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Topic: Best transits for losing virginity
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Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 09:40 PM
  
Whens mods troll.
Why are you even a mod?
Oh yeah favoritism.
you're practically useless when it comes to well anything related to the real world.Perhaps she isn't in an environment with suitors that meet her standards... So why does she have to stoop to their level?
She lives in Eastern Europe so it's a different culture but your ignorant ass would not understand that. But you don't ever think of anything but your own situation and project that to everyone else. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 8940
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 09:44 PM
^ i am just being honest.. It just strikes me that she is awful curious about sex and talks about it alot. So why not have sex? Most Guys our age are horny and will jump at the opportunity to do it.. So i'm just not understanding why this is so complicated . Im encouraging her to get out there and do it. And btw kerosene im getting awful tired of that little mouth of yours.. You are the one who always stoops to attacking people when they dont agree with you. And i'm ignorant?IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 30, 2014 09:47 PM
So you're mad when chicks get out there and just screw a beefcake that doesn't deserve her but you're suggesting a virgin that is extremely picky about the type of person she beds is not going to have sex ever if she doesn't do it before 20?IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 202
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 30, 2014 09:50 PM
^ beefcake? LMFAO done haha you girls be goin in!IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 8940
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 09:52 PM
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Originally posted by MsPrism:
So you're mad when chicks get out there and just screw a beefcake that doesn't deserve her but you're suggesting a virgin that is extremely picky about the type of person she beds is not going to have sex ever if she doesn't do it before 20?
No. I'm just making an observation. She seems interested and open to sex, isnt religious, and i'm pretty sure she has said she doesnt want to get married. So what is stopping her from having sex? Surely you realize that most people who remain virgins are doing it for religious convictions and/ or they are saving it for marriage? So this case truly baffles me.. Im just trying to wrap my mind around it. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted March 30, 2014 09:59 PM
Wrapping your mind around it by making wild statements like that? I think just honestly asking her why she's waited would be a better approach if you really wanted to wrap your mind around it. I waited quite a long time, was very interested in sex but it had nothing to do with religion, it had to do with finding that person that made me want to, literally, break that barrier. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 8940
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 10:33 PM
Was what I said really a wild statement? I simply came to a logical conclusion based off of all the information I have gathered. We know: she isnt religious, doesnt want to get married, and doesnt seem to be interested in romance in the traditional sense. But she does talk about sex alot.. Based off of all of that it would seem she would have no problem with hooking up or experimenting with sex. So the only other barrier to sex would be finding someone she is likes and is attracted to and having sex.. And that should be easy enough... There are attractive people everywhere. So what is the problem? Unless she has unreasonably high standards to the point where the man she is looking for doesnt exist.. I understand that most women are incredibly selective about who they sleep with and have their "type" but I have never met a straight woman who hasnt ever met atleast one man she was willing to go to bed with. Thats just unheard of.IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted March 30, 2014 10:37 PM
Then you simply don't have all the information in this case.A lot can be said about illogical emotions and this seems to be more an emotional situation than a purely logical one. Your statement is logical to you based on what you've read about her but she's not SIMPLY anything, none of us are. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8169
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 12:50 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
SSS, a buddhist monastery. They wouldn't give a damn haha.
Okay we join the monastery together and we can meditate our lives away and think right thoughts at all times.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8169
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 12:52 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
^ i am just being honest.. It just strikes me that she is awful curious about sex and talks about it alot. So why not have sex? Most Guys our age are horny and will jump at the opportunity to do it.. So i'm just not understanding why this is so complicated . Im encouraging her to get out there and do it. And btw kerosene im getting awful tired of that little mouth of yours.. You are the one who always stoops to attacking people when they dont agree with you. And i'm ignorant?
Aquaguy don't be pushy. I admire Cappy for not giving into pressure and just being herself. I like her the way she is. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 04:35 AM
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So why not have sex? Most Guys our age are horny and will jump at the opportunity to do it.. So i'm just not understanding why this is so complicated . Im encouraging her to get out there and do it.
*pukes*
Let me guess, you're one of those horny guys and you'd love to pop someone's cherry. Could you be so kind and leave my vagina alone? It's time to learn to control your sexual frustration. Besides, I've said like 100 times that I don't want casual sex. And even if I was open to it, it wouldn't neccessarily happen since I'm a potentially asexual person. I refuse to have sex with someone I'm not sexually attracted to. Sue me. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 05:14 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
 Yar a wizard Cappy but are you ever worried if someone attempts to sacrifice you to their god?
#virginproblems I hope I was not the only one who was freaked out when I use to read about all the virgin sacrifices in the middle ages.
No, I'm a witch and...
 Yeah, gotta be careful with pagans and theistic satanists. I'll pretend to be a sl... just in case. quote:
Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Okay we join the monastery together and we can meditate our lives away and think right thoughts at all times.
