck I bet you'll really enjoy this relationship.

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posted February 06, 2014 10:56 PM              

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Originally posted by Jo B:
I had a 3 year relationship with an Aries man (I'm Virgo) and I'd say what would keep his interest if you are confident, self-assured,with a good sense of humour, keep things light and fun when necessary but also cater to his boyish side (because he will probably have one under that tough confident exterior!). My Aries relationship was probably the most down to earth and funny I ever had. Good luck!

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posted February 06, 2014 11:57 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
^Thanks for your contribution

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posted February 07, 2014 12:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
someone should take a lesson from the 7th house diplomacy when it comes to romance. Where as you have to change to see another view point.
Don't worry It's human nature to want to seduce someone.

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posted February 07, 2014 12:36 AM              

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Hey, someone has got to tell it like it is.

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Ok "these threads" are mostly just for fun, I'm sorry if you're not interested it's not necessary to read them or post your opinions. Astrology starts with making generalizations about the signs and realizing that not everyone is the same and there's not always a universal formula for how best to interact with people, so I don't see what the problem is with applying that to dating advice as well?

[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I dont believe in the concept of seducing someone. They are either into you or they arent. If they arent into you no amount of charm, humor, or "confidence" (f*ck i hate that word) is going to change it. If they are into you you can do no wrong. I know this because i have been on both sides of this. In fact i used to adjust my behavior because i thought i could get a girl to like me. This was because i listened to the so called experts who said "oh you gotta do x,y,z or act this way if you wanna get the girl" . That approach got me nowhere. Now, i have a new policy. Im 100% myself 100% of the time and if someone doesnt like me , its their problem, because they would have found fault with me anyway. Trying to get someone to like you is an exercise in futility, be yourself and someone will like you for it.[QUOTE]

On this tangent, charm and humor are a part of dating, without them romance would be pretty boring imo. And why do you hate the word confidence? Anyway I'm not saying please give me advice on how to turn myself into a completely different person based on someone's sun sign, just saying yeah maybe an Aries is going to approach relationships a little differently than a Cancer or Pisces for example and I don't have much to go off of based on past experiences so I made a thread about it. And I'd rather not have a debate..

posted February 07, 2014 07:28 AM            

oh and on the independant type of woman part; i dont really like the super strong independent woman. and i dont mean like the ability to support oneself; i mean the "im super masculine" type of woman. and yeah i know how ridiculous that sounds i cant really describe it another way! haha

posted February 07, 2014 08:49 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Lol i have never understood these types of threads. The way i see it be yourself and if they dont like ya **** on em.

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People can inherently have what attracts the person of interest, so we're bringing it up so the person can emphasize those qualities, not create it from scratch.

posted February 08, 2014 04:31 AM            

I think for me because relationships with Aries are pretty explosive and the attraction is instant I treat them like a friend. They're very expressive. The look in their eyes and body language is hotter than anything they have to say. Even if they do say great things. So being verbally obvious with them takes away the magic. Your words can't say it but your focus on them say it all. They loveeeee flirting too. It's like fuel. Light flirting gives them the green light. But the moment you say anything about how you feel especially if it's too quickly they get turned off. They're like hunters. They love the chase. Sometimes more than the actual person. I think Libra and Aries have this thing that they both love love. Or love being in love occasionally more than the actual lover. They're love addicts. Love the thrill. And for Aries the prospect of love is like a high. They'll just jump in. Offering friendship is what they need first but if they're not getting anything from you like no signs no return of eye contact of interest. then they give up. Obviously they're natal chart will say more about it and not all Aries are like this based on other energies in their chart. But the archetypal Arian Mars energy is important to know even when they're very shy there's this element of never backing down of hidden courage. I have an Arian friend she's less obviously noticed as an Aries her rising is a Virgo. But she was addicted to speeding and got hooked on cocaine but she kept saying how she's stronger and wanted to fight it. She went to rehab and beat it. She's been clean for 7 years. She also has an Aries north node She also likes to ask out first the men she likes instead of waiting for them. There's a fiery energy.

All the Aries men that I've been with have Mars in Aries as well so there Aries-ness was kind of intensified especially sexually. I have Mars in Libra and Mercury so I oppose their sun and mars but all in all I've always really liked Aries. They're very loving and exciting

posted April 10, 2025 10:53 PM            

When I want an Aries, or Ariess, around. I become really energetic and become really active in my life.

posted April 11, 2025 01:27 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Dullness doesn’t bother me. Cruelty does. (That's unrelated to your comment.) Plus, if someone isn’t trying to be dull, there has to be one thing that lights them up.

Kindness wins me over.

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Yes there are things outside of astrology too. For me it's not cruelty, but maliciousness. Um, that might be the same thing.

posted April 12, 2025 05:48 PM            

It's probably because I have lots of energy to burn.

If I get a full rest on a Saturday Morning, I'll try to charge right at my weekend project and "try to build Rome in a day".

I blame my Aries moon and my Mars Conjunct Mercury for being quick and energetic.

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