posted March 20, 2016 10:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Belba:
One thing I've noticed that they all have in common, at least the ones I know (which is quite a lot) is that they stomp their feet when walking, like really loudly - house shaking loudly and also slam the doors really hard with no apparent reason, they are not gentle with things it offends my Virgo Venus sensibilities, so I had to spill it out somewhere

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lol true that... I'm pretty rough with things, even though I'm a virgo with virgo mars. I just don't have the patience to handle things in a soft way :P

But so far my Moon(pisces) opposite Mars (virgo and only 2 degree wide) hasn't exactly got me into anything else than trouble... I'm a bit like a bomb, especially when it's that time of the month (for girls) I can explode and is really sensitive.

posted March 20, 2016 11:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Belba:
One thing I've noticed that they all have in common, at least the ones I know (which is quite a lot) is that they stomp their feet when walking, like really loudly - house shaking loudly and also slam the doors really hard with no apparent reason, they are not gentle with things it offends my Virgo Venus sensibilities, so I had to spill it out somewhere

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My Mom had Cancer Mars. I think that could also be on a similar vein to Moon/Mars energy.

posted March 20, 2016 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Belba:
One thing I've noticed that they all have in common, at least the ones I know (which is quite a lot) is that they stomp their feet when walking, like really loudly - house shaking loudly and also slam the doors really hard with no apparent reason, they are not gentle with things it offends my Virgo Venus sensibilities, so I had to spill it out somewhere

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posted March 20, 2016 06:39 PM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I don't do that, but then again I have delicate Virgo sensibilities that are easily offended by even my own actions lol.

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Can you relate to Dilbert here?

posted March 20, 2016 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Gemini Mars square Pisces moon.

I can freak out, but then I pay a heavy price of guilt. I experience this aspect as almost constant discomfort. Maybe it makes me easier to be around, though, since I am usually extra careful with my words.

PS To answer the question, I find it easy to feel passion and very challenging to communicate it.

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^^ This.

Although I used to be fine (mostly), and still can be. More often than not, I'll end up in floods of tears, and hyperventilating, but I think the Air Moon/Venus and maybe even the Pisces Mars, can have me thinking about the reasons for the other person saying or doing something upsetting in the first place. I remember thinking my sister was upset one night, when she was acting awfully towards me, so I was taking things really well - until I realized that she *wanted* to upset me. So I let her see that she was getting to me (something I'd been trying to hide), and she disappeared. Came back later, and was a bit calmer, and nicer.

posted March 20, 2016 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I definitely relate to him lol.

I actually gave a list like that to my Aries ex, because he was frustrated and thought that if he just knew what bothered me, he could know what not to do and all would be well.

...of course I didn't think about the inevitable arguments we would have, and that he would know ALL of my buttons that shouldn't be pushed.

My Scorpio ex used them to further his goals - like trying to get me into bed lol.

Virgos, don't give your secrets away.

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posted March 26, 2016 02:59 AM            

I wonder if the mutable planets tone it down. I'm usually the one calming other people down, and will encourage them to not break things.

posted March 26, 2016 03:06 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Yep its never good for people to know our weak spots, unless they can truly be trusted to not exploit them.

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posted March 26, 2016 10:15 AM            

I have a 9 degree conjunction, but this may too wide, I don't know, but my mother was very contentious and my life has been one long fight with her lol

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posted March 26, 2016 02:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Sunnya:
I have the square.

Impulsive, hot tempered although I am very self controlled too, I talk and do things very passionately, super active mind, impatient and action oriented.
I identify more with some of the Aries Moon traits even though my Moon is in early Taurus in the 5th.

