posted February 11, 2014 07:03 PM            

For the right person who loves me for me (*cough* My Wife *cough*,) hell yeah I will stick by her side through thick and thin; May it be dealing with a bad day at work or fighting through a Zombie Apocalypse.

posted February 11, 2014 08:44 PM            

Apparently jumping ships is considered staying through thick and thin here. lol...

posted February 11, 2014 08:48 PM            

First, it must be understood, Libra isn't against conflict, but rather promotes harmony which can include conflict, especially in the interest of justice and fairness to promote harmony. A Libra isn't likely to enjoy Jerry Springer, that's just stupid, and they aren't impressed by loud mouth vulgarities the way many others are (my own view of people who use too much vulgarity is that they're trying to give their brain precious extra seconds to form a coherent thought) as they see the people who engage in it as not having a REAL point beyond immaturity. But then that type of conflict isn't conducive to harmony. Libra is more likely to strategically engage in conflict more as a lawyer than a hothead, and will typically avoid pointless conflict (though they may engage against someone for the sake of someone else). And in trying to be fair to others (the point isn't to be right, it's to be fair and promote harmony for the group) they can come off as being spineless and/or unfaithful because they try to see more than one side, unlike most other people who can only see their own (and thus sees Libra as fickle or untrustworthy). Of course others are surprised when Libra stands firm as will happen when it's important enough.

And Libra often loves the mental stimulation of a debate...which Aries is more than happy to provide. Even better, Aries is usually willing to forget an argument when Libra is, and that can be fun for Libra (and Aries appreciates a worthy opponent even if they can't stand losing).

That was certainly true of me when I dated an "Aries Deluxe." I suppose you could call her a "bad girl" (technically a "stud" or A-G, A-G standing for aggressive, a type of masculine lesbian though not extremely so, they can often pass for tomboys rather than butch lesbians). I could easily make a TLDR post on what drew us together but suffice to say I found her amusing in being so unexpected at times and I admired her ability to not have to think everything through (not that I wanted to be like that, but I did think I could stand to be a LITTLE MORE like that, and she a little more like me). She was wonderful company (including passionate debates) on a long road trip to Texas and back (she took me as I lost my ride and had to leave or she was going to kill her roomies, perhaps literally) and the sex was really good for both of us (I was intrigued with her so when she came onto me, possibly more out of boredom, I responded...perhaps best I had so that I didn't find myself stranded as it was her jeep...). I also loved taking a tattooed lesbian blasian stud raised in South LA and mixing them with my small town redneck family, it was quite entertaining to see them mix. Later on I enjoyed exploring my feminine side that she insisted on (when before I was androgynous and tomboyish) which was fun and I learned being feminine didn't mean giving up autonomy, there's a power in women just as there is in men (plus, it helped me in business a lot, too), and that Aries met her match in me.

It was a real rocky start and I came real close to breaking it off early on, in part because I will NOT tolerate attempts at physical bullying, but she straightened up and I wouldn't call her "bad" for the most part. She had her vices, but I saw a part of her that most never do, and though she was fiery and temperamental I saw much to admire about her, saw things that most people never did because they couldn't look past the tats, muscles, boyish dress, and an attitude that I could understand given her background (and her chart). Nevertheless, I did have to make allowances, but I called her on her BS when she crossed the line and ended up leaving her over it, I did not tolerate truly bad behavior.

She was the only one that way, and the only Aries. As for her opposite I had a fling once with a cross dressing Pisces guy who was very submissive (not that feminine men are automatically submissive, some can be demanding prisses), and with him I loved his humor (I think all the Sag in his chart which also connected to my own Sag placements). I never had a "type," every single close relationship (and even many superficial ones) were all different from all the others. I've never been attracted to bad boy/girl behavior, and as for the Aries, I didn't put up with it from her.

posted February 11, 2014 08:52 PM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
Fixed signs stay through thick and thin.

Apparently jumping ships is considered staying through thick and thin here. lol...

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Ohhhh is that what happened to you? LOL

Seriously... I've only seen it once and her husband was physically/verbally abusive. However, ultimately she still stuck by him. I'm not sure why, but she did.
Others I've known... I've never seen it happen.
I'm not trying to be a libra lover. I seriously haven't seen it other than that one scenario.

posted February 11, 2014 09:02 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Ohhhh is that what happened to you? LOL

Seriously... I've only seen it once and her husband was physically/verbally abusive. However, ultimately she still stuck by him. I'm not sure why, but she did.
Others I've known... I've never seen it happen.
I'm not trying to be a libra lover. I seriously haven't seen it other than that one scenario.

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posted February 11, 2014 09:17 PM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:

Like you have an opinion besides agreeing to your gf......Ken.

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I like libras. My brother-in-law is one. He's SOOOO funny!
Hell you can search from before we were together and I still said it.

posted February 11, 2014 09:20 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Ohhhh is that what happened to you? LOL

Seriously... I've only seen it once and her husband was physically/verbally abusive. However, ultimately she still stuck by him. I'm not sure why, but she did.
Others I've known... I've never seen it happen.
I'm not trying to be a libra lover. I seriously haven't seen it other than that one scenario.

