posted February 23, 2014 08:59 PM              

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Originally posted by acousticbob:
This is absolutely accurate and in keeping with my experience with Pisces and Cancer Women.

I'm a Scorp Sun+Venus with Taurus Moon too!

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posted February 23, 2014 11:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Reincarnation:

I am not too familiar with the houses, but my Mars is in the Third, my Venus is in the Fourth, and my Moon is in the Ninth. What does this mean?

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Welcome to LL!

Yes, my Cancer Moon loves exclamation points!

Like you, I also have Mars in the 3rd and Moon in the 9th. I definitely am not into casual affairs, so I relate to you on that. However, I'm not a homebody. I love to get out!

I love Plutonic energy. Cancer & Pisces are pretty evenly matched for you. Cancer is more outspoken than Pisces though. So if you want a rather submissive partner, go for Pisces. If you want love & nurturing w/ a backbone, go for Cancer.

posted February 23, 2014 11:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:

But I have known many Pisces people.. and.. their idea of faithfulness is usually different to the Scorpionic idea of faithfulness.

Pisces is a mutable sign.. It's also the last sign. They can fall in love with many people - and they often drift in and out of love. They won't necessarily be physically unfaithful, (although that's also a possibility)... but they can be psychologically/emotionally unfaithful.
Pisces women are probably the most flirty and 'open' to male attention - in all contexts... which can drive a Scorpio bf or husband insane.
This is just my experience.
It is sad in a way - because they can really be in love with each other.. but this 'casual' behaviour Pisces has - can end up ruining the relationship. Scorpio is much more serious.

Pisces doesn't want to hurt anyone.. so a Pisces girl won't go out of her way to do something painful to her Scorpio bf.. and because she is intuitive and knows how possessive he is - she is likely to put on an act while he is around, so that he doesn't get hurt by her behaviour.
But when he is not around - it's another story.

Cancer women are extremely different in this regard. If there is one thing that Cancer and Scorpio are completely in agreement on - it's their ideals of pure/long-lasting/love and devotion - in the context of an exclusive relationship.

I feel like Cancers are also more affectionate than Pisces and more verbally expressive of affection.. because Cancer is a very motherly sign.
Cancers want to meet their 'true love'.. They are very idealistic and romantic. They don't want attention from different men (like Pisces does).. because once they are in love everyone else fades to grey. Scorpio is like this as well. They are more similar when it comes to intensity/passion levels.

Pisces can be more detached and not so intensely focused on their Scorpio S/O...
But.... Pisces and Scorpio have this platonic connection where they can look at each other from across a crowded room - and know what the other is thinking. So there isn't always a need to say things 'out loud'.
The ESP is just amazing. I am not a Pisces.. but I have Pisces Mercury (Aries Sun) and when I meet men with Scorpio Mercury in aspect to mine.. we still have this ESP thing

There are pros and cons to each relationship. Pisces is more understanding in a sense.. They are more 'adult'.. and can have really interesting conversations with Scorpio.
Cancer is a bit more naive about love and life.. (because Cancer is a personal sign).. but they are very loving and honest.

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Odette strikes again!

posted February 24, 2014 12:02 AM              

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Welcome to LL!

Yes, my Cancer Moon loves exclamation points!

Like you, I also have Mars in the 3rd and Moon in the 9th. I definitely am not into casual affairs, so I relate to you on that. However, I'm not a homebody. I love to get out!

I love Plutonic energy. Cancer & Pisces are pretty evenly matched for you. Cancer is more outspoken than Pisces though. So if you want a rather submissive partner, go for Pisces. If you want love & nurturing w/ a backbone, go for Cancer.

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posted February 24, 2014 12:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Reincarnation:
I see.

Would it be better to share the same Moon sign or would it be better for her Moon to be the same as my Sun sign? Just curious.

Fascinating. Can you describe your friend?

I am not too familiar with the houses, but my Mars is in the Third, my Venus is in the Fourth, and my Moon is in the Ninth. What does this mean?

Thank you!

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posted February 24, 2014 01:09 AM              

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

Hmmm...do you mind posting your whole chart placements?

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I don't mind at all.

Virgo on the First
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Libra on the Second
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Libra on the Third
Scorpio on the Third
Sun in the Third
Sun in Scorpio
Mercury in the Third
Mercury in Scorpio
Mars in the Third
Mars in Scorpio
Pluto in the Third
Pluto in Scorpio
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Sagittarius on the Fourth
Venus in the Fourth
Venus in Capricorn
Saturn in the Fourth
Saturn in Capricorn
Uranus in the Fourth
Uranus in Capricorn
Neptune in the Fourth
Neptune in Capricorn
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Capricorn on the Fifth
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Aquarius on the Sixth
North Node in the Sixth
North Node in Aquarius
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Pisces on the Seventh
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Aries on the Eighth
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Aries on the Ninth
Taurus on the Ninth
Moon in the Ninth
Moon in Taurus
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Gemini on the Tenth
Jupiter in the Tenth
Jupiter in Cancer
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Cancer on the Eleventh
Chiron in the Eleventh
Chiron in Cancer
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Leo on the Twelfth

Did I post this correctly? I can also post the aspects if you want.

posted February 24, 2014 06:53 AM            

Or you can go on cafe astrology.com and get the chart positions there on their "Natal chart services".

