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Kerosene
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posted February 18, 2014 10:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If one likes really likes you but you want to be friends do you think they could accept being friends or are they likely to still have feelings?
Can they get over it?
I feel like I can get over it but im not sure about libra being the more love oriented of the air signs.

I sat down for 5 minutes explaining why we could not even do this with my magic Venusian power of diplomacy.
They claimed to really appreciate me telling this..
Like I was PLEASE UNDERSTAND WHY... ETC
NOO DO YOU UNDERSTAND...?
DON'T GO HOME GET UPSET BECAUSE OF THIS REASON ETC.

Idkk Im so mad because I reaaaaaaly want to be friends with this person.
We're so isync...

Libra sun, mercury, venus.
moon in sag
mars in scorpio

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mercuryflow
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posted February 18, 2014 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mercuryflow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
from my experience,
they'll probably be able to front that they are cool with being friends. not wanting to create a bad vibe and all.
but they'll probably 'worship' you, kinda, if you know what i mean. like thanking you incessantly for letting them know what's up, complimenting you to no end, or always being eager to lend a heaping hand, etc.

most of my libra experience has been with latchy girls, and even after i draw some boundaries, they're always at the boundary, being chill and all, but would jump at the opportunity to cross it.

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summerlite
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posted February 18, 2014 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for summerlite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Geminis can't talk sense to Libras. Not at the same level.

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Odette
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posted February 18, 2014 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They'll pretend they accept being friends.. and then you'll get a message on your phone saying "I'm on the jetty and I'm jumping off. Good bye"

Only if they have a Scorpio Venus...

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Odette
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posted February 18, 2014 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've actually had that happen. It wasn't a joke.

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 18, 2014 10:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What will happen when you say you want to be friends is they will still talk to you and they will just find someone who wants to be with them because Libra suns, unless they have Venus in Virgo, inevitably "find someone."
Venus in Virgo Libras are capable of existing without partnerships although they will have room mates. They will never be entirely on their own.
The Libra will get over you, don't worry. They will find someone else.

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posted February 18, 2014 10:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
What will happen when you say you want to be friends is they will still talk to you and they will just find someone who wants to be with them because Libra suns, unless they have Venus in Virgo, inevitably "find someone."
Venus in Virgo Libras are capable of existing without partnerships although they will have room mates. They will never be entirely on their own.
The Libra will get over you, don't worry. They will find someone else.

Yep.
I rejected a libra with virgo venus a while back. (An ex)
She appeared to handle it just fine. Well... still tried to talk me into it later but then just moved on.

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posted February 18, 2014 11:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mercuryflow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this is true, they will eventually find someone else.
that mars in scorp might obsess over you for a bit. subtly.

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Kerosene
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posted February 18, 2014 11:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ehh idk my gemini in me is trying to talk this out doing damage control.
Using major diplomacy since logic does not work.

My gemini logic is like
1) youre moving next semester soooo you should focus on that..
2) you are 19 and being under 21 is an unattractive quality for me.

these are more than good enough reasons for me..

but libra of course is like I LIVE FOR TODAY..etc. I'm cheesy like that.
I'm like you're not even in love sooo okay?

I'm getting positive response back from these texts since my prominent mercury can sort of adjust to others.

Mercury conjuncts Venus in Libra soooooooooooooo there goes any logic..
I think libras are fun but they are so idealistic so logic is really useless even though it's really the only way I make decisions about romance.

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Kerosene
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posted February 18, 2014 11:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mercuryflow:
from my experience,
they'll probably be able to front that they are cool with being friends. not wanting to create a bad vibe and all.
but they'll probably 'worship' you, kinda, if you know what i mean. like thanking you incessantly for letting them know what's up, complimenting you to no end, or always being eager to lend a heaping hand, etc.


This..

Like I swear this morning I was think how nice this libra is..
all these things you mentioned.

Endless flattering, offering to pay etc.
But it made it SOOO obvious we are friends.
Like you know when you friendzone someone so hard...?
I sort of feeling like they might be oblivious to this concept..

but I sort of have this feeling there is always going to be some thing until they find someone else..

I'm going to use my matchmaking powers this weekend.

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Kerosene
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posted February 18, 2014 11:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 18, 2014 11:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's just how Libras are with all their friends lol. They compliment them and they can be really gracious to people.

