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Topic: What's your perfect date?
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birdsong
Knowflake Posts: 230
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 01:38 AM
  
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Originally posted by Jo B:
I ALWAYS take note of how my date is treating strangers, people in customer service roles, etc. Even how they speak to their mother! It really says a lot about a person. If we are just hanging out and their friends are present, I like to see what kind of rapport they have with them too. It's how they relate more to other people than to ME that attracts me to them"
THIS!
Seeing you helping others warms my heart <3
Helping elders, disables, blinds, children etc.
Helping the waiter clean the tables if you Can see that they're too busy to do it etc. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 8869
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 17, 2014 01:53 AM
Lmfaoooo..
That means nothing.. IMEHELPING WAITERS CLEAN THE TABLE?
SO DOING THEIR JOB?
LMFAO he was trying to impress no one does that in reality. Like it's little to no effort to impress another person by being nice to others..
I kinda prefer when people are just being normal.. LOL the word date.. is scary, grow up Okay well what do you call it when you ask out a crush on a 1 on 1 A hang out?
No, it's a date deal with it...
But dates don't have to be so formal.
not always a dinner and movie But yeahh you should try and make that person FEEL special.. esp when YOU ask them out.
I agree it was not special or a date, we could of at least went on a walk around the city and just stubble on something interests the both of us.
I was already on the fence about this sag for being hot and cold at first...
This sag did not even own up to the disaster... Like I could excuse lack of dating experience or something but the fact that you could not realize this was bad date is a red flag... like I ditched my friends on v-day for this... IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 3789
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 17, 2014 02:24 AM
If I know someone then beach, lake, or a sky full of stars sounds ideal. One of the best dates I ever went on was when a date got us tickets to spend a few hours at sea on a clipper ship (though I did find it crowded). Cosplaying, costume parties, and LARPing (Live Action Role Playing) are also fun, and in the latter case perhaps LARPing by ourselves in public, that has the potential for great amusement. Otherwise, getting somewhere, about anywhere quiet (or a vegan potluck I used to attend that included a presentation followed by group and individual discussion), and talk about something interesting. It doesn't have to be about the person, it's probably best if it isn't, but rather an interest (history, fiction series, philosophy, science, whatever). I can learn a lot about a person that way anyway (and vice versa). And I pay attention to how they treat others as I know they'll be treating me about the same. If they bond by talking crap about people behind their back then I know s/he'll be doing the same to me at the first opportunity, if the person complains how everyone screwed them over one way or another then I know if I hang around then the next time it's told will include me screwing the said person over. And I don't go into bars anymore, at all. My experience of those is that they're just too annoying at best. Generally speaking I can do better in a private home with select friends if I want that, and for a lot less money in addition to much better quality. IP: Logged |
CatMote
Knowflake Posts: 625
From: Fighting Neptune for his trident
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 07:54 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Lmfaoooo..
That means nothing.. IMEHELPING WAITERS CLEAN THE TABLE?
SO DOING THEIR JOB?
LMFAO he was trying to impress no one does that in reality. Like it's little to no effort to impress another person by being nice to others..
I kinda prefer when people are just being normal.. LOL the word date.. is scary, grow up Okay well what do you call it when you ask out a crush on a 1 on 1 A hang out?
No, it's a date deal with it...
But dates don't have to be so formal.
not always a dinner and movie But yeahh you should try and make that person FEEL special.. esp when YOU ask them out.
I agree it was not special or a date, we could of at least went on a walk around the city and just stubble on something interests the both of us.
I was already on the fence about this sag for being hot and cold at first...
This sag did not even own up to the disaster... Like I could excuse lack of dating experience or something but the fact that you could not realize this was bad date is a red flag... like I ditched my friends on v-day for this...
this post literally revolves around you being upset about this sag. sounds like you really liked that sag too. lol. i mean i dont really need any dating advice on what i "should" do. because in reality, should is just your opinion based on how you handle things. which is fine, i appreciate your opinion, but please dont try to impose. i do things my way, and my way is pretty interesting. sounds like youre just waiting for somebody to make YOU feel special...whats your venus in? ------------------
Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
Londongirl8
Knowflake Posts: 95
From: London
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 17, 2014 09:26 AM
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Originally posted by Jo B:
I don't really have an "ideal" date scenario, if you're with someone you're really into who cares what you do?
I agree - My boyfriend and I (both Aquarius) recently had a great time at a less than fancy restaurant. We just enjoyed each other's company and had fun spending time together - no fancy surroundings or flying to Aspen on a private jet is necessary to create my ideal date 
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Londongirl8
Knowflake Posts: 95
From: London
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted February 17, 2014 09:38 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Hmmm I wonder how Venus in aqua gets along with a Venus in Pisces?
I can only speak for myself but as a Venus in Aqua I can get along with anyone under the sun - especially people that no one else seems to like I've worked in quite a few different environments and I can get on well with anyone regardless of their status or position IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 7485
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 17, 2014 11:36 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Lmfaoooo..
That means nothing.. IMEHELPING WAITERS CLEAN THE TABLE?
SO DOING THEIR JOB?
LMFAO he was trying to impress no one does that in reality. Like it's little to no effort to impress another person by being nice to others..
I kinda prefer when people are just being normal.. LOL the word date.. is scary, grow up Okay well what do you call it when you ask out a crush on a 1 on 1 A hang out?
No, it's a date deal with it...
But dates don't have to be so formal.
not always a dinner and movie But yeahh you should try and make that person FEEL special.. esp when YOU ask them out.
I agree it was not special or a date, we could of at least went on a walk around the city and just stubble on something interests the both of us.
I was already on the fence about this sag for being hot and cold at first...
This sag did not even own up to the disaster... Like I could excuse lack of dating experience or something but the fact that you could not realize this was bad date is a red flag... like I ditched my friends on v-day for this...
I agree Kero a date is a date and it's rude it's not a hang out although I prefer them but if someone is on an actual, official, date they best be on better behavior than just wandering off. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
Moderator Posts: 2119
From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 17, 2014 11:48 AM
A theme park.
Moon Sagittarius, venus libra, mercury libraIP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 910
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 03:45 PM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
A theme park.
Moon Sagittarius, venus libra, mercury libra
Yeaaah I always wanted to go to a theme park on a date! Must be so much fun! A little action on the first date is really priceless!
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DaniPepper87
Moderator Posts: 1501
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted February 17, 2014 03:57 PM
My perfect date is to have a date  lolAhh I don't know well... I love surprises... But in the country, but a river... waa.... (Venus in Saggitarius here) IP: Logged |
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