I'm interested to see which sign dominates and what relationships exist between planets.

posted February 24, 2014 08:06 PM              

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

Hmmmm. Why don't you go on astro.com and post the wheel chart that they have on their "Extended Chart" selection option?

Or you can go on cafe astrology.com and get the chart positions there on their "Natal chart services".

I'm interested to see which sign dominates and what relationships exist between planets.

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Not sure if this will work.

posted February 24, 2014 08:08 PM              

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
I agree. Its good to have compatible moon signs. My ex is scorpio sun/taurus moon and i am a taurus moon too!

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posted February 25, 2014 09:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Reincarnation:
Not sure if this will work.

I'll attach three, since I don't know if one of them is easier to read.

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Thank goodness. It did work.

You have 4 signs in Capricorn and 4 signs in Scorpio. Taurus and Cancer add on to make the 10 planets in your natal chart.

So, you are right about being "mostly" Scorpio, but you are "mostly" Capricorn too.

The Sun in Scorpio seeks emotional intimacy and mastery. Scorpio energy is bold and daring. Likely to take risks that are calculated and absolutely wants intimacy and passion as the fire that drives their lives.

Pluto sits on your Sun in Scorpio as well as Mercury. Pluto in Scorpio can be pre-occupied with power, authority, ambition,sex and psychological mastery.

With Scorpio in both, you don't want to just "live life", you want to attain its secrets and "master" it. You want to be able to "create" and destroy at will.

You have a fierce, strong and indomitable presence about you that suggests to others that you may be fearless and, even, ruthless.

Moon in Taurus wants stability and consistency. Your attitude towards money also relates to the attitude that you have with regards to personal relationships; You invest and expect returns. You discard or "cut out" what is useless in favour of what is indispensable.

The opposition of Moon with Mars in Scorpio makes intimacy a recurring theme. You are more capable of shutting down emotionally to any superficial games or if you feel little satisfaction from your emotional relationships.

Sun in Scorpio desires intimacy and so, with Mars in Scorpio, this desire for exclusive intimacy becomes something ingrained in your personal projection and colours all that motivates you.

You may have few friends because you are self-sufficient, but with those few you have ,you can be a dependable, reliable and gracious person. Indeed, you can be very demanding but also reciprocate in kind.

Once again, sex or sexual intimacy is highlighted. As is one's energy being concentrated towards doing away with superficiality, pretense or "obstacles" on ones path to emotional fulfillment.

Neptune, Saturn, Uranus sit on top of Venus in Capricorn. What you like/drawn to is success, authority, worldly recognition and a good reputation.

Sun/Mars/Mercury in Scorpio is very emotional but your partner can be surprised as to how much emotional intensity you have since you exercised so much restraint in the "courting" phase. And how much of the same you expect from them(well at least at the start).

Jupiter in Cancer suggests a charitable personality; depending on your Mood. When in a good mood, you can be very generous-especially to those that you care for but, when not, you can seem very conservative and even hoard that which you have.

Jupiter in Cancer also suggests a liking of being at home, domestic bliss, the country of origin and even learning about one's roots.

Now the Asc is in Virgo, which suggests a highly analytical outlook on life. You may be very skeptical and prefer to have as much information available to you before making a decision on anything.

If such is not had, uncertainty can result- and this is most obvious to discern when your disposition becomes nervous, fidgety and you may even stutter, have your voice go "off pitch" when caught off guard.

You don't like being unprepared or to be thought of as not knowing what you are doing.Abrasiveness offends you and you can never be comfortable being asked to "wing it" at a party. No matter how "relaxed" the atmosphere is.

The ruler of Virgo, in my opinion, is Chiron(not Mercury), and since it is in Cancer and the 11th house, your identity is tied up to your hopes, wishes and dreams.

These hopes, wishes and dreams could be;a beautiful home, marriage, domestic harmony, being loved and cared for, emotional synchronicity and emotional security.

Chiron represents where we analyze, criticize or scrutinize ourselves relentlessly(Virgo traits).

