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Topic: Secret Admirers?
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LovelyAries86
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posted February 15, 2014 11:46 PM
  
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Originally posted by theunknown:
I do think it is astrology In The sense that your aspects indicate a very likable personality (venus trine mars, sextile Mc and jupiter). I'm not sure your other aspects. But we all know people who secretly like someone who exudes certain charming quality. Individual stories however are dependent on synastry. This story is one of them (http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/a-first-love-found-me-on-facebook-lal/)
Thanks. I'll read that link and respond shortly.
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arcturiann
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posted February 16, 2014 02:16 AM
I'm going to say mars trine moon, and mars trine ascendant, with pluto sextile ascendant...This person I know has many secret admirers mostly because women are too intimidated to confront him. Very magnetic though, leo ascendant moon in scorpio and also eros in the 1st house. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted February 16, 2014 10:21 AM
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Originally posted by arcturiann:
I'm going to say mars trine moon, and mars trine ascendant, with pluto sextile ascendant...This person I know has many secret admirers mostly because women are too intimidated to confront him.
I have Mars opp Moon. Mars square ASC. Pluto in the 1st. Similar enough?? LOL. So how does your friend react to his "secret" admirers? IP: Logged |
arcturiann
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posted February 16, 2014 03:36 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I have Mars opp Moon. Mars square ASC. Pluto in the 1st. Similar enough?? LOL. So how does your friend react to his "secret" admirers?
You sound intimidating with those aspects! I think he's pretty used to it, I mean he's married so I think all it does for him is just give him an extra ego boost. He kind of has a reputation for being adored by girls and when you bring it up to him he gets a lil embarrassed and shy lolol
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DeepFreeze
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posted February 16, 2014 03:46 PM
I get them from time to time. Well I should say that they reveal themselves once in a while.Mars 12th conjunct asc and mercury, square moon, trine jupiter.
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meissieri
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posted February 16, 2014 04:04 PM
Having Venus in 12, you'd think I may have a few. But no... the ones that were interested in me were pretty obvious about it. The only times I've been surprised was when they were friends - not even close ones, I mostly hung with them by default. As for the aspects mentioned...
Mercury conjunct Mars, sextile Pluto and trine Moon. Venus in minor aspect to Pluto, if that counts? And it rules my 8th.
Then Jupiter on my MC sextile Mars and square Venus.
Moon trine Venus maybe too? I'm often shocked just how much women like me once we get talking.
I only have very minor aspects between Sun-Venus and Venus-Mars, sadly. IP: Logged |
arcturiann
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posted February 16, 2014 04:45 PM
OH wow, I forgot, the man that I mentioned above also had venus in the 12th. Derp.IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted February 16, 2014 05:02 PM
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Originally posted by arcturiann:
You sound intimidating with those aspects!
 Some people are intimidated by me. Not usually because they feel I'll be violent, but because they feel I'll be a "snob" or that I'll look down on them. However, once these people do get to know me they are very happy & pleasantly surprised to find out that I'm very open to ALL KINDS of people! I have a very diverse group of associates! My Pluto influences also help me to see *through* most people with ease. Some people fear this about me...yet they respect it at the same time. They generally open up & tell me their "secrets" rather easily after finally revealing their "secret" admiration for me LOL. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted February 16, 2014 05:10 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I get them from time to time. Well I should say that they reveal themselves once in a while.Mars 12th conjunct asc and mercury, square moon, trine jupiter.
Pluto 1st conjunct asc
We have similar chart placements. So you get where I'm coming from? 
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Originally posted by meissieri:
Having Venus in 12, you'd think I may have a few. But no... the ones that were interested in me were pretty obvious about it.
So how do you feel about having Venus in the 12th? How does this play out for you? I know men who have been very open & bold in their pursuit of me. But I'm just thrown off at the # of men who "secretly" wanted me so badly but NEVER ever said anything...never even dropped a HINT that he was interested. But then **BOOM** he randomly decides one day that he's in love and that I need to surrender?! WTF.
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meissieri
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posted February 16, 2014 05:30 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
So how do you feel about having Venus in the 12th? How does this play out for you? I know men who have been very open & bold in their pursuit of me. But I'm just thrown off at the # of men who "secretly" wanted me so badly but NEVER ever said anything...never even dropped a HINT that he was interested. But then **BOOM** he randomly decides one day that he's in love and that I need to surrender?! WTF.
