posted February 21, 2014 01:10 AM            

Okay, I'm going to be a dork here but it's like this.
I have a best friend of 30+ years. Barbiegirl19 and I have that tight of a relationship/connection.
I don't know if all Leo's are like this, but I enjoy just being completely silly. I can't help it. I'm like a big kid sometimes.
One of us might just make some strange noise, or start making up a song. Sometimes we just make fun of a song or a show or something. She could be watching a tv show, or on her phone, and kind of subconsciously just start going along and sing with me. LOL There's just this... natural flow. I don't know really how else to explain it. Hahaha Dumb explanation but whatever. That same kind of natural flow happens on every level!
We laugh until we cry, we love the same things from major life things to just food.
I'm not so good at describing these things. Maybe it's a 12th house thing (because there's a LOT) that other 12th housers would understand. There's things that happen on a subconscious level.

I'm totally excited! It doesn't feel rushed at all. I mean, like I said. It's a kind of connection that I have with my best friend of 30+ years. I've never come across it ever before other than him. But this has more, obviously!

About how we're going about it. Well, you know, my Dad and his wife got married at a Justice of the Peace after 4 months and remained married for 35 years until his passing!
So unconventional really doesn't mean a lot. It's all about going with the flow.

posted February 21, 2014 01:52 AM            

Let us know when the babies are coming

posted February 21, 2014 05:57 PM            

Just thinking. Do you guys want to planet your wedding chart? If you're not bogged down by the details of a large wedding, it should be a lot easier to plan a good wedding chart, almost down to the second. Maybe you guys could research how to plan a wedding chart. I know that with such electional charts approaching aspects are important because they symbolize the future.

So even if Sun is at 3 degrees Leo, if it approaches Saturn at 23 Scorpio, it's not a good time to marry because the square is symbolically in the future. Sun at 27 Leo would be alright though, because the square is symbolically in the past. Approaching aspects to the Sun and Moon are really important in electional charts, and to probably Venus and the 7th house ruler too, cause of the connection to marriage.

The last aspect to the Moon before it leaves a sign is said to show the final outcome of the relationship. So if I were you, I'd pick a Moon sign for the marriage chart that doesn't have a difficult final aspect.

Also, the phase of the Moon is important as well. Something started when the Moon is waning (getting smaller) is said to show something that lessens with time. I wouldn't marry under a waning Moon. Something started while the moon is waxing (getting larger) is said to show something that increases with time. Getting married under a waxing Moon is best because it shows the marriage is likely to increase in strength with time.

posted February 21, 2014 06:13 PM            

@Lotis:

Thank you for the information.

posted February 22, 2014 01:48 AM            

Wow, thank you so much for that information! Definitely we will try to do that.

Unfortunately neither of us are as knowledgeable about astrology as you are. Not even close really.

I don't know if you are offering but if you are that would be awesome to have your help with that. Although, I'm not asking you to do that. Only if you want to.

posted February 22, 2014 02:14 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
Married for the wrong reasons. What can I say besides....

man and war.

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posted February 22, 2014 02:43 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
So are you stalking outside our windows and following us around?
Strange that you seem to know our relationship better than we do.

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posted February 22, 2014 03:07 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:

Based on her childish response on Saturn Return, it's not hard to see why.

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Ohhhhhhhhhhhh.... you mean that Saturn Return thread that she NEVER COMMENTED on??

posted February 22, 2014 03:18 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
Need me to dig it up for you? Keep wishing.

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