Errr? Not in this incarnation  I could live with buddhists but I am no buddhist material. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted March 31, 2014 05:21 AM
What movie/tv show are you watching with all these black eyed people Cappy? IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 05:25 AM
The gif comes from The Covenant movie. I still have the opportunity to look at those lovely black eyes tough. Supernatural, baby  ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted March 31, 2014 06:08 AM
Haha supernatural is right.IP: Logged |
Jo B
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Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 06:36 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
If you are over 20 years old and have never found someone good enough for you it will probably never happen. Its either you are way beyond hot or you have unreasonably high standards. Personally I would put my money on the latter.
What a ridiculous statement.  I was 21 when I lost mine, which is relatively late, but I certainly made up for it after that. hehe Actually I really wanted to with a boyfriend when I was 18 (he was an irresistable Scorpio, go figure! lol) but something held me back, a nagging doubt that he was just too laid back and untrustworthy. Which was just as well because he dumped me before we ever "got to it". lol Just do it when you feel comfortable with someone, ideally when you're in a fairly steady relationship and you feel you can trust them, but it doesn't matter if you're not as serious as that. The main thing is that you are attracted to them and they make you feel good and safe. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted March 31, 2014 06:41 AM
Jo B, I think she wants to feel in danger! But yes, all that jazz about doing when you know it's right. A great transit would be any outer planet transit. Maybe Jupiter would come along and sacrifice your virginity somehow too. IP: Logged |
Jo B
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Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 06:50 AM
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Originally posted by MsPrism:
But yes, all that jazz about doing when you know it's right.
Yeah, I think there's nothing worse than feeling pressured to losing your virginity because everyone else seems to have lost theirs (or SAYS they have, lol) or your partner is pressurising you into it, and then you have a lousy or awkward experience just because you weren't ready. I have no idea what transits would be good for this nor have any clue what mine were since it was sometime two centuries ago.  IP: Logged |
MsPrism
Knowflake Posts: 1336
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 06:54 AM
I agree!As for transits, when I lost my virginity I had Jupiter transiting my 8th House ruler. There ya go, good old Jupiter, the great liberator, swooped in and sacrificed my innocence! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 8940
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 07:00 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
*pukes*
Let me guess, you're one of those horny guys and you'd love to pop someone's cherry. Could you be so kind and leave my vagina alone? It's time to learn to control your sexual frustration. Besides, I've said like 100 times that I don't want casual sex. And even if I was open to it, it wouldn't neccessarily happen since I'm a potentially asexual person. I refuse to have sex with someone I'm not sexually attracted to. Sue me.
Haha i wasnt aware that i was bothering it? But ok.. and I'm not sexually frustrated, dont try to make this about me. And Asexual people dont dwell on sex. Lol i never said you should! By all means find the best looking guy you can. I am simply pointing out that it's incredibly odd for a person your age to not have found someone they are attracted to enough to have sex with them.
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Jo B
Knowflake Posts: 251
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Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 07:08 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]I am simply pointing out that it's incredibly odd for a person your age to not have found someone they are attracted to enough to have sex with them.
There you go again. What's so odd about being selective? Good for her for going against the "norm". IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 8940
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 07:23 AM
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Originally posted by Jo B:
There you go again. What's so odd about being selective? Good for her for going against the "norm".
I never said being selective is a bad thing, but there is a limit. For example if I was so selective that I would only consider a Victoria's Secret model I would have never lost my Virginity and would certainly be alone for the rest of my life. I'm simply saying that its bizarre for a person to have reached their 20s and not met someone that turns them on enough to go to bed with them. Obviously some people abstain from sex until later for various reasons.. But most people have experienced sexual attraction atleast a million times by the time they are in their 20s.. Maybe Cappy is really asexual and wants badly for it to happen, i dont know.. But if she is asexual it wont happen, thats just the nature of it.. And if she isn't asexual it would seem she is extremely picky to her own detriment. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8169
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 08:13 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Errr? Not in this incarnation I could live with buddhists but I am no buddhist material.
I was j/k Cappy! IP: Logged |
Jo B
Knowflake Posts: 251
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Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 09:05 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I never said being selective is a bad thing, but there is a limit. For example if I was so selective that I would only consider a Victoria's Secret model I would have never lost my Virginity and would certainly be alone for the rest of my life.
There are plenty of people "alone for the rest of their life" who have had TONS of sex before. This is just a sweeping generalisation. I have a good friend dating back from school who I think is probably still a virgin. The most pleasant, fun person you would hope to meet; she has lots of friends and an active social life. I've also seen lots of very happy nuns in my time. lol What seems strange to one person is natural for another. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 8940
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 09:11 AM
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Originally posted by Jo B:
There are plenty of people "alone for the rest of their life" who have had TONS of sex before. This is just a sweeping generalisation. I have a good friend dating back from school who I think is probably still a virgin. The most pleasant, fun person you would hope to meet; she has lots of friends and an active social life. I've also seen lots of very happy nuns in my time. lol What seems strange to one person is natural for another.
Where exactly did I say that virgins cant be happy?IP: Logged |
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