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Topic: Favorite child?
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9566 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 16, 2014 10:21 PM
Were you the favorite or given the most attention? I always hear people being black sheep... My sisters and parents agree that I was the favorite growing up and it was always about me...I have Leo IC and Jupiter in the 4th. My grandfather was really close to me apparently I saw his ghost as a child before I realized he passed away. Keep in mind I had no idea what death was at that time.. I find it interesting my sisters aren't p!ssed about that either they just accept it and laugh about it. IP: Logged |
Xodian Knowflake Posts: 759 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 16, 2014 10:30 PM
I grew up with three brothers (One Older, and Two Younger) and I can say without a doubt that all four of us are loved equally. Mind you, my parents were strict on us in our early years (Aries Mom and Capricorn Dad. Its like dealing with two Sergeant Majors in the house ) but as time progressed on, we were given equal opportunities to explore our horizons and I can say that we didn't disappoint our parents' faith in us. Now issues with other family members are a different story (they are still stuck with in the Stone Age unfortunately and aren't supportive of my marriage with my wife or the relationship I have built up with her family) but between me, my brothers and my parents, I can say that we didn't feel deprived or excluded in any sense. We brothers were fiercely competitive with one another (One Aries, one Sagittarius and One Capricorn... Yeah I am the odd one out in the family being an air sign ,) but that didn't diminish our fondness for each other. My brothers might be total knuckleheads at times but there are no other guys in this world who I would stand by with all the way.
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earthypisces Knowflake Posts: 484 From: Greenville, South Carolina Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 16, 2014 10:33 PM
I'm in the middle... I have two brothers, the youngest was the favorite (especially with our mother). Oddly enough, my mother and younger brother have all the same personal planets and ascendant (except for their moons).I consider myself to be the least favorite in general, but whatever. LOL, I don't care. I don't like my parents much either, and they know it. ------------------ My chart: http://i.imgur.com/N9w5x4Z.gif IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1307 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 16, 2014 11:21 PM
I have Virgo Sun conjunct IC and a bunch of planets in 4th. My immediate family always thought I was the favorite and favored by my mom and step-dad over my older sister growing up. In reality though, it was just that I was more behaved and didn't cause any trouble (focused on school, reading, pretty quiet and to myself hence, Virgo IC) while my sister was always in detention, arguing with teachers/authority, fighting, etc. My family used to favor my sister over me and give her gifts because my mom apparently "didn't give her enough attention", but when my sister lived with my aunt for a year everyone finally realized why my mom rewarded me more than my sister.
Anyways, she's more mature now and wiser though.
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 3965 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 16, 2014 11:27 PM
I was the favorite of my maternal granny, but not anyone else. And the paternal grandparents barely tolerated me, at least since their son divorced my mom. IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Mex Registered: Dec 2013
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posted March 17, 2014 12:17 AM
I totally feel like my mom's favorite (could it be my leo moon?) but not my dad's. Actually we don't get along, we have a bad relationship, besides he gives priority to my sister more than me and it's something that everybody near us can tell.IP: Logged |
ash20 Knowflake Posts: 290 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 17, 2014 12:34 AM
My dad made me feel like I was his favorite sometimes. I always got the vibe he wanted to be my friend rather than my dad.. With my mom whoever is obeying her that day is her favorite IP: Logged |
Leocassandra Knowflake Posts: 466 From: Poland Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 17, 2014 02:46 PM
Yes, i was I have one brother 15 years older than me. Im daddys princess everyone in my family knows about it. What i have: -Capricorn IC(!) -Moon conjunct IC-->Ruler of my MC in 4th(i think this is the reason) -North Node conjunct IC -Neptune conjunct the IC -Saturn in 4th house (Ruler of my IC, North Node) -Sun opposite Saturn -Vesta in 10th/Juno conjunct ICIP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 808 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 17, 2014 06:08 PM
I have leo IC too.I was also teacher's favorite kid at school even though I didn't always do well IP: Logged |
RosaDelValle Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 17, 2014 09:45 PM
I'm the favorite, for sure... but then again, I'm an only child. Does that count? lolI loved being an only child. Being a Virgo sun, I loved the solitude, and my Leo moon loved the undivided attention.
