posted March 31, 2014 12:19 AM            

then i read the other posts, and it all became clear.

posted March 31, 2014 01:45 AM            

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
Hahaha

I kept hoping that the drug raid house would move out too, because the neighbor that lives there is very rude. He was even yelling at the police officers and kicking his stuff around like a child. Talk about obnoxious (meanwhile I'm childishly enjoying the spectacle!)

I like when people wonder where I am but I've never had someone do it excessively at all. It peevs me to expect someone home and then not have any message that they're running late. I immediately start imagining a car crash and everything else under the Sun. So yeah, I'm just a little morbid!

Seems like we need to get together for some neighborhood watch groups! Hahaha

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posted April 10, 2016 02:16 PM            

Leos may tend to assume that others are the same.

A Leo may ask a question and see it as a "gift" to the other person, an invitation to talk about themselves.

Perhaps the other person will see it as intrusive.

I remember talking with my neighbor many years ago, just getting to know her and talking about her life. I thought I was following the conversation naturally and in a friendly manner...easy give and take.

Later my father came to me and was pretty mad, saying our neighbor told him that I had "interrogated" her, put her on the spot, and so on.

I was completely stunned, hurt, and bewildered. I told my dad that she is just plain crazy, and explained everything, and he understood and took my side.

I think that was my first "wake up call" to the possibility that I could read cues totally wrong.

Many times after that I had to confront the sad reality that I can't always tell the difference between friendly questions and seeming nosy.