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Odette
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posted March 07, 2014 05:59 AM
  
... if you disappear on them?Not after an argument or any negativity between you...
Lets say they know that you have nothing against them.
But you simply disappear off their radar and they can no longer contact you.
Would they leave well enough alone or would they keep searching? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted March 07, 2014 08:58 AM
I am a Scorpio female with my mercury, Brnus, Jupiter, and Pluto in Scorpio so I can help you out somewhat. What I have noticed about our sign (make and female) is that there's two types of Scorpios, the crazy type and the "not so crazy" type to put it in simple terms. All Scorpios are intense, but depending on the rest of the chart, you might come across a detached Scorpio or an impulsive/intense Scorpio. To answer your question, the intense/impulsive Scorpio will probably chase you and actively seek you out, but the more detached Scorpio will probably send you a few texts over a certain period of time and ask others about you, but that's about it. It just depends on the individual because insecure Scorpios who fear rejection will probably die before they chase someone. It also depends on how deeply involved you are with the Scorpio. From my experience, most Scorpio men are insecure and they fear rejection so I doubt he'll chase you unless he has an impulsive aspect connecting his mars and venus or just a fiery mars and/or Venus. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 07, 2014 09:14 AM
I'm pretty sure any sane person would get the idea and stay away after a few hundred unanswered calls lolIP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted March 07, 2014 10:41 AM
the ones I have encountered (mainly moons) have let me stay gone if I disappear and/or cut off contact. I think they still might ask about you and obsess a bit (given pluto), but they don't chase ime once you're goneIP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted March 07, 2014 11:30 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I'm pretty sure any sane person would get the idea and stay away after a few hundred unanswered calls lol
You wouldn't believe me with how unaccurate this is. I have like twenty text messages and about five on facebook from some jerk who won't leave me alone! He confronted me today in person and cursed at me.... And I'm just like "Who the hell do you think you are, talking to me like that?" IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
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posted March 07, 2014 11:38 AM
The mature ones will leave you alone because they'll sense that there is a disinterest. The immature ones may or not stalk and sting. It also depends on a synastry too. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted March 07, 2014 11:49 AM
It depends how much they care about you. I have dated alot of scorpios and even after a break up they chased after me.
One was scary though.
I agree some are crazy and some are calm.
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JustAmanda1216
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posted March 07, 2014 11:49 AM
I had to detach (not disappear tho) myself from a Scorpio man once, and he would send me random text messages like he had just heard a song or saw something that reminded him of me but for the most part, he left me alone and eventually he stopped texting. We remain friends I guess, we just don't really talk to one another anymore. I mean, he's on my FB but never comments on my posts and I don't on his...
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StrandedSaturn
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posted March 07, 2014 12:09 PM
No. They'll never chase you. Too much pride. They are the type who will suffer in silence and kill their own heart and never let you know.IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted March 07, 2014 01:09 PM
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Originally posted by StrandedSaturn:
No. They'll never chase you. Too much pride. They are the type who will suffer in silence and kill their own heart and never let you know.
Well.. not openly. But I am sure they stalk you like crazy. IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
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posted March 07, 2014 01:11 PM
So many varying responses  I've had experiences with 2 diff male Scorps The first was very much passive aggressive and would find excuses to show up - he would drive by and take the trash off my front porch to the neighborhood dumpster and not say hi...but his Jeep was loud so he knew I would hear -.- The second is just erratic and sends random texts and he blew my phone up one night in particular when he was drunk - 35 texts and two missed calls...
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Supreme cT
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posted March 07, 2014 02:51 PM
Unless i really trust you and value you as i friend i will hit u up a couple times and if you still didnt answer i would stop contacting you and deff just stalk you on social networks and see what your up to lol i can be very mysterious at times i feel like for the most part scorpios are always trying to play a game with you unless we REALLY want you if the feelings arent thier than we will just forget about you and move on i have cut so many people out my life like that and it doesnt bother me one bit lolIP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 07, 2014 05:32 PM
PLEASE DON'T QUOTE THIS POST quote:
Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I am a Scorpio female with my mercury, Brnus, Jupiter, and Pluto in Scorpio so I can help you out somewhat. What I have noticed about our sign (make and female) is that there's two types of Scorpios, the crazy type and the "not so crazy" type to put it in simple terms. All Scorpios are intense, but depending on the rest of the chart, you might come across a detached Scorpio or an impulsive/intense Scorpio. To answer your question, the intense/impulsive Scorpio will probably chase you and actively seek you out, but the more detached Scorpio will probably send you a few texts over a certain period of time and ask others about you, but that's about it. It just depends on the individual because insecure Scorpios who fear rejection will probably die before they chase someone. It also depends on how deeply involved you are with the Scorpio. From my experience, most Scorpio men are insecure and they fear rejection so I doubt he'll chase you unless he has an impulsive aspect connecting his mars and venus or just a fiery mars and/or Venus.
This is very interesting. He has almost all his personal planets in Scorpio and a Leo Mars. He is not insecure at all and he thinks he fell in love with me at first sight. He is strongly attracted. I do like him but well... I actually know his brother really well and we've had some issues recently.
I also think Scorpio guy is too young for me. I want to disconnect from his brother (He is not my ex.. he is just a friend.. but I am upset with him). Because I want to disconnect from his brother.. I've decided to disconnect form him as well - but now I think maybe - I am being unfair. I don't want to hurt him.
We haven't known each other for very long. I've known his brother for years.. but I only met him two months ago.
NeptunianSag -
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The mature ones will leave you alone because they'll sense that there is a disinterest.