In Cancer, it may suggests that the home life was not all that for you; perhaps you didn't have an emotionally present mother? maybe your parents were distant form you? perhaps you didn't get enough emotional support from them? they didn't show affection to you? there wasn't that sense of "family" and "home" when growing up etc.

With the 1st house ruler in Chiron and the 11th house, your hopes, wishes and dreams(11th) are tied up with family, belonging, caring, nurturing and making for yourself a home of emotional security(Cancer).

Your identity is tied up with healing the "wound" represented by Chiron.

Is Cancer or Pisces the best match for you? I think the question you should be asking yourself is who can provide the sexual intimacy that I need- without being "put off" by how undemonstrative I can be at first- and build a lovely nest with?

Who can handle my dark mood spells and melancholy in the beginning stages , see through it and still be able to touch my soul?

Who can help me realize my dream of emotional security and abundant love?

You have most of your planets in the 3rd house cusp of Libra which makes one on one(Libra)communication(3rd) a powerful means of getting in touch and "connected" with another.

5th house in Capricorn cusp and Saturn there suggest that you play(5th) for keeps(Saturn).
You may seem stuck up" or not much fun" at the beginning of a relationship- due to your serious demeanor.

But you make very calculating decisions in love relationships and ,as such, you never fail to scrutinize and analyze your partner on every little thing because you want to know that the decision you make, with regards to them, is the right one.

posted February 25, 2014 10:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Reincarnation:
I see.

Would it be better to share the same Moon sign or would it be better for her Moon to be the same as my Sun sign? Just curious.

Fascinating. Can you describe your friend?

I am not too familiar with the houses, but my Mars is in the Third, my Venus is in the Fourth, and my Moon is in the Ninth. What does this mean?

Thank you!

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posted February 25, 2014 06:26 PM              

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Originally posted by fauxcoat:
I see Scorps. with other Scorps. or earth signs, specifically Virgo.

LOL @ OP - only a Scorp would say they don't like casual sex but then go on to describe having a "tryst" and a "one night stand". lol.

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I dated a Scorpio woman for a bit but we didn't have chemistry. We fortunately did not end up having sex. She just seemed too emotionally distant for me. I thrive when I'm surrounded by feminine energy. She did not have that at all. She also got very easily offended when I called her out on something trivial that I did not like. It was like walking on eggshells the whole time.

I've never dated a Virgo woman. They seem quite distant from my very limited experience. Two of my male friends are Virgos though. I enjoy conversing with them.

posted February 25, 2014 06:28 PM              

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Thank goodness. It did work.

You have 4 signs in Capricorn and 4 signs in Scorpio. Taurus and Cancer add on to make the 10 planets in your natal chart.

So, you are right about being "mostly" Scorpio, but you are "mostly" Capricorn too.

The Sun in Scorpio seeks emotional intimacy and mastery. Scorpio energy is bold and daring. Likely to take risks that are calculated and absolutely wants intimacy and passion as the fire that drives their lives.

Pluto sits on your Sun in Scorpio as well as Mercury. Pluto in Scorpio can be pre-occupied with power, authority, ambition,sex and psychological mastery.

With Scorpio in both, you don't want to just "live life", you want to attain its secrets and "master" it. You want to be able to "create" and destroy at will.

You have a fierce, strong and indomitable presence about you that suggests to others that you may be fearless and, even, ruthless.

Moon in Taurus wants stability and consistency. Your attitude towards money also relates to the attitude that you have with regards to personal relationships; You invest and expect returns. You discard or "cut out" what is useless in favour of what is indispensable.

The opposition of Moon with Mars in Scorpio makes intimacy a recurring theme. You are more capable of shutting down emotionally to any superficial games or if you feel little satisfaction from your emotional relationships.

Sun in Scorpio desires intimacy and so, with Mars in Scorpio, this desire for exclusive intimacy becomes something ingrained in your personal projection and colours all that motivates you.

You may have few friends because you are self-sufficient, but with those few you have ,you can be a dependable, reliable and gracious person. Indeed, you can be very demanding but also reciprocate in kind.

Once again, sex or sexual intimacy is highlighted. As is one's energy being concentrated towards doing away with superficiality, pretense or "obstacles" on ones path to emotional fulfillment.

Neptune, Saturn, Uranus sit on top of Venus in Capricorn. What you like/drawn to is success, authority, worldly recognition and a good reputation.

Sun/Mars/Mercury in Scorpio is very emotional but your partner can be surprised as to how much emotional intensity you have since you exercised so much restraint in the "courting" phase. And how much of the same you expect from them(well at least at the start).

Jupiter in Cancer suggests a charitable personality; depending on your Mood. When in a good mood, you can be very generous-especially to those that you care for but, when not, you can seem very conservative and even hoard that which you have.

Jupiter in Cancer also suggests a liking of being at home, domestic bliss, the country of origin and even learning about one's roots.