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Same here. I'm also a Taurus Moon, but I have times when I act more like an aries, being impatient, impulsive, ect. due to mars squaring my moon. I've also got Pluto opposing my moon so sometimes I act like a scorpio moon as well. Most of the time I'm calm but if someone says or does something wrong to me I explode. I'll point out what they did that made me angry (mostly the mars square), and if I'm mad enough I'll start saying nasty insults to the person to try and hurt them like they've hurt me, which I think is the pluto influence. I feel everything very deeply, and sometimes I get paranoid that someone's doing something on purpose to upset me so I'll impulsively try to hurt them back even though most of the time It's just paranoia. Then I feel like sh*t because I hurt the person.

posted March 27, 2016 01:09 AM            

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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
I heard these people are hot tempered and passionate. How do you experience this aspect?

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Pretty much. Definitely during an argument. 0 to 100 real quick Lol. I also read ppl with this aspect are warm to the touch. Drinking water when I'm mad literally cools me down

posted March 27, 2016 04:32 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2015/08/moon-mars-aspects-defender.html?m=1

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Thanks for posting.

My problem used to be that I didn't stand up for myself enough.

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However, a ferociously protective side also comes into the picture, whenever you feel like someone is being pushed around, especially someone who is weaker than you are. The positive side of this placement is being as much of a defender of others as you are of yourself, if not more. Moon-Mars individuals can develop a powerful passion for fighting for the underdog or the defenseless in various situations, whether it’s people who are underprivileged, those who are being disrespected by others, or children and animals who aren’t getting the safety or love they need. This is when that softer side comes out and when you probably become the most empathetic.

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posted March 27, 2016 08:20 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
What is interesting to me, is how there are people who will try to feed your insecurity and defensiveness, and then call you an ******* if you actually get defensive in response. Or at all.

I find that I deal with this the most when I'm in a really bad way emotionally. When you aren't naturally feeling able to just fob something off, as you normally might. Rather than leave you alone, it's passive-aggressive comments, and gossip/laughing at you behind your back, until someone just decides to let you have it directly. And then it's your fault, not theirs, because they have every right to their feelings about you.

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posted September 04, 2016 05:05 AM            

there are days when i start fights just so i would start them,it starts as a joke,provocation,and then other person bites the bait,and i push and push and push their buttons as far as i can. Sometimes my daily mission is to avoid fighting,but i just explode ,that happens when there really is something to fight about though - i try to controll the burning sensation that starts from my stomack and across my heart to my brain,i really do,but i often just errupt like a volcano of anger.
Sometimes i need one small word from others to tell them to **** off. I have noticed i vent much faster online,i have had so many online fights and bickerings...and i also like trolling people online,pushing their buttons,knowing what makes them tick.... So yeah,this aspect can be blamed for this side of my personality i guess...but that could also be square mars has with mercury i guess,the trolling sprees i have online once in a while...

I am very protective of my family and i am often in position of having to protect my mother,even when she is guilty i do it,but later i fight with her over it,the same can be said about my sister,i protect her even when she is wrong but after no one is around i confront her over it hard.

posted September 04, 2016 05:57 AM            

I have a temper not with friends though... Mostly, with the family and strangers... I can be very impulsive as well...

I always feel guilty afterwards...

I am passionate and sex is important. But it might be due to pluto aspects I have...

posted September 04, 2016 05:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Belba:
One thing I've noticed that they all have in common, at least the ones I know (which is quite a lot) is that they stomp their feet when walking, like really loudly - house shaking loudly and also slam the doors really hard with no apparent reason, they are not gentle with things it offends my Virgo Venus sensibilities, so I had to spill it out somewhere

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posted September 04, 2016 07:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Belba:
One thing I've noticed that they all have in common, at least the ones I know (which is quite a lot) is that they stomp their feet when walking, like really loudly - house shaking loudly and also slam the doors really hard with no apparent reason, they are not gentle with things it offends my Virgo Venus sensibilities, so I had to spill it out somewhere

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It's the opposite for me (moon and mars in stellium) to the point that I've learned to make noise to avoid startling people, some of whom said I should be made to wear a bell. But then learning to be that way was something of a survival skill for me.