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Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 2293 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 17, 2014 09:59 PM
LEO IC Moon square Saturn Moon Conjunct Jupiter Other minor aspects...(Check my chart, its in my sig!)My parents treated my older sister, my younger sister, and me- the middle, equally. We have a wonderful relationship and I love them dearly. My grandma (by marriage) however, turned evil and decided to stop being a part of our family after my grandfather died, favorited me. Yeah she loved me the most. When it was my birthday she took me clothing shopping and not my sisters. She also said I sang the best and would give me excessive compliments. I don't sing that great anymore.. She was a Cancer with Leo moon IDK her ascendant. ------------------ My Chart! " Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present." -Joan Rivers "Be who u r and say what u feel cuz those who matter dont mind & those who mind don't matter" -Dr.Seuss "Never mistake silence for ignorance, calmness for acceptance, or kindness for weakness." -Carson Kolhoff IP: Logged |
yellowelevator Newflake Posts: 4 From: Michigan/Pluto Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 17, 2014 11:10 PM
Pretty much so. I have Venus conjunct Jupiter by 1 degree in the 4th, and my Leo sun is loosely conjunct my IC, by about 6 or 7 degrees. But I'm not necessarily happy it turned out that way, although I know my mother does not literally 'favorite' me. We are just super close and always have been, we're like best friends sometimes instead of mother/daughter, which is not always great, but I definitely don't know where I'd be without her. We do have quite a few planets aspecting each other's, though. I'm always secretly afraid that my older brother and sister resent me in a way for being the one mom got closest to growing up. My sister used to be into drugs a few years ago and at times when she was at her worst and fighting she pretty much said whatever was on her mind and said negative things about how I'm the favorite child. Always felt pretty bad about it. But I had cancer as a baby anyway, so that might have even sparked me being babied growing up. Don't know, but I definitely think I see how my Venus/Jupiter in 4th has played out in the whole family aspect. I also have to wonder if it's because I'm a Cancer Rising too lol ------------------ Leo sun Cancer Ascendant Gemini moon IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8040 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 17, 2014 11:31 PM
I had a strange situation. My family thought I got too much attention for being an only child and when I was with my mom and dad I was really spoiled they both took really great care of me and I was so happy all the time. My mom's family resented it big time so they felt they had to make up for it by paying more attention to my cousins than me, especially in public. They were extremely jealous of my Venus in Leo big time. One time I stayed with my cousin and her mom took us to get a hair cut and it took something like five hours because the stylist talked non stop and would not stop talking and it was all about my cousin while they completely ignored me. It was crazy! I wanted to get out of there. Five hours for two hair cuts? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 38598 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 18, 2014 11:26 PM
Birth order likely plays a big role. IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon Knowflake Posts: 214 From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 19, 2014 12:42 PM
I feel as though I was the favorite child. I'm the youngest of two kids by nine years. I have Jupiter in Cancer in the 4th house as well. Plus Jupiter trine Pluto, conjunct Sun and Mercury, but, opposite Saturn and Square Mars in Aries.IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Mex Registered: Dec 2013
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posted March 20, 2014 12:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by RosaDelValle:I loved being an only child. Being a Virgo sun, I loved the solitude, and my Leo moon loved the undivided attention. [/B]
As a little girl I always wanted to be an only child, I never asked for sisters/brothers, actually up to this day It doesn't excite me the fact that I have a sister, but probably it has more to do with my saturn 3rd house. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 485 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 20, 2014 04:01 PM
Virgo IC conjunct Mercury Empty 4th houseI was the favorite for some wrong reasons and because I had better grades. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |