posted February 23, 2014 10:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Holy smokes girl! Slow it down LOL. Why the need for so many? Does he know you're talking to these other guys?

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posted February 23, 2014 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
That's probably why then. There's your answer. One thing that both Aries and Gemini men are is jealous to the tenth degree lol. You be careful girly you're so young!!

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posted February 23, 2014 10:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
They're jealous and when they don't get attention they move on to something else really quick.

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OHHH :O so that's what happened when he was ignoring me.. he suddenly seemed to lose interest in me and started 'falling' for the girl who was head over heels for him. but like I said, he didn't bother making a move, so now she has a boyfriend (who's my best buddy) and he's alone. I suddenly pop back in to his life (after I realized I pushed him away) and now we're on a rollercoaster ride again.

posted February 24, 2014 04:32 AM            

Gemini Venus or Moon in guys is like... well, they're not for me, that's all I can say, hahaha. I'm sure they can be lovely for other people but whoa, that detachment and hot & cold stuff. Nah.

This guy has Venus opposite Pluto tho, so he could be more passionate and more decisive when it comes to his affections but actually... I'd be even more wary because chances are, he has major trust issues and that can make him feel entitled to treat women like disposable objects designed to satisfy his desires.

posted February 24, 2014 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Never again, lmao.

Gemini Venus or Moon in guys is like... well, they're not for me, that's all I can say, hahaha. I'm sure they can be lovely for other people but whoa, that detachment and hot & cold stuff. Nah.

This guy has Venus opposite Pluto tho, so he could be more passionate and more decisive when it comes to his affections but actually... I'd be even more wary because chances are, he has major trust issues and that can make him feel entitled to treat women like disposable objects designed to satisfy his desires.

Be careful and don't get too attached. That's my advice. You're young, save yourself pointless heartache.

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posted February 24, 2014 02:30 PM            

My advice for dealing with a venus in gem... their biggest issue is that they get BORED. BORED very very easily with people in love. They're not about gooey and sentimental or traditional love relationships, they want to feel like they're best friends with their lover and even if they are attracted to someone they'll constantly be thinking to themselves if committing to them is worth it and if theyll be interesting enough to stop them from wanting to see what else is out there.

As for venus in gems rep as being not that loyal, I'll tell you from my own perspective (being a venus in gem with mars in aries as well) what its been like with me and dating other guys who would get jealous, because they would see me talking to other guys and looking really interested and passionate, but what often happends is that people mistake my interest for the SUBJECT we are talking about with my interest in the speaker personally, which is rarely the case. If someone is confident in their relationship with me they should know that no matter how lively I appear in conversation with other men it doesn't mean anything in terms of romantic infatuation or anything like that. Then again, I do have sun in cancer.

you guys might get along though with him having venus in 6th and your venus being in virgo, there could still be some similarities when it comes to your nature in love, but seeing your moon in cancer id be deathly afraid to suggest you try to get with a aries aries mars with gem venus and sag moon + ascendant.

posted February 24, 2014 03:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
LOL I thought Geminis are the LEAST jealous zodiac sign. But I didn't mean to make him jealous. I mean, at first, I did, but I realized I pushed him away. So like now, I'm trying to give him more attention, but looks like it's backfiring.

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posted February 24, 2014 07:37 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:

you guys might get along though with him having venus in 6th and your venus being in virgo, there could still be some similarities when it comes to your nature in love, but seeing your moon in cancer id be deathly afraid to suggest you try to get with a aries aries mars with gem venus and sag moon + ascendant.

Good luck.

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posted February 24, 2014 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by sunflower-moon:
I was on and off with one for about 5 years. He was definitely very intelligent but I wouldn't say he was an intellectual. He was very much into wordplay as a way to get women interested and using his intelligence to impress. I wouldn't quite say he was fickle, but he did always make sure to have options in place in case one relationship didn't work out - but I would attribute that to his Moon/Venus square. Cancer sun, Taurus mars.

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posted February 24, 2014 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:

Keep in mind Geminis usually have a lot of friends of both sexes and if they feel you distancing yourself or finding other friends besides them they will go out and do their best to make friends of their own so they won't feel alone and they will have others to talk to and which to turn. If you think Gemini will sit at home and pine, think again. They won't. They will be out networking in the blink of an eye and then they will tell you about it. They will be sure you know what they are up to. They will try to make you jealous in return.
I think of Gemini as the sign of ultimate social adjustment meaning they are the best able to function in society by quickly adapting themselves and moving past obstacles that others tend to dwell and get caught up in. So, it is not part of this social adjustment, to sit and dwell and pine. They are more extroverted than introverted.

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Well, the whole getting me jealous thing isn't working. I can see through his BS.

posted February 24, 2014 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Yep.
I'm Gemini moon and I talk a lot. Too myself or whatever.
Certainly no learning disability though.

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posted February 25, 2014 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl:
Venus in Gemini guys....What really can we say about them?? They get BORED!!! It's hard to get them to settle even when they do they can have a tendency to look elsewhere. A guy i know has venus in gemini in the 12th house so needless to say lots of secret affairs lol! My last boyfriend had venus in gemini, he was always rocking the boat and getting bored eventually cheating.

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posted February 25, 2014 02:25 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:
My advice for dealing with a venus in gem... their biggest issue is that they get BORED. BORED very very easily with people in love. They're not about gooey and sentimental or traditional love relationships, they want to feel like they're best friends with their lover and even if they are attracted to someone they'll constantly be thinking to themselves if committing to them is worth it and if theyll be interesting enough to stop them from wanting to see what else is out there.

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posted February 26, 2014 10:34 AM            

Venus is not the only placement to look for when it comes to dating/romance, the moon, mars, 7th even sun also plays a role.

The one thing that rings true in this thread however is that when geminis don't feel like they get enough attention they get sort of jelous and shifts their attention quickly to not get hurt.

posted February 26, 2014 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by starrynight:
What about the aspects of Venus in his natal chart? A pro astrologer told me once that a man's Venus can sort of avoid displaying itself in his romantic behaviour if it's weak or negatively aspected or has no important aspects at all. Then the only way it shows itself is when it comes to his romantic preferences, he'll like certain traits in a woman without displaying much of them himself.

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This is his chart. There's a few hard aspects that I see.

posted February 26, 2014 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by LittleWing:
What if their Venus in Taurus in Vedic? Are the Venus gems you all are talking about also in Vedic? I wonder if the gems which are Taurus's in Vedic are different?

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