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Topic: Secret Admirers?
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LovelyAries86
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From: OH, USA
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posted February 14, 2014 02:41 AM
  
(In honor of Valentine's Day...)
 What astrologically points to a person who has many SECRET admirers? What aspects describe an individual that others may fall in love with easily, while being too overwhelmingly intimidated to actually pursue the person at first? Lastly, do you feel that you relate to this? What kind of people do you typically attract? IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
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From: Your imagination
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posted February 14, 2014 06:50 AM
Happy valentines day Aries  I think 12th house and Venus placements makes a secret admirer. As for me, I don't really attract people that well but I'm quite happy with focusing on other areas of life. If I'm to attract someone they'll have to be my soulmate. Saturn conjunct Venus plus moon inconjunct Saturn makes me anxious around people, I'm terrified of rejection. IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted February 14, 2014 07:40 AM
Sun/venus, venus/mars may mean someone who's very attractive n has a lot of sex appeal - I imagine that person may have a lot of admirers, not sure about secret admirers though. 12th house is about private, hidden things so I guess in synastry, it may mean secret admirers too. I have venus in the 12th and now I have a few people whom I admire - not in a romantic way, but it's probably weird to just say it outloud lol so I keep it secret >:] Erm I sometimes attract very talkative people. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted February 14, 2014 09:31 AM
I'm a Venus Dominant and I just found out that during my friends entire relationship, her boyfriend wanted to be dating ME not HER. Which is a terrible thing to hear, but makes me fill with joy.  I attract people who want to be in a relationship with me or I don't attract them at all. My Gemini boyfriend (a mercury dominant) broke up with me today on Valentines day and didn't even get me a gift. I deserve a gift.  That MOFO!!!! ------------------
" Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present."
-Joan Rivers Be who u r
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LovelyAries86
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posted February 14, 2014 10:50 AM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I'm a Venus Dominant and I just found out that during my friends entire relationship, her boyfriend wanted to be dating ME not HER. Which is a terrible thing to hear, but makes me fill with joy. I attract people who want to be in a relationship with me or I don't attract them at all. My Gemini boyfriend (a mercury dominant) broke up with me today on Valentines day and didn't even get me a gift. I deserve a gift. That MOFO!!!!
Woah! Your BF broke up with you TODAY?? What an a**hole! I never understand when people break up on Valentine's Day. Why not break up a week before or something?? Just ridiculous. And that's craaazy about your friend's ex being in love with you. That would freak me out.
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LovelyAries86
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posted February 14, 2014 11:05 AM
Hi NepSag! Hope you have a good one! Hi Muddy! What's weird is I have ZERO planets in the 12th House of secrets. None! So what else could point to secret admirers?? My neighbors told me recently that their brother (who lives across the street from us) is very into me and that he's been secretly admiring me for awhile now. I was shocked!! Like who?!  I spoke with this man for the FIRST TIME this week and he says he would buy me a new car for Valentine's Day. He barely knows me! I've had other SECRET admirers just "pop up" on me also. Especially within the last year. I'm seriously trying to figure this out! LOL. I don't understand why this keeps happening. Every woman enjoys being desired - I'm just wondering why some of these guys are so afraid to be BOLD about it rather than SHY. You mentioned Venus/Mars. I do have Venus *trine* Mars. But yeah...not sure how much that explains it. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted February 14, 2014 11:06 AM
Who I tend to attract tends to change with how I dress and carry myself. Likewise, some find my Texas accent a turn on or turnoff depending on what they associate with it (or how exotic they find it), which is obviously more true outside of Texas than within it. I've also been drawn to a wide variety of backgrounds...the only common theme seems to be that Sag is usually prominent in the chart (and often either a sun or stellium). But other than that it doesn't seem astrology makes a DIRECT difference. It affects how I react to people, both as individuals and also in romance, so that's an indirect influence...it generally keeps those who smother or need to be smothered away from me, for example. On the other hand, I like taking care of a home and making people feel safe and welcome in it (3H Libra Venus). IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted February 14, 2014 11:36 AM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Woah! Your BF broke up with you TODAY?? What an a**hole! I never understand when people break up on Valentine's Day. Why not break up a week before or something?? Just ridiculous.And that's craaazy about your friend's ex being in love with you. That would freak me out.