Basically like you said. Well, I'm sure that's what they thought. None of the guys I was interested in ever noticed, despite how much time I spent with them, the stuff I told them, going out of my way to keep in touch despite being actually very shy... it was frustrating at times, not going to lie. I mean, here I am freaking out, thinking I was already waaay too obvious. I think a lot of confusion comes from me acting out my Aries DSC, especially with men (I have Sun and Mars in H11). I've told some men I had feelings for them. Most of my relationships started because I finally made the first move.
I often feel very unloved and unappreciated, though. Used, too. Be glad you don't have this placement! Lol, surrendering. Reminds me why your posts crack me up all the time. (Here, open admiring! Ha-ha). What did you say to him?
I think your Pluto does give you this power woman vibe... some men won't dare to approach haha. ^ Do you feel like they have to be tough for you to be impressed by them? Hmm... do you have a Venus-Neptune aspect? That's sort of like having it in 12, I think. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted February 16, 2014 05:48 PM
Venus-Pluto, Venus-Moon, Venus in Libra/Taurus and/or 8th house. On the ascendant, too but maybe with Pluto/Mars/Scorpio..has to be hidden or something. Moon-Pluto..Moon/Venus and/or Pluto in 8th house Libra/ScorpioAlso planets in your natal 7th and 11th house help, too. ------------------
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LovelyAries86
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posted February 16, 2014 06:51 PM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Venus-Pluto, Venus-Moon, Venus in Libra/Taurus and/or 8th house. On the ascendant, too but maybe with Pluto/Mars/Scorpio..has to be hidden or something. Moon-Pluto..Moon/Venus and/or Pluto in 8th house Libra/ScorpioAlso planets in your natal 7th and 11th house help, too.
As I stated earlier, I do have Taurus/8th Venus. Pluto in 1st House too. No Venus-Pluto or Venus-Moon aspects in my chart! I do have Moon trine Pluto (and Jupiter) aspects though. Sun & NN in 7th. I do believe this points to me building partnerships w/ people but I didn't think it would point to "secret" love affairs!
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LovelyAries86
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posted February 16, 2014 07:02 PM
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Originally posted by meissieri:
I often feel very unloved and unappreciated, though. Used, too. Be glad you don't have this placement! Lol, surrendering. Reminds me why your posts crack me up all the time. (Here, open admiring! Ha-ha). What did you say to him?
I think your Pluto does give you this power woman vibe... some men won't dare to approach haha. ^ Do you feel like they have to be tough for you to be impressed by them? Hmm... do you have a Venus-Neptune aspect? That's sort of like having it in 12, I think.
 @ you feeling unloved & unappreciated. *gives you a big hug* Value yourself at all times please! I demand it! LOL I wasn't aware that I often cracked you up. But it's good to know. - Do men have to be tough for me to be impressed?? This reminds me of a conversation I had w/ Starlight on here before. She looked at my chart and said that she pictures me w/ a First Responder, Soldier, etc. I actually am very drawn to men like that in some ways. I do not date "bad boys" or a**holes at all. I'm big on respect! However, I do like very masculine males who are not afraid to lead or go after what they want! - Do I have Venus-Neptune? Nope. But I do have Neptune conjunct Mars...and Moon opp Neptune. - What did I say to the man who offered the car? I smiled and casually said "Wow". I basically just asked him a few questions to see why he was so into me. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted February 16, 2014 09:22 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
We have similar chart placements. So you get where I'm coming from?
Yep!
Venus in 12th too which I didn't think about.
Sometimes they basically try to rape me. I'm VERY happily taken now though.  IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted February 16, 2014 10:22 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Sometimes they basically try to rape me.
Please don't send Barbie to jail for rape. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted February 16, 2014 11:43 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Please don't send Barbie to jail for rape.
Hahaaaha how do you know what I'm doing you crazy girl! He loves when I rape him  IP: Logged |
meissieri
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posted February 17, 2014 03:59 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
@ you feeling unloved & unappreciated. *gives you a big hug* Value yourself at all times please! I demand it! LOL I wasn't aware that I often cracked you up. But it's good to know. - Do men have to be tough for me to be impressed?? This reminds me of a conversation I had w/ Starlight on here before. She looked at my chart and said that she pictures me w/ a First Responder, Soldier, etc. I actually am very drawn to men like that in some ways. I do not date "bad boys" or a**holes at all. I'm big on respect! However, I do like very masculine males who are not afraid to lead or go after what they want! - Do I have Venus-Neptune? Nope. But I do have Neptune conjunct Mars...and Moon opp Neptune. - What did I say to the man who offered the car? I smiled and casually said "Wow". I basically just asked him a few questions to see why he was so into me.