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Being libra dominant....I feel sometimes libra staying power is admirable, at first, but in times of trouble, or if it turns bad....it can also come from fear of leaving rather than a positive attribute of their nature.
Being unsure that there is something better on the other side, an inability to make a decision and stick to it, fear of what everyone else will think and how you will be judged and even the realization that if you leave....you failed at love!
Honestly, that's probably Libras biggest fear....period! Failing at love, how can we do that? We are the ones who supposedly live by love, Venus ruled!!!
It's like we failed ourselves, we failed our purpose and life just fell to pieces in front of us!
Staying power....its great to give it to us as an admirable quality but I've lived and loved libra style for all my life, in a few years it'll be 40 years, sometimes it is admirable and sometimes it isn't!!
Libra staying power isn't always from a healthy place, we stay because we are in fear...of everything ! We fear jumping from the pan into the fire, so we don't move when we are getting hurt in a relationship!

When we finally leave we can stay single, but again it's our of fear of what's on the other side...are we going to open up and trust again just to get beat back down and have to escape another painful place....the questions are to much and the fear keeps us frozen!

posted February 11, 2014 10:36 PM            

So not they won't stay through thick and thin until they are married!

In this particular contractual agreement it clearly states that sickness and health richer and poorer
Unless of course their spouse breaks their vows by cheating.. than yes they will see this as a loop hole and leave if they feel the marriage is over.

posted February 11, 2014 10:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Libra is an air sign.. people forget this.

So not they won't stay through thick and thin until they are married!

In this particular contractual agreement it clearly states that sickness and health richer and poorer
Unless of course their spouse breaks their vows by cheating.. than yes they will see this as a loop hole and leave if they feel the marriage is over.

My sister has Venus in Libra conjunct dsc and got a divorce as soon as she found out her husband was deceiving her.. Although later she told me the reason she got a divorce was because she was not in love but that just seemed like a good reason to get out.
Which i have to admit is pretty clever,

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Yes there does have to be a respectable reason for leaving....cheating or seeing you must protect your children! We never leave just because we are not getting our needs met, or some frivolous reason based on us wanting attention .
It cannot or will not be because we are not being loved or taken care of....we always feel we can fix that or it will change if we just try a little but harder because how can love fail?
It's not until we have found grounds for leaving and began our exit that we will admit to how bad it really was and takes even longer to admit that we were not in love anymore and wanted to leave long before we did!
Really we don't even allow ourselves to acknowledge that we were not in love and believe it until we have made our exit.

posted February 11, 2014 11:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Libra is an air sign.. people forget this.

So not they won't stay through thick and thin until they are married!

In this particular contractual agreement it clearly states that sickness and health richer and poorer
Unless of course their spouse breaks their vows by cheating.. than yes they will see this as a loop hole and leave if they feel the marriage is over.

My sister has Venus in Libra conjunct dsc and got a divorce as soon as she found out her husband was deceiving her.. Although later she told me the reason she got a divorce was because she was not in love but the deception just seemed like a good reason to get out.
Which i have to admit is pretty clever,

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posted February 11, 2014 11:07 PM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
Information manipulation.
They will always point and say it's someone else's fault when they've zoned out long ago.

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posted February 11, 2014 11:07 PM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
Information manipulation.
They will always point and say it's someone else's fault when they've zoned out long ago.

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posted February 11, 2014 11:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Ha is that what happened to you summerlite LOL Not ever libra is like the jerk who screwed you over.

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I know right?
It's becoming more and more apparent.
The hatred is just stupid. There's no logical reason for it otherwise.
It's kind of amusing. LOL

posted February 11, 2014 11:50 PM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
Information manipulation.
They will always point and say it's someone else's fault when they've zoned out long ago.

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posted February 11, 2014 11:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Summerlite, did something happen that makes you feel that is the nature of libra?

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posted February 12, 2014 12:00 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
You really don't have an opinion of your own, deepfreeze.
I don't think you've learnt anything from your failed marriage either.

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I spent two years single before Barbiegirl19, working on myself and what I want.
Did you know that? Nope.
I turned down people until I felt that spark that I had been waiting for.
I learned from my part in what went wrong with the marriage and there's not one bitter cell in my body. I look at as nothing BUT a learning experience and I learned a ton. I'm glad it happened. It helped shape me into who I am.

Nice try at attempting to get me upset. Fact is... I don't have an feelings about it whatsoever other than what I can take away from it.
With Barbiegirl19... The chemistry and connection to her FAR AND AWAY trumps that of anyone, including the ex-wife. It's right there with my best friend of 32 years, which I swear we have a psychic connection. 12th house, Thank you. I looooove it!

I think it's hilarious that you're trying to dig for information that you can insult me with. LMAO Upset much?
How long did you spend to find that? LMAO
Laaaaaame

posted February 12, 2014 12:01 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Gabby, Summerlite won't tell you anything.

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posted February 12, 2014 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Awe.....wish she would! it can help sometimes to feel like your understood!

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posted February 12, 2014 12:14 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
You can likely conclude just by the responses there's a broken heart somewhere...and a deep insecurity about letting anything be known online which I can understand but it's okay to let people know basic bits of info, like gender.

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posted February 12, 2014 12:14 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
You can likely conclude just by the responses there's a broken heart somewhere...and a deep insecurity about letting anything be known online which I can understand but it's okay to let people know basic bits of info, like gender.

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