Now the Asc is in Virgo, which suggests a highly analytical outlook on life. You may be very skeptical and prefer to have as much information available to you before making a decision on anything.

If such is not had, uncertainty can result- and this is most obvious to discern when your disposition becomes nervous, fidgety and you may even stutter, have your voice go "off pitch" when caught off guard.

You don't like being unprepared or to be thought of as not knowing what you are doing.Abrasiveness offends you and you can never be comfortable being asked to "wing it" at a party. No matter how "relaxed" the atmosphere is.

The ruler of Virgo, in my opinion, is Chiron(not Mercury), and since it is in Cancer and the 11th house, your identity is tied up to your hopes, wishes and dreams.

These hopes, wishes and dreams could be;a beautiful home, marriage, domestic harmony, being loved and cared for, emotional synchronicity and emotional security.

Chiron represents where we analyze, criticize or scrutinize ourselves relentlessly(Virgo traits).

In Cancer, it may suggests that the home life was not all that for you; perhaps you didn't have an emotionally present mother? maybe your parents were distant form you? perhaps you didn't get enough emotional support from them? they didn't show affection to you? there wasn't that sense of "family" and "home" when growing up etc.

With the 1st house ruler in Chiron and the 11th house, your hopes, wishes and dreams(11th) are tied up with family, belonging, caring, nurturing and making for yourself a home of emotional security(Cancer).

Your identity is tied up with healing the "wound" represented by Chiron.

Is Cancer or Pisces the best match for you? I think the question you should be asking yourself is who can provide the sexual intimacy that I need- without being "put off" by how undemonstrative I can be at first- and build a lovely nest with?

Who can handle my dark mood spells and melancholy in the beginning stages , see through it and still be able to touch my soul?

Who can help me realize my dream of emotional security and abundant love?

You have most of your planets in the 3rd house cusp of Libra which makes one on one(Libra)communication(3rd) a powerful means of getting in touch and "connected" with another.

5th house in Capricorn cusp and Saturn there suggest that you play(5th) for keeps(Saturn).
You may seem stuck up" or not much fun" at the beginning of a relationship- due to your serious demeanor.

But you make very calculating decisions in love relationships and ,as such, you never fail to scrutinize and analyze your partner on every little thing because you want to know that the decision you make, with regards to them, is the right one.

You don't date for "fun", you date with an agenda. The agenda is to find "the one".

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posted February 25, 2014 06:40 PM              

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Originally posted by sugarnfeist:
It depends. I'm a fixed dominant Pisces. When I get into a relationship, I play for keeps. I've never cheated. And when I'm in a serious relationship I do not flirt. If anything I have tunnel vision, and my interest is only for my love.

I think it's interesting that you pointed out that she had Aqua Venus yet seemed a bit clingy. I think the common misconception is that Aqua Venus is detached. I'm an Aqua Venus and for me that's not true. While I wouldn't use the word clingy, I definitely like to be close to my guy. . Like if we are in the same house, even if we are doing different things, I sometimes like to be in the same room just so I can feel his energy. So maybe this behavior is a Pisces thing, or just an Aqua Venus thing. Cancers are a great match, but really it's not comparable to Scorpio/Pisces, which feels like a meeting of the souls. Best of luck OP, no matter what you decide.

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posted February 25, 2014 06:42 PM              

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
My best friend also has some planets in 3rd house and 9th house! I think communication is extremely important to her, mostly verbal and online (phone, medias) she really has to be in touch with whom she is together with, or she get's nervous..
I think she really lost hope in guys after losing that pisces guy… but it's not only that. It's also about your synastry.
The most important things to look for in synastry is saturn aspecting personal planets, mars aspecting personal planets, and not having too much pluto. This is my experience.
You need saturn for making that "bond" between you that can't break through the years, and you need mars aspect (but mainly trines and sextiles) to keep things spicy between you (in bed) and too many negative pluto aspects in synastry can make you jealous and possessive, and those are not good traits. This is just my opinion, and I think synastry, compatible moons and maybe venus is more important than everything else. But being compatible is mostly far more complex than that.

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posted February 26, 2014 06:54 PM            

Your earth Moon would be best nourished by an earth Sun. Plus Taurus Sun is opposite your Scorpio Sun. Opposites are good in my book.

Your Venus would represent the "ideal" feminine for you. If your Venus is in harmony with one of her inner planets...sweet.

posted February 27, 2014 01:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Reincarnation:
I don't know much about houses and aspects, but I will definitely look into it. Thank you, next to neptune.

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posted March 11, 2014 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Reincarnation:
Well - I fell in love with the Pisces woman on day 3 (probably sooner, but I'm embarrassed to admit it). It was definitely not casual.

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