No, seriously, thanks, that's very sweet. *hug* I'll try! It's not always easy snapping yourself out of that, you know? Lol guess I used to be one! Ahh, but I mean it. Your Aries sun makes me laugh <3 Partner in crime!! Yes, I didn't mean the bad boys either, no, just imagined you liking some tough men, forward, go-getter. Someone who can really be on your side even through bad times. Ahhh, maybe that's it. Mars rules your 7th, right? That'd give it its touch in your relationships maybe. Do you like a little romance in your men? That's cool. So... what did he like about you? Wow, a car?? You must've left one hell of an impression on him!
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LovelyAries86
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posted February 17, 2014 10:56 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Hahaaaha how do you know what I'm doing you crazy girl! He loves when I rape him
Get it in then!
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LovelyAries86
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posted February 17, 2014 10:56 PM
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Originally posted by meissieri:
Yes, I didn't mean the bad boys either, no, just imagined you liking some tough men, forward, go-getter. Someone who can really be on your side even through bad times. Ahhh, maybe that's it. Mars rules your 7th, right? That'd give it its touch in your relationships maybe. Do you like a little romance in your men? That's cool. So... what did he like about you? Wow, a car?? You must've left one hell of an impression on him!
My Mars is actually in he 3rd. So great communication is highly important for me in a lover. My Sun & in NN (both in Aries) do sit in the 7th though, so yes...I do want a strong partner. I'm always 'the rock' for everyone else but it would be nice if someone could be a shoulder for ME sometimes. Ya know?!  Do I like romance? Yes, of course! Not anything cheesy or corny - but romance is good with me. I love a man who is a gentlemen - he takes charge but is gracious & charming while doing it. The guy says he likes me because he thinks I'm beautiful. And because I carry myself in a very appealing way.
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Kerosene
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posted February 17, 2014 11:20 PM
Yes often probably every single day considering my looks and body type.In their mind it's taboo for them to even desire me.. I don't know if that would be considered curiosity... but it's not like they are nice to me actually the complete opposite sometimes a hostile reaction. They try and conceal their attraction so I guess it is a secret. Anyways I've become very keen to notice it ever since the 10th grade. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted February 17, 2014 11:25 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I don't know if that would be considered curiosity... but it's not like they are nice to me actually the complete opposite sometimes a hostile reaction. They try and conceal their attraction.
Anyways I've become very keen to notice it
So does this annoy you? How do you feel about it?
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Barbiegirl19
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posted February 17, 2014 11:32 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Get it in then!
Oh believe me we do LOL IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted February 17, 2014 11:34 PM
Not really it amuses me, sometimes if I'm feeling naughty I'll start to express my sexuality and weird them out even more so they go home and cry and wank off LOL.
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Jo B
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posted February 17, 2014 11:36 PM
The guy who touches my soul at the moment (can't explain our relationship really, it's like best soul buddies but with sparks) has Mars trine Sun, Pluto and Mercury, and Moon trine Venus, Neptune and Uranus. I don't know his AC but he's beautiful physically.According to his sister all her friends are in love with him. He also works in a bar and has women throwing him their numbers every night. He has to hide in the back room to avoid the attention! The thing is, he's completely modest, unassuming and puzzled why women are attracted to him. His boss did say that it's a "feeling" he gives people. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted February 18, 2014 12:03 AM
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Originally posted by Jo B:
Mars trine Sun, Pluto and Mercury, and Moon trine Venus, Neptune and Uranus. I don't know his AC but he's beautiful physically.According to his sister all her friends are in love with him. He also works in a bar and has women throwing him their numbers every night. He has to hide in the back room to avoid the attention!
With all of THOSE aspects?? I am NOT at all surprised that he's popular!! What are his signs? He has it in him to be a Player if he wanted to. As with me...I could be an intense Femme Fatale if I desired to pursue that. IP: Logged |
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