Lmao right? He was nice about it but it shouldn't have been today because a long time ago he told me he was planning to get me something and it got me all excited. I had friends asking "oh is he going to get you anything?" and I was all starry eyed thinking in the back of my mind he said YES! About the friend thing... Its fine but its just bad because the guy who liked me while dating my friend was a total loser, my sister just told me. I've been avoiding him like the plague. And he literally texted me twelve times. UGH so annoying. lol Thanks for responding btw!  IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted February 14, 2014 11:47 AM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Thanks for responding btw!
No problem! And stay away from those losers! IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted February 14, 2014 02:25 PM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
No problem! And stay away from those losers!
Okay. Lolz
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Libcap
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 14, 2014 02:55 PM
Venus emphasis. Libra & Taurus placement dominating. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
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posted February 14, 2014 02:59 PM
Remember, it is character when someone does that sort of thing.If he did it to one, he would do it to you.
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Kerosene
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posted February 14, 2014 03:09 PM
LOL that is ****** up.Even I wouldn't break up with someone on this day..
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theunknown
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posted February 14, 2014 03:20 PM
Well, if you are popular you are gonna have admirers who aren't up to you league and hence are "intimidated" by you. Otherwise, it's case-to-case basis for synastry @desiring shadows: your ex sounds both cheap and mean. At least one can afford the other person of an earlier break up. On V day? Really? IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted February 14, 2014 04:18 PM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
Well, if you are popular you are gonna have admirers who aren't up to you league and hence are "intimidated" by you. Otherwise, it's case-to-case basis for synastry
So you believe it's not so much anything astrological...just that I'm popular? I do believe that I'm a great quality woman, but I've never really classified myself as "popular". Maybe I'm naive or something lol. quote:
Originally posted by Libcap:
Venus emphasis. Libra & Taurus placement dominating.
I have Venus in Taurus.
Venus in the 8th.
Venus trine Mars.
Venus sextile MC.
Venus sextile Jupiter. Libra ASC.
Saturn sextile ASC.
Sun & NN in the 7th. IP: Logged |
Aries Eagle
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posted February 14, 2014 07:26 PM
Welcome back LovelyAries86 
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LovelyAries86
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posted February 14, 2014 08:27 PM
Hey Aries Eagle! *does the Ram Dance* How's your Valentine's Day going?! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted February 14, 2014 08:32 PM
Venus in the 8th house trine Mars & sextile Jupiter?Sounds legit! Especially since it's your chart ruler, LovelyAries.
I'm thinking Venus connected to Pluto / Scorpio / 8th house would be involved.
+ Venus in aspect to Mars for the attraction factor, maybe. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted February 14, 2014 08:43 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Venus in the 8th house trine Mars & sextile Jupiter?Sounds legit! Especially since it's your chart ruler, LovelyAries.
I'm thinking Venus connected to Pluto / Scorpio / 8th house would be involved.
+ Venus in aspect to Mars for the attraction factor, maybe.
So it really is Pluto after all?! For goodness sake. Jupiter is not only sextile to my Venus, but also my Mars. And trine my Moon. I always wonder if it's *this* side that people are attracted to first, or if it's the Plutonian side. Thank you for responding Doux!
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Doux Rêve
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posted February 14, 2014 09:00 PM
You're welcome.
Maybe Jupiter is responsible for the attraction factor and Pluto for the secrect factor?
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LovelyAries86
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From: OH, USA
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posted February 14, 2014 09:50 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
You're welcome.Maybe Jupiter is responsible for the attraction factor and Pluto for the secrect factor?
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theunknown
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posted February 15, 2014 01:32 AM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I have Venus in Taurus.
Venus in the 8th.
Venus trine Mars.
Venus sextile MC.
Venus sextile Jupiter. Libra ASC.
Saturn sextile ASC.
Sun & NN in the 7th.
I do think it is astrology In The sense that your aspects indicate a very likable personality (venus trine mars, sextile Mc and jupiter). I'm not sure your other aspects. But we all know people who secretly like someone who exudes certain charming quality. Individual stories however are dependent on synastry. This story is one of them (http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/a-first-love-found-me-on-facebook-lal/)
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Faith
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posted February 15, 2014 09:19 AM
I've had secret admirers. They were too embarrassed to admit it openly, considering how I look.
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Faith
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posted February 15, 2014 09:21 AM
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Remember, it is character when someone does that sort of thing.If he did it to one, he would do it to you.
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LovelyAries86
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From: OH, USA
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posted February 15, 2014 11:44 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
I've had secret admirers. They were too embarrassed to admit it openly, considering how I look.
Are you insulting yourself? lol
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