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Topic: Best transits for losing virginity
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5295 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 10:08 AM
Aqua, it's not like anybody can choose to feel attraction, it happens or not, so what about you give me a break?  quote: Originally posted by MsPrism: I agree!As for transits, when I lost my virginity I had Jupiter transiting my 8th House ruler. There ya go, good old Jupiter, the great liberator, swooped in and sacrificed my innocence! 
Almost 11 years to go But what I'm actually interested in are transits that indicate this experience would be great. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 53591 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 31, 2014 10:30 AM
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5295 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 10:35 AM
Lol, thanks...------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Jo B Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 10:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Where exactly did I say that virgins cant be happy?
Stop picking at minor points to deflect away from your own prejudiced attitude. 
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Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 470 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 11:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Ahem, Mars in the 9th. Studying the occult is better than sex If you were more observant you'd notice I'm already curious. I have been for years but to me that's not reason enough to do it.
True and indeed should not be. I was curious too but waited into my 20s until I found the right person. I had a very nice experience. Weirdly it was not romantic or cheesy at all, no candles, no music, it was a bit hurried even because we almost got caught. That might sound bad to many people, but to my Aries Mars and Sun/Uranus it was just right. Since you asked specifically about transits.. there you go. Jup barely entered the 8th (and OMG the time it was there......... I may have waited a while, but I made up for it big time). ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 470 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 11:58 AM
nvmd.. Aries Mercury jumped the gun. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8940 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 12:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jo B: Stop picking at minor points to deflect away from your own prejudiced attitude. 
Huh? Lol I was just correcting you because you were putting words in my mouth. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8940 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 12:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Aqua, it's not like anybody can choose to feel attraction, it happens or not, so what about you give me a break?  Almost 11 years to go But what I'm actually interested in are transits that indicate this experience would be great.
I'm not giving you a hard time, i'm just calling it like I see it based off of what I have seen and i'm genuinely trying to understand this whole thing. So do you think you are truly asexual? Or do you really think you could feel sexually attracted to the right person under the right circumstances?IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5295 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 02:13 PM
Dancing, thanks for the chart. Aqua, if you read what I say carefully you shouldn't have a problem with understanding. If I'm like 30 and no man I've met made me feel like having sex with him (whether I'd act on it is a different story) then I suppose it'll be almost certain. If something does change, that will mean I'm gray or demi, depending on the circumstances. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 872 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 31, 2014 02:37 PM
There was a thread about contact to vertex and the person you loose your virginity to, so hm..., I guess it applies to transit too? Also saturn in 5th (transit) is always bad for romance
Maybe uranus in 5th... And possibly unwanted or unplanned pregnancy I think saturn in 7th increases the importance of partnership. For ppl who prefer sex after marriage, this transit might contribute IP: Logged |
Jo B Knowflake Posts: 251 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 31, 2014 03:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Huh? Lol I was just correcting you because you were putting words in my mouth.
And you were implying that if someone doesn't have sex then they will stay "alone" for the rest of their life. lol. I quote: "For example if I was so selective that I would only consider a Victoria's Secret model I would have never lost my Virginity and would certainly be alone for the rest of my life." I'm sure there are plenty of married couples who feel "alone" in their relationships (regardless of whether they are having lots of sex or not). I think this is a fault of society as a whole, that "status anxiety" thing where if you're not sexually active, in a relationship, married, blah blah, then you're somehow not "normal". I'd much rather be an individual than "normal" any day. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5295 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 07:25 PM
looooooooooooooooooooooooooool https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdsCGm4bP3E I'll actually have these transits hahah. tJupiter conjunct Mars by about 3 degrees and tMoon conjunct my Dsc at the same time. In 10 years.
quote: Also saturn in 5th (transit) is always bad for romance
I have it natally  quote: I'd much rather be an individual than "normal" any day.
High five! ----------------- I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1680 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 07:51 PM
Maybe ur an asexual. U have no urge for sex at all. Thats kind of wierd. Ever thought of being a nun?IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5295 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 07:52 PM
Is it me or are you trying to be mean?------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
iliketurtles Knowflake Posts: 288 From: 2099 Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 31, 2014 07:56 PM
venus and mars were exactly conjunct in sagittarius when i lost mine 46million years agoIP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1680 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 07:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Is it me or are you trying to be mean?
Nope i actually wasnt. My cousins a virgin and she is 35. She is into spirituality. She meditates alot. But she does point out if a guy is cute and has had boyfriends before. She has messed around with guys and felt urges.
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5295 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 08:02 PM
I'm not religious so being a nun is not an option. I too can find men cute, even beautiful. It's called aesthetic attraction. Is your cousin waiting for marriage? quote: Originally posted by iliketurtles: venus and mars were exactly conjunct in sagittarius when i lost mine 46million years ago
Do you consider it a good experience? ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Sailor Gemini Knowflake Posts: 495 From: Magellan Castle, Aphrodite Terra, Venus Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 08:34 PM
Um... this is just me, but I would think Hera(3) aspecting Hestia(4)... mainly for the relational part... and consider Aphrodite and Ares. But that's just my opinion. By the way, if I may ask, is your Hestia(4) prominent?------------------ L'amour d'Aphrodite et un choc de beauté~ IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8940 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 09:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jo B: And you were implying that if someone doesn't have sex then they will stay "alone" for the rest of their life. lol. I quote: "For example if I was so selective that I would only consider a Victoria's Secret model I would have never lost my Virginity and would certainly be alone for the rest of my life."I'm sure there are plenty of married couples who feel "alone" in their relationships (regardless of whether they are having lots of sex or not). I think this is a fault of society as a whole, that "status anxiety" thing where if you're not sexually active, in a relationship, married, blah blah, then you're somehow not "normal". I'd much rather be an individual than "normal" any day.
No.... I didnt.... I was saying I would be alone forever "IF" ("IF being the key word here) i was soo selective that I would only consider a Victoria's Secret model.
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5295 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 01, 2014 06:35 AM
That's enough. Let's focus on astrology. quote: Originally posted by Sailor Gemini: Um... this is just me, but I would think Hera(3) aspecting Hestia(4)... mainly for the relational part... and consider Aphrodite and Ares. But that's just my opinion. By the way, if I may ask, is your Hestia(4) prominent?
Hestia conjunct Vesta under 1 degree in the 9th house. Trine Sun, trine Neptune, opposite Pluto. Opposite Adonis exact lol. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Sailor Gemini Knowflake Posts: 495 From: Magellan Castle, Aphrodite Terra, Venus Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 01, 2014 01:07 PM
Ah, thanks. I think the ninth house has more emphasis on the spiritual side of Hestia(probably both).------------------ L'amour d'Aphrodite et un choc de beauté~ IP: Logged |
iliketurtles Knowflake Posts: 288 From: 2099 Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 01, 2014 08:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: I'm not religious so being a nun is not an option. I too can find men cute, even beautiful. It's called aesthetic attraction. Is your cousin waiting for marriage? Do you consider it a good experience?
it wasn't great but it wasn't terrible either. the guy was a bit older. i was 16 he was i think 22. he was still experienced and i picked him on the presumption that he would know what to do. he was just as nervous as i was and we were both drunk lol he wasn't as confident as it thought he'd be, i was just lying there like hurry up which wouldn't have been very encouraging. it didnt hurt as much but i'm pretty sure that had more to do with alcohol than anything else. i'm glad i got it over with at a young age and have never regretted losing my virginity to a casual friend  IP: Logged |