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Topic: Is it possible for a Libra Venus to NOT be relationship oriented?
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Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1725 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 14, 2014 12:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect: I'm very romantic relationship-oriented as well.My other focus is is my intellect and skills, though. I don't think I personally know Libra Venus, now that I think about it. So I cannot share my observation of them. Don't worry, though. As it sets you apart because most people do not seem to care about it much, if really at all. (well, at least in my observation with people) When a guy you like has the same focus and importance of it as you, he would admire that in you, and you two should be really happy together. Much happier than some detached relationship between two people who do not care for romance much 
Aww thanks almost astro-twin I hope you find the same qualities in a girl you like too! IP: Logged |
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posted March 14, 2014 12:36 AM
Venusians in general.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QczgvUDskk0 I think Bey is pretty Venusian looking at her chart. This how I get when I feel rejected by someone I care about.. I'm not cool about it LOL... But I'm not a libra though but I they go through the same thing LOL.. Although I consider this one of my faults that i am ashamed of. IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1725 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 14, 2014 12:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: I'm a libra Venus/Pluto/AC.... I gave up on love a few years ago, it feels better not to care than it does to obsess over a relationship with someone who takes you for granted. Plus guys obsess over you when you really don't care if they call or not, or you forget to call them/text them back because your to busy doing your own stuff.......they are the ones that start acting stupid, emotional and irrational! I do miss the overflow of love and emotions I used to have...but now I just want my independence and freedom. I want to do what I want when I want and I don't want to answer to anyone or HAVE to pick up my phone if I don't feel like it!A jaded libra is not pretty..... http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qbexOeoH5hg
Definitely true about that with guys. I think it's better when people are fine and comfortable with being independent on their own before they enter a relationship. I just want to clairify that I'm not relationship clingy/needy though lol. I need my space or else I won't be dating you. I have Moon/Uranus Opposition and Uranus in my 7th so even though I think about relationships, once I'm in one I still don't want to be around that person 24/7. IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1725 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 14, 2014 12:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: Definitely not just you or just Libra Venus.That said, I have a Libra Venus and I don't obsess on it like that. Though I MUST have friendships...I've contemplated one day becoming a hermit for maybe a year, but if I did I think I'd at least have to have an animal companion. I think that has to deal with both my chart (especially 5H Sag stellium) and my upbringing.
I have 3 planets in my 5th too! Idk, right now I'm kinda in a "hermit" stage probably due to transits. Just kind of isolating myself and self reflecting but I still caught myself flirting today at work lol.
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Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 12:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by Chiemi: Aww thanks almost astro-twin I hope you find the same qualities in a girl you like too!
Thank you and I hope the same for you, of course, almost astro-twin  IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1725 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 14, 2014 12:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Venusians in general.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QczgvUDskk0 I think Bey is pretty Venusian looking at her chart. This how I get when I feel rejected by someone I care about.. I'm not cool about it LOL... But I'm not a libra though but I they go through the same thing LOL.. Although I consider this one of my faults that i am ashamed of.
OMG lol the lyrics to this song > I don't do all the crying though (ok over this recent guy in private I did get all theatrical leg kicking in my bed - I blame my leo moon ) but I do start doing things to basically seem like I'm not affected. Like cleaning, working out, and getting involved on campus, getting a new job, etc.. But inside (right now especially) I'm just like "eff you, that's why you're missing out on all this so Ha!"
My dominant sign is Libra followed by Leo too lol
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posted March 14, 2014 12:57 AM
No like I am bad. Venus is my second dominant planet tied with the sun and moon LOL I'll sit home and text my best friend and be like OMG WHY IS THIS PERSON BEING SUCH A DICK AND NOT RESPONDING TO MY TEXT OMGGG. I have this gif saved on my phone and I send it to flaky people I have a crush on. Cause this gif is how i feel when you don't make an effort on me.. I know I should be cool but idkk I'm needy in my own way too  Courtship needs to be perfect or I'm over it.. and you don't have the right to text me anymore. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 3805 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 14, 2014 01:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by Chiemi: Definitely true about that with guys. I think it's better when people are fine and comfortable with being independent on their own before they enter a relationship.I just want to clairify that I'm not relationship clingy/needy though lol. I need my space or else I won't be dating you. I have Moon/Uranus Opposition and Uranus in my 7th so even though I think about relationships, once I'm in one I still don't want to be around that person 24/7.
I think initially libra Venus can be clingy but once we get comfy and trust that our relationship is stable we tend to let go and want to go back to doing our own things more. Even if you are clingy at first, I'm sure your worth it!! Ppl just need to give us the chance and allow us to feel safe and established in the relationship, then we lighten up a lot. IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1725 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 14, 2014 01:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: No like I am bad. Venus is my second dominant planet tied with the sun and moon LOL I'll sit home and text my best friend and be like OMG WHY IS THIS PERSON BEING SUCH A DICK AND NOT RESPONDING TO MY TEXT OMGGG. I have this gif saved on my phone and I send it to flaky people I have a crush on. Cause this gif is how i feel when you don't make an effort on me.. I know I should be cool but idkk I'm needy in my own way too  Courtship needs to be perfect or I'm over it.. and you don't have the right to text me anymore.