The problem is that there isn't disinterest lol... I'm attracted to him and he knows that. But I am very deeply upset with his brother... This is not something I will just put past me and forget about.
So I definitely do not want to be in touch with his brother at this stage... I used to consider him a very close friend. It upsets me that things had to come to this. Scorpio knows about this as well, but I think he would see it as 'lame' on my part --- to disconnect from him just because I have a problem with his brother. Venusian - quote:
It depends how much they care about you. I have dated alot of scorpios and even after a break up they chased after me.
He says he cares a lot and before this insane falling out I had with his brother (who is a Libra btw) - he was 'chasing'. I am so upset and angry with Libra guy.. I almost feel numb.
I feel like crying constantly and have to constantly stop myself.
Again, this is not romantic. Actually his brother is gay... but I am still very hurt by his behaviour. We have an exact Venus/Pluto conjunction (his Venus, my Pluto) -- and we were very close, even though it wasn't romantic. Scorpio knows that I want him to back off.. and I don't think he wants to be caught up in the middle of our feud.
But I think he is annoyed with me sigh.. Supreme CT - He is pretty serious. He has no Sagittarius in his chart and he doesn't seem to be playing games. He is very fixed. All his personal planets are in fixed signs. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 07, 2014 05:36 PM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
You wouldn't believe me with how unaccurate this is. I have like twenty text messages and about five on facebook from some jerk who won't leave me alone! He confronted me today in person and cursed at me.... And I'm just like "Who the hell do you think you are, talking to me like that?"
He was not sane IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 07, 2014 05:38 PM
LOL ^^IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 07, 2014 06:28 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
... if you disappear on them?Not after an argument or any negativity between you...
Lets say they know that you have nothing against them.
But you simply disappear off their radar and they can no longer contact you.
Would they leave well enough alone or would they keep searching?
The Scorpios I've known have always had another life outside of me, but they still knew what I was up to. I think it's more important Scorpio has a WAY of contacting you if they want to. They're more likely to wait for you to come around than to chase you, that seems more like an Aries or fire sign thing to do. Yes, Scorpio will stalk you and probably be hurt if they feel left out in anyway. They're pretty reasonable signs in my experience but perhaps that's just how they react with a mature Aries sign too. I think they're apt to trust Aries more because we can be so open and easy to read. IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted March 07, 2014 11:46 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
The Scorpios I've known have always had another life outside of me, but they still knew what I was up to. I think it's more important Scorpio has a WAY of contacting you if they want to. They're more likely to wait for you to come around than to chase you, that seems more like an Aries or fire sign thing to do. Yes, Scorpio will stalk you and probably be hurt if they feel left out in anyway. They're pretty reasonable signs in my experience but perhaps that's just how they react with a mature Aries sign too. I think they're apt to trust Aries more because we can be so open and easy to read.
Hmm, so now you've got me wondering...my "ex" broke up with me in Feb (Scorp rising & Sun) I text him for my key and he said he'd drop it off, then midway to coming over I text him to leave my key on the floor in front of my door and that his stuff was outside. When he got here and knocked on the door I didn't answer. He claimed he didn't know which key it was (liar, the key was on it's own key ring AND he had just used it about a week or two before) or perhaps he was telling the truth..anyway..I really didn't want to see his face, I told him to just keep it and go away. Prior to him making it to my house I deleted and blocked him from everything..do you think even despite "dumping" me he still may have wanted a way to keep tabs on me? I have no clue if he's even tried to contact me since the break..probably not..but I am curious now. Technically if he wanted to he could just show up anytime he wants because he still has my key..I know he used to "stalk" me when we were together.as far as always looking at my fb and okc profile...I also have a sneaking suspicion that he made a fake pof profile and is messaging me..that's extreme..but then again some people are pretty cray lol IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 12, 2014 01:15 AM
How I feel right now:  IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 12, 2014 01:18 AM
I should really pick up smoking. IP: Logged |
vanessa
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posted March 12, 2014 07:47 AM
sun moon venus mercury jupiter in scorpio here. Intensity is the key, when the relationship is no longer carrying passion or what scorps commonly consider 'the only thing that is real', the way she or he leave is with no looking back. There is ALWAYS a compassion for exes, but the attraction will simply dissappear. We already figure you out and we know you're not the real deal so why bother wasting time.Just my 2cents. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 12, 2014 09:00 AM
Aww Odette, what's going on?*hugs* IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted March 12, 2014 10:17 AM
He will hunt you down. If sane he'll just lurk in the shadows. If crazy he'll probably confront you.I disappeared on a Scorpio once. Years later I sent a FB request and it was rejected. Soon after the profile pic changed to one next to a landmark in the area I'd moved to. Though things were oneway, I still sent messages - astro readings, happy birthdays, 'omg, you lied when you said xyz...' random things. Two years in I realized I was living in the past and needed to move on. So I blocked 'em since they never responded. Within a week (don't ask how I know) the profile pic had changed to a full and current head shot. This made me feel really bad, but I held my ground - no more messages. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 13, 2014 10:11 PM
Thanks for caring Doux  I am not upset about Scorpio.. He is being really supportive.. but I can't continue talking to him.
This f-ed up situation with Libra guy is very very upsetting. I hope he gets over his so-called issues and wakes up to himself and tells me he is sorry. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 14, 2014 12:52 AM
I feel your drama....but I hope for your sake you can just stop giving a flying **** about the situation. I know Aries wish they can do that! I think browsing through blair waldorf gifs will make you feel better.. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 14, 2014 01:23 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
I should really pick up smoking.
Yes, Yes. Join the dark side! IP: Logged |
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