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Topic: "I love you" and the signs
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Polyhemnia Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 12:33 PM
When one sign tells another sign "I love you" what aspects in the chart encourages the expression of such deep feelings? I wanted to tell my Aquarius man "I love you" before he told me, but he beat me to the punch line (I was waiting for the perfect moment)After an offical week of us dating he said "I love you" after a moment of intimacy. (We have known each other for a few years and first met as children [re-met in late high school]) Earlier that day and a few days before he tried to say "I love you" however I wasn't sure if he had said it, and wanted to be sure and not scare him away. Plus wait for the perfect moment. My Aquarius man has the following aspects in his chart: Ascendant-Pisces Sun-Aquarius Moon-Scorpio Mercury-Aquarius Venus-Sagittarius Mars-Leo My aspects are as following: Ascendant-Cancer Sun-Leo Moon-Taurus Mercury-Cancer Venus-Virgo Mars-Gemini So what compells someone to express "I love you" rather quickly or long into the relationship? Thoughts? IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9784 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 12:43 PM
Are you sure he meant I love you? Or I love having sex with you?IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8041 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 31, 2014 12:56 PM
^I wouldnt listen to that lolDont be disheartened I think he meant i love you, youve been childhood friends and he tried saying i love you before ------------------ Cancer: eternally the mother of the zodiac... ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility (3rd post) | Q&A | What's a Love stellium? | Most important aspects descriptions | Aspects to avoid | Guide to Chinese Zodiac Appearance | The Order in Astrology IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 12:58 PM
When My SO said "I love you" to me for the first time he was extremely drunk lol… but the next day he said it too, while he was very awake. It was kinda too early for my own taste (we had only known each other for a couple of months back then) But I was so much in love that I just said "I love you too"I still love him a lot! Him: Libra sun Pisces moon Virgo mercury Libra venus Gemini mars Me: Virgo sun Pisces moon Libra mercury Scorpio venus Virgo mars We got many of the classical love-aspect in synastry like venus conjunction mars, mercury and sun, moon opposition venus and sun, sun square neptune, moon trine pluto, ascendant aspecting venus, moon and jupiter and so on IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8939 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 01:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: When My SO said "I love you" to me for the first time he was extremely drunk lol… but the next day he said it too, while he was very awake. It was kinda too early for my own taste (we had only known each other for a couple of months back then) But I was so much in love that I just said "I love you too"I still love him a lot! Him: Libra sun Pisces moon Virgo mercury Libra venus Gemini mars Me: Virgo sun Pisces moon Libra mercury Scorpio venus Virgo mars We got many of the classical love-aspect in synastry like venus conjunction mars, mercury and sun, moon opposition venus and sun, sun square neptune, moon trine pluto, ascendant aspecting venus, moon and jupiter and so on
So you were in love with him already but felt he said it too early? When did you want him to say it? IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 01:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: So you were in love with him already but felt he said it too early? When did you want him to say it?
I think I was in love with him the first time I even saw him:P We were both drunk but I got the guts to kiss him that night lol… I don't know, but to me it's a very big thing to say, and I think there is also a difference between being in love, and actually love a person… IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8939 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 01:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: I think I was in love with him the first time I even saw him:P We were both drunk but I got the guts to kiss him that night lol… I don't know, but to me it's a very big thing to say, and I think there is also a difference between being in love, and actually love a person…
Huh? Lol that doesnt clear anything up IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 01:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Huh? Lol that doesnt clear anything up
No, our relationship is kinda really confusing… but to be honest I think that he should have waited for a year before he said that, cause the longer you wait the more serious it is:P My scorpio venus likes that you know:P IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8939 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 02:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: No, our relationship is kinda really confusing… but to be honest I think that he should have waited for a year before he said that, cause the longer you wait the more serious it is:P My scorpio venus likes that you know:P
But you said you were already "in love" which is already way beyond serious. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 02:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: But you said you were already "in love" which is already way beyond serious.
But being in love means you just really get the butterflies, that doesn't happen everyday no, but it's not the same as loving a person? Love is more like when you have been together for ages and worked through crisis but still likes each other and hold on… we haven't had a single crisis yet, not even a tiny argument IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5293 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 03:06 PM
quote: But being in love means you just really get the butterflies, that doesn't happen everyday no
Sounds like a crush to me.