Those are my top 3 planets too! lol Moon is 1st, Sun is 2nd, and Venus is 3rd  I seriously know what you mean though trust me. I mean I guess it's better than crying over the person like: http://vinescope.com/we-all-have-that-one-friend-1431.html Lol IP: Logged |
Xodian Knowflake Posts: 826 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 14, 2014 08:43 PM
Let me answer your question with another question; Is it really so bad to be relationship oriented? I do believe we (Libra Venus influenced people) are relationship oriented; But we have come to a realization in life that a lot of people know in their hearts to be true but still struggle to accept it. And that is "No man (or woman) is an Island." You can only evolve through learning and gaining valuable experiences through a shared journey; May it be in a professional sense or a practical one. That has been the core modus oprendai behind every given successful civilization. As a Married Man, I can tell you that there is no greater treasure in this world than the experiences (both good and the bad) that I share with my wife. Her presence is a blessing beyond any other and I can't never be too thankful for her. Besides, I believe that this saying applies perfectly to all Libra/Leo influenced couples out there : IP: Logged |
summerlite Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 09:09 PM
It's usually the lioness that does the hunting though.IP: Logged |
Xodian Knowflake Posts: 826 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 14, 2014 09:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by summerlite: It's usually the lioness that does the hunting though.
And that would be apply in the natural order of things yes. However, Libras never believe in the "natural order" now do they . Hence, Libra/Leo people will probably have an issue with being on the sidelines and just being spectators.
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Odette Moderator Posts: 4391 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 14, 2014 09:38 PM
quote: Is it possible for a Libra Venus to NOT be relationship oriented?
No. It is not possible.  IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 1358 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 10:51 PM
Honestly, you're lucky you have a Libra venus. It makes it easy for you to get into relationships. Try having a Virgo venus and it is a pain in the a$$. We don't think or care much for relationships like you guys do, but when we do, we feel like we can never get it right. We are too criticizing or exacting that sometimes it leaves us feeling really lonely. We want love, but we can never get it until we've achieved the 'right formula'.IP: Logged |
SunMoonStars Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 18, 2014 03:46 AM
I have Libra Moon conjunct Libra Venus.Just imagine how that is... ;-) IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 7447 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 18, 2014 05:02 AM
Nope. Doux, tell them how badly you wanna be with me  quote: Originally posted by SunMoonStars: I have Libra Moon conjunct Libra Venus.Just imagine how that is... ;-)
My condolences  ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Heartsong11 Knowflake Posts: 479 From: RainbowPlace Registered: Dec 2013
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posted March 18, 2014 06:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by SunMoonStars: I have Libra Moon conjunct Libra Venus.Just imagine how that is... ;-)
Me tooooo! It's awesome that's how it is IP: Logged |
magicspells Knowflake Posts: 221 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 18, 2014 07:17 AM
venus in libra 12th house square uranus and neptuneI am not relationship orientated, I prefer my own company most of the time IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8282 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 18, 2014 08:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Doux, tell them how badly you wanna be with me
You're the only exception, milady.  Other than that I'm not very relationship-oriented. In fact I feel awkward with one-on-one interactions most of the time, that's why I tend to avoid them IRL. I am more concerned with my relationship with myself and the world at large. However that's definitely not a Libra Venus thing. That's something else in my chart. Generally speaking usually personal Libra placements are relationship-oriented. Sun, Moon, ASC, Venus, Mars. Oh and yeah, Uranus can shake things up a lot. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 1551 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted March 18, 2014 10:17 AM
I am a Libra Venus ( and a Pisces ASC) and its a sad day when i have noone on my mind to think about romanyically...... IP: Logged |
SunMoonStars Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 19, 2014 03:59 AM
Heartsong11, that is so true! :-)The beauty and harmony we are able to find in life is very special! This aspect colors my whole life. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 7447 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 29, 2014 03:59 PM
My father: "Living alone is not a life" O_o I used to consider Libra Venus a good placement but now I don't think I'd like to have it.------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
themischievousone Knowflake Posts: 491 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 29, 2014 10:54 PM
I have Libra Venus (Virgo Sun) and I am not preoccupied with romantic relationships- I prefer intellectual and $ pursuits-however I am very flirty (Gemini moon?) and always find myself in a relationship. I can't help that I keep attracting them In that sense, I suppose I am relationship oriented but I never seek it. It kinda just happens. Idk what is is like to be single. I guess I wouldn't have it any other way. Never thought about it before... IP: Logged |