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Topic: Why do Geminis go from hot/cold?
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darksoul18 Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Mercury Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 02, 2014 02:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by geminigal2805: Aries mooners r kinda explosive... dont worry about it. I wasnt all that great when i was younger. I wasnt all that good. I used to make guys fall for me hard and then i would lose interest the minute they ask me to be their gf. I dont know if it was intentional but i would never cross the friendship line with them even tho i knew they r falling for me i would play innocent. But i so badly wanted to be really in love but i couldnt.I think real love escapes us. Problem is with this FB stuff ppl come back after few years n remind u of yr mistakes.I have venus in aries. I blame all that on my venus sign. I wonder how u handle your emotions.. all the aries mooners i know have a short temper. Dont worry about not being in a steady relationship.. it will happen for u too.
What do you mean, when you said "I wasnt all that great when I was younger"? A lot of ppl now a days rush into marriage and having kids at a young age...im not saying ppl should have a mid life crisis, but what the hell am i saying? Its none of my business...but I'd want to take my time instead of rushing into something, im not trying to say what everyone is doing is wrong bc I'd be a hypocrite. I hate all this social media **** ..and the sad thing is that I have FB..i use it but i hate it and Im being hypocritical I know but I control my temper...when I was younger I was definitely a short fuse but it takes a lot to send me over the edge...sure, I get agitated every now and then, I've learned to contain myself....but i usually try to run my anger off and I usually end up punishing myself through rigorous training, but yeah my emotions are definitely aries and scorpio fused. Lol, i met up with this astrology expert with my friend and this was when i was new to astrology (still am)...but she read my chart and literally said..."i wouldn't f*&k with you". I had never met this woman in my life, keep that in mind, but of course me being the type of person that asks questions and has to know the absolute deeper meaning to everything...i asked her why? I didnt know how she could look at my chart and determine whether or not to mess with me or not...I didnt know what she meant or why she said that. Astrology isn't related to fighting lol...Chuck Norris is a Pisces lol..idk about his other signs tho...im rambling but im just stating my opinion IP: Logged |
darksoul18 Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Mercury Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 02, 2014 02:19 AM
Lol....speaking of social media....*looks around room*...nah, I definitely prefer this website over FB.IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 236 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 02, 2014 03:52 AM
U must be a nice guy. Im happy to hear u turn your rage into some sort of vigorous work out session. That speaks great volume of your temperament. When that astrologer said she wouldnt wanna mess around with u i guess thats a big compliment. I wish ppl would say something like that to me lol. What i meant was yeah i wasnt great. I was a disappoinent. I didnt marry when i was very young. I left my home when i was sixteen. I didnt like my family. So i walked out without any warning. Just Like that. But in all fairness i had a ****** home life from the age of eight till i left. I had to quit my studies cuz i couldnt pay paltry sum as fee to my medical college. I regret that. I was very good at studies. Got into a medical college on merit.i should have been a doctor by now instead of just a graduate. Had i stood up n fought for my rights instead of leaving home. That blackmark i will always have. Im doing good now. Good position and all. Still...IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 236 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 02, 2014 04:00 AM
That previous post of mine was so pathetic. What scorpio placements do u have?IP: Logged |
darksoul18 Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Mercury Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 02, 2014 11:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by geminigal2805: That previous post of mine was so pathetic. What scorpio placements do u have?
I hate to hear that about your family. My family was ripped apart..my parents constantly fought. Your post wasn't pathetic. You were just telling the truth and your story. I admire your honesty, there is nothing pathetic about that. A lot of people are ashamed of their pasts but it usually shapes us into who we are, either good or bad. Hopefully more on the good side. As long as people grow and learn from their past and I'm using my past as fuel for the future. Forgiveness can be a big lesson in life, it is with me. Maybe I shouldn't have been so damn nosey and I apologize, but its just part of who I am to ask questions and search for hidden things and to understand deeper meanings. I could've been in a better position if I didn't make so many poor choices...but I understand what you mean when you said you should've stuck up for your rights and beliefs. I should've done the same but dwelling on the past just makes us sick. I'm taking Physics in August at a local college near me. It says a lot about you though going through a medical course...I'm sure that was tough and it's good that you have a degree. Anyways, glad to hear you are doing better. My Scorpio placements are Scorpio rising, Scorpio Pluto in the 1H, and my sun is in the 8H. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 38256 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 03, 2014 06:58 PM
Good question. IP: Logged |
darksoul18 Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Mercury Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 03, 2014 08:00 PM
Thanks, I wish I knew why on more of a fundamental level. I understand this is a tough question to answer. It's especially hard if you are not a Gemini. I actually expect this question to be answered by a Gemini to be honest. I can only guess as to why we are the way that we are, but the troubling mystery is I'll never know for sure if I am right or not. It would be kind of like a Leo asking why they have pride, or any other Zodiac flaw for that matter. Maybe this question can't be answered by a human, lol... IP: Logged |
Rick_Grayson Newflake Posts: 15 From: Orlando, Florida, USA Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 04, 2014 10:26 AM
