posted February 09, 2014 03:55 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Which planet were you, and how did it make you feel about the relationship? What happened, signs, houses, etc.

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I have venus conjunct neptune with someone.

Me: Venus Cap 1st house.
Other person: Neptune 8th house Sagittarius
I'd also like to point out that the other persons Neptune is in my 12th house. Which influences greatly.

We also have Neptune(me) Semi-sextile Venus(other person).
Me: Neptune Sagittarius. Other person: Venus Sagittarius.

Our chart is jammed packed with all sorts of intense aspects so I'm not really sure how to differentiate which aspect is influencing and how.

But I can say that the relationship is intense. There is a dreamy, watery, foggy yet clear quality about the relationship. We are "stranded" in the middle of a blinding fog filled field , casting images and idealizations to each other in a beautifully painful dance which tortures us slowly but makes us feel very alive. And we are content with this formula. We are addicted to this dance. It is how we perceive depth should be. We are both very aware of each others feelings and thoughts, psychic connection, telepathy, dreams are psychic and accurate. We don't talk often, We speak with our eyes, energy and inner world. We "just know". We don't argue.

We are very compassionate and allowing of each other. Unconditional acceptance and love, adoration, healing, Spiritual. We think each others faults are... "cute" and make us love each other even more.

In the beginning there was a little confusion, as we adjusted to the intensity. It only grows. Always grows, gets more dreamy and foggy,and equally beautiful. It can confuse the easily confused person who has difficulty navigating the silvery slippery realm of deep waters. But if you are comfortable with this type of energy, and are able to hold your focus with grounding yourself, you will feel absolutely in love. There is a magical quality . How one processes and navigates can totally change the experience.

posted February 10, 2014 09:45 AM            

This is how it went, with the guys I stuck with long enough to go through this whole evolution...I'm Venus, of course:

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The conjunction of Venus and Neptune in a romantic comparison implies a highly romantic bond between the two individuals. When they meet, there is a dreamy, other-worldly energy between them. The Venus person, in particular, finds the Neptune person inexplicably attractive - even ideal on a romantic level. There can be a tendency for the Venus person to assign the Neptune person traits of the Venus person's ideal lover. The Neptune person is generally intrigued and wants Venus to keep that idealized image of him or her, at least at the beginning. Over time, the Neptune person might feel pressured to meet that ideal image, and vaguely worried that he or she won't be able to measure up. There is a tolerant energy between the two, and that can be extremely pleasurable. If the Neptune person feels like he or she is not loved for who he or she really IS, problems can erupt. Even more problems arise when the Venus person begins to make excuses for his or her Neptune partner's real traits, in order to reconcile and perpetuate the romantic ideal he or she assigned Neptune from the very beginning. The Neptune person generally doesn't want to hurt the Venus native, but he or she may begin to back off in subtle ways if he or she feels too much pressure to fit Venus' image of him or her. Neptune may literally "fade away" and leave Venus feeling unsatisfied, hurt, and wondering what the heck happened! The main problem with this configuration is projecting an ideal lover onto the partner, and feeling let down when reality enters the picture, or when Neptune "escapes" by retreating further and further away. If, however, this configuration is expressed more realistically, and Venus simply enjoys looking past Neptune's faults without experiencing let-down, then this combination works best.

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Though I will say that every guy who drifted off like this came back later, and wanted to try and start over again.

posted February 10, 2014 12:58 PM            

I had contributed to the thread (above) for which I posted a link.

posted February 10, 2014 03:32 PM            

Yes, I had edited my comments but someone else had quoted me further below so you can still read what I had written.

Total and complete delusion. The cosmic joke of my life. I thought he was my one and only, I was so smitten. He ended up being the biggest disappointment. Emotionally unsupportive. Disrespectful. Annoying. Draining. Didn't consider what I wanted, like, ever. Smeared me to our only child, who is still partially brainwashed. Smeared me to my own mother. Ugh. Gross.

posted February 11, 2014 12:46 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Let the tides of the raging sea takes you wherever it goes. At the end that's what life is about, right?! Meeting risks heads on. I mean, Venus-Neptune is the most romantic aspect. You feel the other person is sent from heaven. I have Dw of that aspect, the relationship has a flavor of perfection, beauty, fantasy and started with a serendipity. Too many negative things written on Neptune in synastry... Yes might be! But the good overshadows the bad, big time. So don't let the "delusion" bla bla get to you, let the waves carry you and when it ends ... It ends. At least you will be having something to smile about.

#SupportNeptuneCampaign

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posted February 11, 2014 07:40 AM            

My theme song for Venus conjunct Neptune synastry, after getting burned every single time...this is Venus talking: Gentleman Who Fell.

But who knows, maybe others will have success with it. Good luck, hannarama.

posted February 11, 2014 08:46 AM            

It's dreamy, intoxicating, romantic..I love it! At least for me. However, it's THEIR Venus + my Neptune, so Idk if I feel it more, but it's usually how it works with me at times (and I'm 99% sure I feel it more than them, ha!). But I love this aspect though!! =))

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