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Topic: Venus in Gemini guys
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2457 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 23, 2014 08:55 PM
Has anyone ever actually had experience with Venus in Gemini guys? How are they usually like?I'm wondering about this guy who has Venus in Gemini. He's not really flirty like the description for his venus nor is he good with words. He does like to talk a lot though. He's also not a player like the typical description. Heck, he's never even had his first girlfriend. He's actually kinda shy around girls--which I don't really get because he has Mars in Aries. Does anybody know why he doesn't act like his personal signs? ------------------ Gemini Ascendant Sun in Leo Moon in Cancer Mercury in Virgo Venus in Virgo Mars in Libra "You were born a lion. Don't die a sheep." ~ Leos ♌️ IP: Logged |
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posted February 23, 2014 09:19 PM
A prick that I "dated" is a triple Gem and oh so happens to have Venus there as well at 4 degrees. Not knowing what he wanted is a complete understatement. The guy was a complete and utter disappointment. He played me like crazy. The biggest manwhore I've ever met. He was a huge player and got off on flirting with everyone. Guys included. Could talk you to death. Venus in Gemini in my opinion is the worst placement for venus. They have no idea what or who they want. They don't even know who they are LOL. Run girl run! IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 2250 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted February 23, 2014 09:22 PM
I'm seconding Barbie's comment...BIG TIMEI dated a triple Gem and he was just as she described - INDECISIVE, FINNICKY & just inconsistent overall He was charming, goofy and intellectual but he had no business trying to woo me because he definitely didn't know what he wanted, besides the attention I felt very jaded our entire "courting" period and ultimately felt played He even had Virgo ASC and pisces moon but neither of those placements helped his triple Gem...blah IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2457 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 23, 2014 09:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: A prick that I "dated" is a triple Gem and oh so happens to have Venus there as well at 4 degrees. They have no idea what or who they want. They don't even know who they are LOL. Run girl run!
Same. He has Venus in 4 deg Gemini too! I'm actually scared he'd turn out like your ex guy even if he doesn't seem like the relationship kind of guy. As for them not knowing who or what they want, that is very true. He used to like this girl and never bothered to go after her no matter how obvious it was that she was head over heels for him. He just made her wait for nothing.
------------------ Gemini Ascendant Sun in Leo Moon in Cancer Mercury in Virgo Venus in Virgo Mars in Libra "You were born a lion. Don't die a sheep." ~ Leos ♌️ IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2457 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 23, 2014 09:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: I'm seconding Barbie's comment...BIG TIMEI dated a triple Gem and he was just as she described - INDECISIVE, FINNICKY & just inconsistent overall He was charming, goofy and intellectual but he had no business trying to woo me because he definitely didn't know what he wanted, besides the attention I felt very jaded our entire "courting" period and ultimately felt played He even had Virgo ASC and pisces moon but neither of those placements helped his triple Gem...blah
Mine isn't intellectual. He has Saturn in the third house so technically he would be less intellectual than most Venusian Geminis. Though he really does like to talk about himself and his family. He's also not finicky or goofy. Most people would describe him as a weirdo. ------------------ Gemini Ascendant Sun in Leo Moon in Cancer Mercury in Virgo Venus in Virgo Mars in Libra "You were born a lion. Don't die a sheep." ~ Leos ♌️ IP: Logged |
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posted February 23, 2014 09:29 PM
They have serious issues. Like deep rooted issues. How's your synastry looking?IP: Logged |
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posted February 23, 2014 09:30 PM
Idk From my experience I've only met one person that can get on my level. it was accidental really. It's mostly me having crushes and losing interest . In this world of people looking to find their soul mate it's hard for a Gemini. Gemini determines quickly if your relationship or a fling material. lol Idkkk op if your maybe too vanilla I would be weary. IP: Logged |
mercury89 Knowflake Posts: 98 From: America Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 23, 2014 09:31 PM
Well that's and isolated aspect. What's his Moon sign? And his 7th house sign and its ruler? In general, they dislike smothering partners, the ones who are calling you every second and asking where you are and what are you doing. They don't enjoy to be all day long with the same person unless the other person is not very demanding. They prefer to be with a light-hearted partner. Enjoy interesting conversations, and they run away from emotional intensity.
Gemini, just like Virgo, and maybe Aquarius, are signs of intellect. So their loving style is intellectual rather than emotional or physical like Venuses in water or earth. The physical and the emotions are related to attachment. Intellect has nothing to be with attachment so that's why all people say that they are unfaithful and cold. But it is only another different style of loving. They are far away from being cold and hostile in relationships as much people describe Venus in Gemini natives. They just love intellectually.
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2457 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 23, 2014 09:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: They have serious issues. Like deep rooted issues. How's your synastry looking?
I have a difficult synastry with him as far as I know. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2457 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 23, 2014 09:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Idk From my experience I've only met one person that can get on my level. it was accidental really. It's mostly me having crushes and losing interest . In this world of people looking to find their soul mate it's hard for a Gemini. Gemini determines quickly if your relationship or a fling material. lol Idkkk op if your maybe too vanilla I would be weary.