It's really hard to explain. For me, I think Gemini's patience meter is half short, twice long. What i'm saying is Gemini's adaption to people is similar to Scorpios. A Scorpio will size you up immediately and depending on how they view you will react accordingly. Similarly the Gemini will size you up, skim through you internally/externally&"check you" from time to time. A person shouldn't hold the initial stages of a Gemini person to heart because the Gemini is showing the Sagittarius shadow of optimism to said person. A true Gemini is much colder, critical, independent, and sensitive than the shadow it projects to the world. As a Gemini, I can't tell you guys how many times a person is shocked when I show them the less airy, bubbly, tolerant rick grayson. Especially in environments where I have little to no personal space. The little things add up and I point(mostly verbalize, or go cold) out what's bothering me and the other party can't believe peter pan has a concious. How dare him. Lol, also most Gemini's are processing so many thoughts and feelings that they are worn out mentally, and most likely deprived of sleep(functional manics lol!). So spend some time with your Gemini, then give some space until you learn your Geminis mental/physical cycle. Finally, be aware that your Gemini does see you for who you truly are whether they'll admit or not. Most likely, this call out or cold demeanor will appear through the agitation phase. Listen to the twin and give it some space, like it's Scorpio counterpart I've been ripped to shreds by fellow Geminis who've called me out on bs I thought no one was aware of. IP: Logged |
darksoul18 Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Mercury Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 04, 2014 12:31 PM
Yeah, Geminis definitely know what's going on around them. My friend said that I'm a very emotional Gemini, which I'm sure other Geminis are different based on other placements in their charts but I honestly think Geminis are (like you said) not only mentally restless but also very emotional people. They link their thoughts and their emotions together. In other words we are constantly thinking and feeling the world around us and adapting. Which is probably why we are hot/cold is because Geminis are free like air and constantly flowing and changing nonstop. Like if a roller coaster had an infinite track running 24/7 of ups and downs, including the steep climb at the start lol. We also can get annoyed easily and we usually take what people say to heart (I know I do). Geminis are so curious to get to know people and Scorpios are basically sizing people up yes. While Geminis do this as well, but there are so many different Geminis out there. We can detect bs and we are very aware of our surroundings because we have to be in order to analyze and adapt to our environment. IP: Logged |
Brobian Newflake Posts: 7 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 06:15 PM
I'm a Gemini with Pisces moon, I have a very hight tolerance for heat, though I've worked in a paper mill for 17 years now. I don't like being cold IP: Logged |
darksoul18 Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Mercury Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 07, 2014 06:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Brobian: I'm a Gemini with Pisces moon, I have a very hight tolerance for heat, though I've worked in a paper mill for 17 years now. I don't like being cold
Lmao..."don't like being cold" .... maybe you should quit the paper mill and become a comedian.  IP: Logged |
Brobian Newflake Posts: 7 From: Brewster , Ohio USA Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 07, 2014 11:59 PM
Lol that or go back to school and learn how to spell. IP: Logged |
darksoul18 Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Mercury Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 08, 2014 02:52 PM
LolIP: Logged |
darksoul18 Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Mercury Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 08, 2014 03:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Brobian: Lol that or go back to school and learn how to spell.
I'm sorry, you must be new to Astrology either that or you are pretty damn funny lol....my post doesn't have anything to do with temperature. I was referring to Geminis mood "hot" being in a lively mood and "cold" being in a not so lively but quiet/reserved mood. I'm just not too sure if you realized that or not. It's hard to tell over the internet. Just wanted to make that clear......which is why I enjoyed a fellow Geminis humor. IP: Logged |
mareaire Knowflake Posts: 27 From: avalon Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 09, 2014 12:11 AM
i think it sums up the meaning of the twins quite well. one is ON. bright, imaginative, willing to share everything going on in their head, bubbly, communicative, etc. the other, is OFF. processing, planning, intaking, not willing to share what's going on, irritable, grumpy, etc. i can flip flop between these two states. and it often depends on outer stimuli. like i can be cold/off with one person, but not another. usually, if i go cold/off with someone, they tend to be cardinal heavy, and i need to step back from them because i find the energy overbearing and conflicting with my internal processes. though, if i'm to totally ON i can find cardinal energy quite admirable. i'm trying to learn how to navigate my ON/OFF switch, not wanting to confuse people, how to turn off graceful, without offending. hahaha. sometimes it's hard because people want explanations, and that's the last thing i want to do! i just want to escape the situation….fall into my own world until i can come out of it fully ON, with full force gemini charm. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 998 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 09, 2014 05:28 AM
Because they get bored!Gemini men needs excitement more than anything, but they are kinda dependent of a partner that can keeps thing spicy, as they sometimes lack inspiration themselves. Geminis are not really people pleasers, and they can be kind of egoistically. Actually they do best with people that are either a bit egoistical themselves, or so deep and intense that they just keep the gemini busy with them. Especially gemini men with fire influence appreciates a girl who is independent, adventurous and free-willed. The best couples are gemini men with leo suns, or sagittarius with scorpio influence, if you meet one of those, you'll probably fall in love instantly  Actually scorpio influence is very exciting for gemini men  IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1102 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 09, 2014 05:58 AM
I think it's simple. They just do, genuinely, and even they couldn't tell you why. IP: Logged |