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Randall
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posted February 19, 2014 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My experience with Libras is no.

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Gabby
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posted February 19, 2014 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We need NO(zero) communication in order to finally accept it's over and start to get over it!
If we are talking to them we are still thinking about them and hoping they will realize their mistake and love us!! If they want us to be ok, then they need to force us to wander off alone and finally accept it's really over! We will bounce back and eventually forget their name....then if they still want to be our friend...come up when they see us out a year later and playfully reintroduce themselves! All will be forgiven and we will be able to pick up a friendship without a second thought to wanting to be with the person! We don't open back up to a love after we've been rejected and gotten over it!
Sorry maybe that's mean but it's true!!

Libra AC/Pluto/Venus
Virgo Moon
Saggy Sun/Merc/Nep
Gemini Mars

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 19, 2014 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Gabby:
We need NO communication with someone to get over it! If we are talking to them we are still thinking about them and hoping they will realize their mistake and love us!! If they want us to be ok, then they need to force us to wander off alone and finally accept it's really over! We will bounce back and eventually forget their name....then if they still want to be our friend...come up when they see us out a year later and playfully reintroduce themselves! All will be forgiven and we will be able to pick up a friendship without a second thought to wanting to be with the person! We don't open back up to a love after we've been rejected and gotten over it!
Sorry maybe that's mean but it's true!!

Libra AC/Pluto/Venus
Virgo Moon
Saggy Sun/Merc/Nep
Gemini Mars



Maybe for us.
Libra sun is a bit different than Libra dominant and is more dependent on the relationship so they might be more inclined to not want to let go so easily but ultimately they won't want to be with somebody who isn't into them or treats them badly. They will move onto a better situation as soon as one appears.

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Gabby
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posted February 19, 2014 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Maybe for us.
Libra sun is a bit different than Libra dominant and is more dependent on the relationship so they might be more inclined to not want to let go so easily but ultimately they won't want to be with somebody who isn't into them or treats them badly. They will move onto a better situation as soon as one appears.

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Which are you, libra Sun or dominant and how do you handle relationships ending?
Do you get over it easy and move or try to hang on until you have choice but to accept it's over?

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 20, 2014 12:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Gabby:
Which are you, libra Sun or dominant and how do you handle relationships ending?
Do you get over it easy and move or try to hang on until you have choice but to accept it's over?



I am Libra AC conjunct a stellium of three planets, all in Libra, so I am just Libra dominant without the sun. Uranus is the esoteric ruler of this sign and it's part of the stellium. I have a Virgo sun with Mercury in Libra. Libra is the most dominant sign in my chart according to Pullen.


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Desiring Shadows
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posted February 26, 2014 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, thats my chart! I cant answer because I feel like it depends on the situation... How long theyve liked you for. How much they like you.etc.

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Kerosene
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posted February 26, 2014 05:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol is that really your chart?

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Kerosene
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posted February 26, 2014 05:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
That's just how Libras are with all their friends lol. They compliment them and they can be really gracious to people.

Not with everyone.
But your so biased since you would give your left arm to be a libra sun LOL.

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posted February 26, 2014 05:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Kerosene:

^ Yup :--)
Btw I just wanted to say I like your posts and youre practically my favorite poster on 'LL.

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Kerosene
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posted February 26, 2014 05:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awuh.

Why don't I know you?

jkkk but you've been inactive.

I wonder if you two have similar personalities?

What are you like? LOL

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted February 26, 2014 06:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Not with everyone.
But your so biased since you would give your left arm to be a libra sun LOL.

I would give my left arm to be a Libra Venus. Sun only if conjunct Venus or some other planet. Sun alone in Libra is too weak. I would much rather have an Aries sun it's the hallmark of the creative genius.
In fact, scrap the idea of the sun being in Libra entirely. I want mine in Aries.

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Desiring Shadows
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posted February 26, 2014 08:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Awuh.

Why don't I know you?

jkkk but you've been inactive.

I wonder if you two have similar personalities?

What are you like? LOL



You could know me. I know a great way to let you know about my personality! (and you could compare the two...) Are you part of the LL facebook group page?

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posted February 27, 2014 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
b.u.m.p.

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