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Topic: Break-ups?
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fireopal09
Knowflake Posts: 274
From: Dallas,TX, Us
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 10, 2014 06:27 PM
  
My Scorpio stellium ex husband told me he wanted a divorce over the phone TWICE.First time, he went out drinking with his work buddy, did not come home for dinner and when he finally called back, he dropped that bomb on me. I packed up my Jeep with my daughter's clothes & Christmas presents (this happened less than a month after the holidays) and we drove an hour to my mom's house. A couple a months later he wanted to try to reconcile. I agreed, but would not move back into the house until I was absolutely sure he wasn't going to pull that crap again as I did not want to destabilize our daughter.Lo and behold, he rang me a few months later to pull the rug out from under me again. I told him I had married beneath me which is what my friends of 20+ years had been telling me all along. Took me a hot minute to get over him. Fast forward about 6 months after the divorce was finalized, I emailed him and his live in girlfriend about what we should get my daughter for Christmas. I get an email girlfriend (who is crazier than an sh*thouse rat) saying she is moving out. I called ex to figure out WTF is going on, because it is another major change in my daughter's life & I should ALWAYS be kept in the loop. Turns out he did not know this. HAHAHA! Ex wife tells ex husband that his girlfriend is leaving him. F'n priceless. Over the next couple of days he called me for therapy & asked about Manfriend. My estranged cousin who was around during the first incarnation had told him "Oh, that is her true love". BURN.Ex was totally trying to suss me out to see if I would take him back. The boy can't be alone. Sorry for the novel. I just wanted to share a feel good story.------------------
Claire
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babybull82
Knowflake Posts: 68
From:
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 10, 2014 07:49 PM
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Originally posted by fireopal09:
My Scorpio stellium ex husband told me he wanted a divorce over the phone TWICE.First time, he went out drinking with his work buddy, did not come home for dinner and when he finally called back, he dropped that bomb on me. I packed up my Jeep with my daughter's clothes & Christmas presents (this happened less than a month after the holidays) and we drove an hour to my mom's house. A couple a months later he wanted to try to reconcile. I agreed, but would not move back into the house until I was absolutely sure he wasn't going to pull that crap again as I did not want to destabilize our daughter.Lo and behold, he rang me a few months later to pull the rug out from under me again. I told him I had married beneath me which is what my friends of 20+ years had been telling me all along. Took me a hot minute to get over him. Fast forward about 6 months after the divorce was finalized, I emailed him and his live in girlfriend about what we should get my daughter for Christmas. I get an email girlfriend (who is crazier than an sh*thouse rat) saying she is moving out. I called ex to figure out WTF is going on, because it is another major change in my daughter's life & I should ALWAYS be kept in the loop. Turns out he did not know this. HAHAHA! Ex wife tells ex husband that his girlfriend is leaving him. F'n priceless. Over the next couple of days he called me for therapy & asked about Manfriend. My estranged cousin who was around during the first incarnation had told him "Oh, that is her true love". BURN.Ex was totally trying to suss me out to see if I would take him back. The boy can't be alone. Sorry for the novel. I just wanted to share a feel good story.
Scorpios are something else aren't they? Hahaha! Something tells me that my ex is currently obsessed with someone else the same way he was with me and just needed to get me out of the way. Funny thing is, if he starts it now it will most def not last for two reasons Merc Rx and KARMA!!! Too bad for him if he decides to come crawling back he'll have no way to reach me as he's been blocked from everything, even my phone. He'd have to show up at my house and use the key he still has in order to talk to me and if I see his car parked in my spot I'll be calling the cops lol. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 872
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 10, 2014 09:33 PM
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Originally posted by babybull82:
Maybe your Pisces moon may have something to do with why you only dwell on it for a few days and then meet someone new. My Venus is in Pisces and I'll usually give myself a day to cry, be mad, whatever and then it's like ok..on to the next! LOL I usually stay friends with my ex's and I was thinking last week that I'd really just like to be friends with him. But then I remember a conversation we had a few weeks prior about how he doesn't see the point in men and women being friends. So I pretty much knew that was out of the question. Even more reason now that I had to cut him off like I did, because it would have been permanent anyway.
Yes mutable sun and moon does make it a bit easier, but I got a lot of cancer in my chart, and I feel it's hard to let go of them for real…just wanting to stay in contact is a way of not letting people go completely:P
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Jo B
Knowflake Posts: 64
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Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 10, 2014 10:06 PM
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Originally posted by fireopal09:
Ex wife tells ex husband that his girlfriend is leaving him. F'n priceless. Over the next couple of days he called me for therapy & asked about Manfriend. My estranged cousin who was around during the first incarnation had told him "Oh, that is her true love". BURN.Ex was totally trying to suss me out to see if I would take him back. The boy can't be alone. Sorry for the novel. I just wanted to share a feel good story.
haha. Brilliant! Just touching on something babybull mentioned earlier about not showing how you feel during the split, I really do identify with that. However maybe when all has calmed down later if we have contact, whether it be days, weeks, months or even YEARS, I might civilly point out that they had hurt my feelings. I did that with a Gemini guy I was seeing last year, was very upfront and open about how I felt. He came back with "wow really?" as if he hadn't a CLUE that he'd hurt me. Men can be so thick sometimes. lol (oh God I'm coming across as a man-hater, far from it!) IP: Logged | |
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