I know the feeling. I don't have Venus in Gemini but my ascendant is pretty powerful in my chart. And LOL idk if I'm too vanilla. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2457 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 23, 2014 09:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by mercury89: Well that's and isolated aspect. What's his Moon sign? And his 7th house sign and its ruler?
His Moon is in Sagittarius, 7th house in Gemini, ruler is Mercury. IP: Logged |
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posted February 23, 2014 09:41 PM
Its not all about physical attraction . They have a lot if quirks to keep my attention and affection. I'm smitten my neptunian Pisces types because they intrigue me I can't speak for all gems but ur guy is an Aries so you guys relate on a whole other level IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2457 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 23, 2014 09:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Its not all about physical attraction . They have a lot if quirks to keep my attention and affection. I'm smitten my neptunian Pisces types because they intrigue me I can't speak for all gems but ur guy is an Aries so you guys relate on a whole other level
For me, I think I was physically attracted to him at first. He just had that major manly look like any other typical Aries. He's also very intriguing though since he has a lot of interests just like me. I think the whole intrigue part is a Gemini thing. IP: Logged |
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posted February 23, 2014 10:00 PM
You guys have a ton of hard aspects together! Lots of fire! Have you experience any of the infamous Gem ignoring swings yet lol. It looks like you guys will both need to be very patient with the other. Really talk out any disagreements that have. As long as the both of you want it then go for it. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2457 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 23, 2014 10:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: You guys have a ton of hard aspects together! Lots of fire! Have you experience any of the infamous Gem ignoring swings yet lol. It looks like you guys will both need to be very patient with the other. Really talk out any disagreements that have. As long as the both of you want it then go for it.
Yeah, I try to be patient with him a lot. Sometimes, when he gets on my nerves, I just keep quiet and talk to him about it later on. So far, it works. Oh and what do you mean Gem ignoring swings? Lol xD IP: Logged |
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posted February 23, 2014 10:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen: For me, I think I was physically attracted to him at first. He just had that major manly look like any other typical Aries. He's also very intriguing though since he has a lot of interests just like me. I think the whole intrigue part is a Gemini thing.
Aren't you like 17...? Okay heres what I think.. When I was young I was not really a player.. sort of awkward when it came to the idea of dating... It was not a natural desire really... I really wanted to hang out with my friends and play. after my first love.. which ended around 18, I sort of came out of my cocoon amorous, charming, and funny. I think a butterfly is a good example. Gemini's social graces are on point, when they develop them. I thinking if you guys do fall in love you'll always have a place in his heart.. but who knows because he's an Aries.. I know my Gemini mother still has feelings for her first love. I have a theory that if gemini was truly in love they really can't get over it and is either in a loveless marriage or just jumping beds throughout their lives. Or maybe they marry their best friend or something like that LMFAO IP: Logged |
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posted February 23, 2014 10:09 PM
Where they ignore and completely cut you out until they feel like talking to you again. No texts, calls or emails. Nada until "they're" ready to talk to you again. Most confusing humans on earth. IP: Logged |
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posted February 23, 2014 10:11 PM
mood swings= booty-call.
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2457 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 23, 2014 10:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Aren't you like 17...?Okay heres what I think.. When I was young I was not really a player.. sort of awkward when it came to the idea of dating... It was not a natural desire really... I really wanted to hang out with my friends and play. after my first love..I was pretty amorous, charming, and funny. Gemini social graces are on point, when they develop them. I thinking if you guys do fall in love you'll always have a place in his heart.. but who knows because he's an Aries.. I know my Gemini mother still has feelings for her first love. I have a theory that if gemini was truly in love they really can't get over it and is either in a loveless marriage or just jumping beds.
I'm still 16 but yeah gonna be 17 soon. Anyway, I already passed the first love phase when I was nine. He's actually the my second. I have dated two guys before and each relationship lasted for less than 3 days. I guess it's because I still had feelings for my first love. Now, my Aries says he doesn't like me which is totally contradicting to his actions. I guess it's his Venus? Idk. But I'm afraid to hurt more guys because of him. I'm actually 'talking' to 4 different guys just in case he actually doesn't like me. But I'm hoping he actually does like me back despite him saying he doesn't. IP: Logged |
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posted February 23, 2014 10:17 PM
Venus in Gemini = biggest heartache and disappointments. IP: Logged |
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posted February 23, 2014 10:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen: I'm still 16 but yeah gonna be 17 soon. Anyway, I already passed the first love phase when I was nine. He's actually the my second.I have dated two guys before and each relationship lasted for less than 3 days. I guess it's because I still had feelings for my first love. Now, my Aries says he doesn't like me which is totally contradicting to his actions. I guess it's his Venus? Idk. But I'm afraid to hurt more guys because of him. I'm actually 'talking' to 4 different guys just in case he actually doesn't like me. But I'm hoping he actually does like me back despite him saying he doesn't.
Holy smokes girl! Slow it down LOL. Why the need for so many? Does he know you're talking to these other guys?
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2457 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 23, 2014 10:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Where they ignore and completely cut you out until they feel like talking to you again. No texts, calls or emails. Nada until "they're" ready to talk to you again. Most confusing humans on earth.
Totally been through that.. TWICE and to me it was like the world was ending. IP: Logged |