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Topic: What do you do when your angry?
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Dancing Maenad
Knowflake Posts: 388
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 25, 2014 01:32 PM
  
I am very controlled. I might raise my voice and curse a little but that is probably all that you will see on the surface. Inside it's a different story. I was brought to believe showing anger is a weakness and it's shameful (Sat opp Mars). I always avoid bringing up the situation when I am angry. I will wait until I cool down and decide the best course of action and that is when I am deadliest because I have humiliated people with grace the next day or so (whereas if I would burst immediately I'd be an incoherent crazy person). Body language does betray me and at some point I almost choke on it lol. I blush heavily too. Today I heard a coworker say some mean and uncalled for things about me (as in really low). They were in the next room and I could hear them talking about me. Heart started pounding. I wanted to go over there, kick the door from its handle and slap that b**ch silly - several times. It kinda messed with my day because I was so balanced and peaceful and sh*t and now I have to deal with this unwelcome feeling. Tomorrow I am going to calmly and elegantly solve this matter and make her feel like the disgusting insect she really is. Aries on 3rd house cusp; house contains Aries Mercury and Mars conjunct, Taurus Venus (I believe this one runs away with the chart and wins every time, GOOD!!); Mercury and Mars in opp with Sat and Pluto, trine with Moon and Neptune (probably why you can see it so clearly on my face).
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 9664
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 25, 2014 01:34 PM
I have Saturn conjunct MC so everyone thinks I'm ****** off.
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hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 6719
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 25, 2014 03:06 PM
Mars in Gemini 12th house conjunct ASC, sextile my 11th house Aries stellium and inconjunct Pluto which is also opposing my Taurus moon.When I get mad....I seethe, and I want to rip your head off but I keep it under control and try to communicate calmly. If you keep pushing me though I have no problem with low blows and I'll take every one I can get. I'm sort of a lawyer in that sense...and I'll really only go to bat if I'm completely sure you're in the wrong. If its just a bad day and I don't have patience I don't have to do much. A strong look says more than my words really could. Otherwise I'll probably just point out your stupidity and then keep to myself. I'm not one for making scenes or big deals unless I'm pushed to the extreme. IP: Logged |
socialgraffiti
Knowflake Posts: 158
From: uranus
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 26, 2014 01:31 AM
I get icy-cold.
Temperature drops.
I also get really impulsive when I'm upset, like I'd consider things that I never would before. My attacks are usually verbal- Mercury in Scorpio/Mars in Sagittarius, so I know where to aim, and am not afraid to hit below the belt.
My tongue has been called "acidic."
Afterwards, I usually storm off and cut them out of my life completely. I don't get upset often, but when I do, it's lasting- usually when someone insults my close friends, family, or my (very large) ego. I hold grudges for years- it's a bad habit, but c'mon, everone's got their flaws. Plus, the forgiving-mercy-philosophy doesn't really mesh with my mojo.
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