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Polyhemnia
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posted March 31, 2014 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Polyhemnia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When one sign tells another sign "I love you" what aspects in the chart encourages the expression of such deep feelings? I wanted to tell my Aquarius man "I love you" before he told me, but he beat me to the punch line (I was waiting for the perfect moment)

After an offical week of us dating he said "I love you" after a moment of intimacy. (We have known each other for a few years and first met as children [re-met in late high school]) Earlier that day and a few days before he tried to say "I love you" however I wasn't sure if he had said it, and wanted to be sure and not scare him away. Plus wait for the perfect moment.

My Aquarius man has the following aspects in his chart:

Ascendant-Pisces
Sun-Aquarius
Moon-Scorpio
Mercury-Aquarius
Venus-Sagittarius
Mars-Leo

My aspects are as following:

Ascendant-Cancer
Sun-Leo
Moon-Taurus
Mercury-Cancer
Venus-Virgo
Mars-Gemini

So what compells someone to express "I love you" rather quickly or long into the relationship? Thoughts?

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Kerosene
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posted March 31, 2014 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you sure he meant I love you?
Or
I love having sex with you?

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 31, 2014 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^I wouldnt listen to that lol

Dont be disheartened

I think he meant i love you, youve been childhood friends and he tried saying i love you before

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posted March 31, 2014 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When My SO said "I love you" to me for the first time he was extremely drunk lol… but the next day he said it too, while he was very awake. It was kinda too early for my own taste (we had only known each other for a couple of months back then)
But I was so much in love that I just said "I love you too"

I still love him a lot!

Him:
Libra sun
Pisces moon
Virgo mercury
Libra venus
Gemini mars

Me:
Virgo sun
Pisces moon
Libra mercury
Scorpio venus
Virgo mars

We got many of the classical love-aspect in synastry like
venus conjunction mars, mercury and sun, moon opposition venus and sun, sun square neptune, moon trine pluto, ascendant aspecting venus, moon and jupiter and so on

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aquaguy91
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posted March 31, 2014 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by next to neptune:
When My SO said "I love you" to me for the first time he was extremely drunk lol… but the next day he said it too, while he was very awake. It was kinda too early for my own taste (we had only known each other for a couple of months back then)
But I was so much in love that I just said "I love you too"

I still love him a lot!

Him:
Libra sun
Pisces moon
Virgo mercury
Libra venus
Gemini mars

Me:
Virgo sun
Pisces moon
Libra mercury
Scorpio venus
Virgo mars

We got many of the classical love-aspect in synastry like
venus conjunction mars, mercury and sun, moon opposition venus and sun, sun square neptune, moon trine pluto, ascendant aspecting venus, moon and jupiter and so on


So you were in love with him already but felt he said it too early? When did you want him to say it?

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Knowflake

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posted March 31, 2014 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
So you were in love with him already but felt he said it too early? When did you want him to say it?

I think I was in love with him the first time I even saw him:P We were both drunk but I got the guts to kiss him that night lol…
I don't know, but to me it's a very big thing to say, and I think there is also a difference between being in love, and actually love a person…

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aquaguy91
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posted March 31, 2014 01:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by next to neptune:
I think I was in love with him the first time I even saw him:P We were both drunk but I got the guts to kiss him that night lol…
I don't know, but to me it's a very big thing to say, and I think there is also a difference between being in love, and actually love a person…

Huh? Lol that doesnt clear anything up

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posted March 31, 2014 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Huh? Lol that doesnt clear anything up

No, our relationship is kinda really confusing… but to be honest I think that he should have waited for a year before he said that, cause the longer you wait the more serious it is:P My scorpio venus likes that you know:P

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aquaguy91
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posted March 31, 2014 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by next to neptune:
No, our relationship is kinda really confusing… but to be honest I think that he should have waited for a year before he said that, cause the longer you wait the more serious it is:P My scorpio venus likes that you know:P

But you said you were already "in love" which is already way beyond serious.

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posted March 31, 2014 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
But you said you were already "in love" which is already way beyond serious.

But being in love means you just really get the butterflies, that doesn't happen everyday no, but it's not the same as loving a person? Love is more like when you have been together for ages and worked through crisis but still likes each other and hold on… we haven't had a single crisis yet, not even a tiny argument

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I'm so cappy
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posted March 31, 2014 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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But being in love means you just really get the butterflies, that doesn't happen everyday no

Sounds like a crush to me.