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 03:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: [QUOTE]But being in love means you just really get the butterflies, that doesn't happen everyday no
Sounds like a crush to me. [/QUOTE]
have you ever been seriously in love? It feels that way! Butterflies and being nervous! IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5293 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 03:11 PM
No, but I've had butterflies, been nervous and these were crushes. If I fell in love I'd probably go psycho ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1402 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 03:17 PM
My dad almost never said it. Scorpio rising, sag sun, cancer moon, cap mercury, Scorpio Venus, Gemini Mars IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9784 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 03:21 PM
Yeah butterflies are more like a crush.
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 03:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: No, but I've had butterflies, been nervous and these were crushes. If I fell in love I'd probably go psycho
Haha but if you haven't tried it, how could you know then?:P IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5293 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 03:27 PM
Tried what?------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9784 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 03:29 PM
How can you try to be in love you just are or not. But I feel like most people interrupt infatuation/lust for love. Idk I think it's nice some people find love so easily but it's just not like that with everyone.. Honestly if I fell in love with every other person I started dating I would feel like it's not that special... I'm kinda glad im not that way. IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 899 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted March 31, 2014 03:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Polyhemnia: When one sign tells another sign "I love you" what aspects in the chart encourages the expression of such deep feelings? I wanted to tell my Aquarius man "I love you" before he told me, but he beat me to the punch line (I was waiting for the perfect moment)After an offical week of us dating he said "I love you" after a moment of intimacy. (We have known each other for a few years and first met as children [re-met in late high school]) Earlier that day and a few days before he tried to say "I love you" however I wasn't sure if he had said it, and wanted to be sure and not scare him away. Plus wait for the perfect moment. My Aquarius man has the following aspects in his chart: Ascendant-Pisces Sun-Aquarius Moon-Scorpio Mercury-Aquarius Venus-Sagittarius Mars-Leo My aspects are as following: Ascendant-Cancer Sun-Leo Moon-Taurus Mercury-Cancer Venus-Virgo Mars-Gemini So what compells someone to express "I love you" rather quickly or long into the relationship? Thoughts?
I kind of feel like "Ricky" on Noah's Arc when it comes to the expression of the three letter words i.e: "It's words that roll off easy." Does your man have Moon squaring Mars, Mercury opposing Mars or Moon in square aspect to Mercury in the chart? If so, since his signs are mostly fixed, I'd say that it may seem like "early days" to you, but I reckon he has felt this way for a long time. He had to let it out. Oddly, I have similar aspects, but mine are in cardinal signs and when someone says "I love you" to me, I pin them into a submission hold and order them to take them back. Only one guy refused to do that: A Gemini. And we have been riding the love/hate ride for years...years. Honestly I don't know what "I love you" means to others. But as a Sag with Moon in Cancer, I believe that when I never want to be parted from someone, the last thing they'll need to hear are the words for validation because they'll just know it. They'll just "know". IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 03:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Yeah butterflies are more like a crush.
maybe, but it's also nice to date your crush? IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 03:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Tried what?
being in love…! IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 5293 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 31, 2014 03:40 PM
What K said quote: How can you try to be in love you just are or not.
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 03:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: How can you try to be in love you just are or not. But I feel like most people interrupt infatuation/lust for love. Idk I think it's nice some people find love so easily but it's just not like that with everyone.. Honestly if I fell in love with every other person I started dating I would feel like it's not that special... I'm kinda glad im not that way.
hmm maybe… but either I have never been in love for REAL then, or I just fall in love extremely easy, cause it has happened so many times for me :S IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1679 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 04:30 PM
Oh god people shut up. So negative. Who are u to tell someone they are not in love and its just a crush? The worse part is when people are not passionate and are dull, miserable, and single and think they know what love would feel like. Butterflies are only felt for crushes? Why because u said so so it must be huh? Oh please
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 31, 2014 04:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Venusian Moon: Oh god people shut up. So negative. Who are u to tell someone they are not in love and its just a crush? The worse part is when people are not passionate and are dull, miserable, and single and think they know what love would feel like. Butterflies are only felt for crushes? Why because u said so so it must be huh? Oh please
U dont rule the world
Kerosene and So Cappy they are all air and earth, maybe they are just not so much in contact with their feelings??
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