posted March 24, 2014 12:28 PM            

Then my anger (cancer mars) ill walk away into my crab shell, usually out of the room and cry. But before I walk away I'll usually bluntly tell the person how I feel, what they did, and how I feel about them (mercury sag) ill shoot daggers with words and blunt honesty, I have Nessus square mercury so it can be very hurtful.

posted March 24, 2014 12:44 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
If it's someone I don't care about and they tend to get on my nerves I'll crush them verbally (Sag Mercury ) and then curse at them when they're not around unless they made me particularly angry, in which case I might throw it in their face.

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Hell has no fury against merc sag words, even when we are not angry, we still manage to hurt by accident so imagine when we DO mean it.

posted March 24, 2014 01:18 PM            

If someone I dont know very well upsets me Ill sometimes chalk it up to "at least Ill never see them again"

Sometimes if they are closer to me and I cant up front confront the issue (Im not one to make a scene) Ill slowly punish them over time for it, even if they dont remember what they did.
For example: When my sister and I were little and wed get into a physical fight.. If I didnt feel like I got mine "in" Id poke her with a needle a few hours later..
Sometimes when the SO and I fight and I dont feel like I got my anger out, Ill wait till he is almost asleep or asleep and make a loud noise, yank a hair out, yank the covers off..

posted March 24, 2014 02:09 PM            

It depends on the situation, of course.

But I've found that I can ease the tension by self-relief, if you know what I mean. Hey, at least I'm being honest. It's used constructively and better than doing something I will regret because I can get really angry sometimes. As it calms me down.

Kinda stereotypical of a Scorpio Mars. It may be a combination of that and my 8th House Saturn at work, lol.

Other than that, nothing really helps besides music. But that can sometimes make it worse or make me more irritable. Like, it can give me a headache if I'm angry, sometimes.

I can act like nothing happened and ignore the problem like I do not care, but I would then be lying to myself. As I take things very seriously, unless it was a joke and not malicious, then I wouldn't really care and laugh with them - but again, it really depends what the joke on me was about.

Depending on what it is, I can change my feelings quick and start laughing again. I get irritable over little things quickly, though - and then start getting snappy, and by criticizing every little thing that bothers me.

Oh yeah, eating helps, too, but I think that can apply to most people.

Sleeping doesn't help because I then keep thinking about the issue and cannot fall asleep.

posted March 24, 2014 03:24 PM            

When I'm angry, I need to LET IT OUT on the person who angered me. I'll freak out and go completely batshit crazy for a few minutes, and then I'll be over it. It's like I go temporarily insane then immediately revert back to normal after I have expressed the anger. It's good not to hold things in, in my opinion, but I need to control myself a little. It's all that fire- I'm completely emotionally impulsive, and very confrontational. No passive aggressiveness here!!

posted March 24, 2014 04:53 PM            

While mars in Libra likes harmony and makes it very hard for other people to make me angry, I still have a fire sign short fuse and have exploded before, both in general(situation, at myself) and on other people. I dont think I've ever gotten deathly angry at someone before though and I don't want to.

posted March 24, 2014 10:04 PM            

Occasionally when s.o threatens me physically n I get extremely angry then it may result in physical fights/aggression.

Most of the time my anger goes away quickly. When it doesn't I'd either go fume quietly in the shed or smash a few things or make s.t with my hands to let it out.

posted March 25, 2014 05:22 AM            

pluto makes an opposition to my asc mars and mercury aswell from the 7th.

Also sun in gemini 2nd house conjunct venus.

I have a really bad temper, i get easily irritated, but i'm quite objective at first, but if i get really angry i'm very hostile and if we don't end up in a physical fight ill just sit back looking furious and plot their death - altough i never acted upon it lol.

posted March 25, 2014 06:28 AM            

Usually yell and cuss people out. I don't hit anyone or anything, though. Personally, I'm not one to hold a grudge, so I like to get things over with right then and there. I don't care if we're in public or not. I wanna settle things right when I get ****** off. I've embarrassed many people this way...

posted March 25, 2014 12:17 PM            

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posted March 25, 2014 12:39 PM            

It really depends on my mood and how well I know the person, honestly. And the subject or how/why I got angry in the first place.

If it's someone I don't know well, I'll either ignore it or I'll simply make a snide remark to get them to shut up. If that doesn't work, I will eventually just give them the "Really? Seriously, f*ck off" look and go on about my business.

If it's someone I don't know well and they consistently p*ss me off, I will eventually blow a gasket and get into a verbal slice and dice match with them.

Depending on their intelligence level and the repercussions involved (it's not a fair fight if they're irretrievably stupid or if it's not worth my time).

I think that my Cap Mars is always fairly cautious regarding things like that. If there are serious repercussions (like in a work situation), then I will usually just ignore the person and make them feel stupid when the opportunity presents itself (which it usually does, because I don't often get angry with people who possess reasonable qualities, or who are generally respectful towards me).

I try to hold back on physical violence, although it's certainly tempting with some people.

With people I am close to, I don't hold back much. They know me, and they are fully aware of what makes me mad and what doesn't. If they push me enough, I'll tell them exactly what I think very bluntly.

If it's a fruitless argument that's been repeated endlessly and is unimportant in the greater scheme of things, I just let it go.