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posted March 31, 2014 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
[QUOTE]But being in love means you just really get the butterflies, that doesn't happen everyday no

Sounds like a crush to me.


[/QUOTE]

have you ever been seriously in love? It feels that way! Butterflies and being nervous!

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I'm so cappy
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posted March 31, 2014 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, but I've had butterflies, been nervous and these were crushes. If I fell in love I'd probably go psycho

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DeepFreeze
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posted March 31, 2014 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My dad almost never said it.

Scorpio rising, sag sun, cancer moon, cap mercury, Scorpio Venus, Gemini Mars

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Kerosene
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posted March 31, 2014 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah butterflies are more like a crush.

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posted March 31, 2014 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
No, but I've had butterflies, been nervous and these were crushes. If I fell in love I'd probably go psycho


Haha but if you haven't tried it, how could you know then?:P

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posted March 31, 2014 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tried what?

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Kerosene
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posted March 31, 2014 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How can you try to be in love you just are or not.
But I feel like most people interrupt infatuation/lust for love.

Idk I think it's nice some people find love so easily but it's just not like that with everyone..
Honestly if I fell in love with every other person I started dating I would feel like it's not that special... I'm kinda glad im not that way.

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AscTaurus
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posted March 31, 2014 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Polyhemnia:
When one sign tells another sign "I love you" what aspects in the chart encourages the expression of such deep feelings? I wanted to tell my Aquarius man "I love you" before he told me, but he beat me to the punch line (I was waiting for the perfect moment)

After an offical week of us dating he said "I love you" after a moment of intimacy. (We have known each other for a few years and first met as children [re-met in late high school]) Earlier that day and a few days before he tried to say "I love you" however I wasn't sure if he had said it, and wanted to be sure and not scare him away. Plus wait for the perfect moment.

My Aquarius man has the following aspects in his chart:

Ascendant-Pisces
Sun-Aquarius
Moon-Scorpio
Mercury-Aquarius
Venus-Sagittarius
Mars-Leo

My aspects are as following:

Ascendant-Cancer
Sun-Leo
Moon-Taurus
Mercury-Cancer
Venus-Virgo
Mars-Gemini

So what compells someone to express "I love you" rather quickly or long into the relationship? Thoughts?


I kind of feel like "Ricky" on Noah's Arc when it comes to the expression of the three letter words i.e: "It's words that roll off easy."

Does your man have Moon squaring Mars, Mercury opposing Mars or Moon in square aspect to Mercury in the chart?

If so, since his signs are mostly fixed, I'd say that it may seem like "early days" to you, but I reckon he has felt this way for a long time. He had to let it out.

Oddly, I have similar aspects, but mine are in cardinal signs and when someone says "I love you" to me, I pin them into a submission hold and order them to take them back.

Only one guy refused to do that: A Gemini. And we have been riding the love/hate ride for years...years.

Honestly I don't know what "I love you" means to others. But as a Sag with Moon in Cancer, I believe that when I never want to be parted from someone, the last thing they'll need to hear are the words for validation because they'll just know it. They'll just "know".

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posted March 31, 2014 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Yeah butterflies are more like a crush.

maybe, but it's also nice to date your crush?

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Knowflake

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posted March 31, 2014 03:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Tried what?


being in love…!

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posted March 31, 2014 03:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What K said
quote:
How can you try to be in love you just are or not.

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posted March 31, 2014 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
How can you try to be in love you just are or not.
But I feel like most people interrupt infatuation/lust for love.

Idk I think it's nice some people find love so easily but it's just not like that with everyone..
Honestly if I fell in love with every other person I started dating I would feel like it's not that special... I'm kinda glad im not that way.


hmm maybe… but either I have never been in love for REAL then, or I just fall in love extremely easy, cause it has happened so many times for me :S

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posted March 31, 2014 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh god people shut up. So negative. Who are u to tell someone they are not in love and its just a crush? The worse part is when people are not passionate and are dull, miserable, and single and think they know what love would feel like.


Butterflies are only felt for crushes? Why because u said so so it must be huh? Oh please

U dont rule the world

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posted March 31, 2014 04:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Oh god people shut up. So negative. Who are u to tell someone they are not in love and its just a crush? The worse part is when people are not passionate and are dull, miserable, and single and think they know what love would feel like.


Butterflies are only felt for crushes? Why because u said so so it must be huh? Oh please

U dont rule the world


Kerosene and So Cappy they are all air and earth, maybe they are just not so much in contact with their feelings??

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